SisterSarah(other female)

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What is a Daddy/babygirl relationship?

6 years ago. April 15, 2018 at 11:15 PM

I am recently going through a transformation in my life. I used to think that what I was meant to be was a sub, but that has all changed due to circumstances in the past few months. I recently started talking to this guy who seems genuine, kind, and actually wants to be needed as much as I need somebody that will make me feel loved. My worst fear is to put trust in a man and then have him use my bad qualities against me and make me feel useless and worthless just like my father did. But this man seems to the most non judgemental person I've ever met. I've always made it a rule to divulge my poor decisions in my past that way if they decide I'm not good enough it saves us both a lot of time. But this guy acts like it's absolutely no big deal. Then I found them on FetLife. And his profile it said he was a daddy Dom without a baby girl. I'm curious to know what everyone has to say about the rules each one of them play in that relationship because it might be what I need right now in this time of my life. He needs to feel needed and I need somebody to help me get back to the person I was because I cannot do it on my own. Thank you in advance for your advice and help

UnrulyNerdGirl(sub female) - Hello. To start, there are no set rules or set definitions when it comes to relationships. All relationships are unique, because the dynamics are crafted by the two individuals involved. A relationship may have a title or archetype, but that doesn’t define the relationship.

Second, you are deserving of love and belonging as you are - period. You don’t need someone to think you are good enough, you are enough on your own terms. I would recommend that if you need to feel loved, that you begin by loving yourself. Expecting to feel value or worthiness by being loved by another is like renting a house - the owner could easily evict you, or give you 30 days to leave etc. - and if they leave, what happens to your sense of love. Best advice, pay yourself first, invest in yourself first, and then, if you would like someone in your life, who is deserving of your trust and love, then you are meeting him or her on equal footing.

As for divulging poor decisions in the past - we have all failed, we’re human - it doesn’t make us any less. We make mistakes and we hopefully learn from them - this is beneficial to us in a few ways, because we hopefully grow and evolve, and we hopefully never make the same mistake twice.

As for rules, the only rules that matter are the ones the two of you negotiate. If what you are seeking is a nurturing Dominant who will care for you, support you, and guide you, and your Dominant wants to provide such to you, I think those are the only rules or definitions that are needed with a Daddy/baby girl relationship.

Best of luck, I hope it works out for you.

6 years ago

Bunnie - A DaddyDom is a superhero :) lol... and they may even have a cape.

6 years ago

Bunnie - *a babygirl gives them a reason to own one :)

6 years ago

Hisproclivity(sub female) - Bunnie Bravo!

6 years ago

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SisterSarah​(other female)

What's Going On?

What is a Daddy/babygirl relationship?

SisterSarah(other female)