Highway to hell

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A “new” type of sub

3 years ago. September 16, 2020 at 9:27 PM

So I’ve recently noticed a new type of sub. What do you mean a new type of sub, you may ask. Well I call them the “vacation” sub. Vacation sub??

I refer to a vacation sub those subs that just come and go. They spend some time with you. About a week or so. They go through the motions of meeting your requirements and what you want out of them. Then they just leave. I message them one day. No answer. Message them the next day. No answer again. So I stop. Then after maybe a week or so they come back. “Hey I was really busy cuz of work and personal life”. Hmmm I wonder if I have “idiot” stamped on my forehead. I decide to amuse them “yes I understand life can get hectic and it’s fine”. No it’s not but at this point I want to mess around. They stay for a while and things are cool. They do everything you tell them “send a video cumming”. “Yes mistress, right away”. Then the same thing. They up and leave. At this point I’m annoyed. After some time they come back around “yeah I’m really sorry mistress I swear I won’t leave like this again but there was something you said that freaked me out”. Am I a wall or something? I believe I’m friendly enough that none of my subs should be scared to tell me I said something that freaked them out. I want them to talk to me instead of just running! So I tell the “vacation” sub to find a new place to vacation. “No mistress I’m sorry please don’t leave me! I’ll do anything you want!!!”. Not happening. I’m not your mistress or anything for you. No, I don’t want anything you have to offer. No, I’m not talking it out now after a few weeks of you being MIA. Look for a new domme. I’m simply bored of your bs excuses and your desire to run. You’re either with me during the good and the bad or you’re out.

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - That sort of sub totally lacks the integrity of being true to his word. He is a mere lying game player and I admire you for giving him chances, but he proved to be untrustworthy and unworthy of the honor to belong to you and serve you. Yes...life can get hectic at times, but for you to message him and get no reply from him...at least by the next day...shows his unwillingness to place great importance upon your righteous place of Supremacy over a mere sub. It's disrespectful to your right to have a place of priority in his life. So...bye bye bye. Righteously!
I've by the way. ..have always liked that video.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - I have done this, returned apologised and said i realised that i wasn't ready for a relationship after taking a few days to think. Also depends how your connected if its email it can be tricky with the internet. But i do think there are people also just looking for kink too and get a kick out of having a session rather than a dynamic and can't understand the difference. Just my perspective

3 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - Yes...for some subs...it is pretend. They only find interest in being sub for sexual reasons. A real relationship involves so much more than that alone. A woman deserves to be looked up to for ALL that she is...not solely for her sexuality.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - Its a common misunderstanding about bdsm. Sad really.

3 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - Yes... unfortunately it is a common factor. Yet..a relationship between a Dom and sub is just as real and beautiful as any relationship.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - Yes it is and from the outside can look quite like a typical relationship too. Its a special bond

3 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - Most surely! It's quite natural to share ups and downs.... laughter and tears...easy and hard times and quite many fun loving or romantic Vanilla interests together.

3 years ago

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Dom's do it as well....they come, say LL the right words...leave and come back with "hey!" Like they are all that and a bag of chips.

3 years ago

SirsBabyDoll(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Damn you Jim!!!!! You keep forgetting the *A* before those LL's!!!!!

*Say all the right words....

*Sigh* I hate my auto-correct and too fast thumbs.

3 years ago

rosethorn(sub female) - Autocorrect sucks sometimes

3 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - I agree! This problem does exist in regard to Dom's, as well as subs. Some people... whether they are Dom, sub or mainstream vanilla....just don't care to give value and importance to the gift of even having a relationship.

3 years ago

emeX(sub male) - Comment deleted by poster.

3 years ago

Race Bannon(dom male) - Or, the vacation sub isnt being honest about his relationship status and communicates with you when he's not with the SO.

3 years ago

Johnny slave sub(sub male){I'd most w} - This is true...unfortunately, both subs and Doms could be guilty of doing this.

3 years ago

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Highway to hell

A “new” type of sub

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