Musings of a submissive

A true Dom understands the difference between wants and needs.  They protect, guide, and support their submissive.  They hold the power but show mercy.  The submissive feels safe with them and because of this, the desire to please and serve their Dom only grows stronger.

There are many good men out there, but there are many reasons why I love this man of mine and am so grateful he chose me.

1. He is dominant in his own life; he takes care of his responsibilities, so I can trust him to take care of me.
2. He may be a relatively new Dom, but he does his research and takes his role seriously.
3. He makes sure that all our issues or concerns are addressed and resolved before we go to bed.
4. He supports all areas of our relationship, not just the sexual aspects.
5. He always makes sure that our rituals, routines, and rules are working for us and growing us as a couple; if they are not, we talk about what isn’t working and adjust.
6. He always makes sure that I know how much he values and cherishes me.
7. He makes my life better just for knowing him.
8. He is authentic, caring, and considerate to everyone.  
9. He earned my respect before he ever asked to be called my dom.