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Rose's Thorns.

A general pondering.
5 years ago. March 2, 2019 at 10:11 PM

im not sure if my link has been interrupted or if chat has been amazing quiet for the past week or two 

Radiance​(dom female) - the room has been dead, and if anyone is in there they don't talk, Its a shame
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Its a shame, had some lovely chats there and its a brilliant function.
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - why separate people, I thought they came here for kink KIK isn't a BDsm site
5 years ago
shahh - Hey girl. Dead for a while yeah. Too many 'know-it-alls', bad manners and cliques so many left for private groups. For you or anyone else, ask whoever you feel most comfy with and you'll find places to group chat. You're awesome so just put yourself out there a bit. It's such a shame. Was a great place for a while.
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - That's really kind of you to say Shahh, its a shame as Admin are on there game on here, other places don't have the privacy, it might have been getting a bit too crowded at times too, if you went into another chat you got thrown out.
The Door seemed to be playing up a little. Im not keen on using apps as the hold the conversation and your personal info, its why they are free, its like coming out to a complete stranger and you don't know where that info will go or resurface but it does mostly through ad companies who code call.
5 years ago
shahh - I can dedinitely understand your concerns. Admins do their best but the busier the site...the more shenanigans...so lots takes time to get to.
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - and isn't KIK more of a bitch feast ?
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I wouldn't know, it seems to be well... we can talk on kik… you go on kik … send me nudes … erm nope
5 years ago
shahh - Depends on the group Radi but definitely can be.
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Erm.. okay, I liked it there but each to there own, I suppose its how many are in chat too as it can get really hectic at times or did.
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - I wouldn't know Kyrie I am not here enough anymore, it's a shame how it died
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - true rose it was packed in December, its a pity half of the people didn't join it would be fun
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Its a shame but ive started to tell people in RL about me recently
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - that's great rose Rl is good, you get to feel touch, and taste, and do all the naughty stuff too
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks, im letting some real life friends know so fingers crossed. xx
5 years ago
shahh - Good for you !!!!
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Thanks im trying to be brave
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - Comment deleted by poster.
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - but sensible at the same time too.
5 years ago
shahh - Lol. Be you... Everything will come together.
5 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - Its very sad how the Lobby has gone. Back when I first joined here and stuck my head in a few times it was always busy. I confess I had a bad view of what chat rooms were from past experience so didn't bother much. After I left and came back last April I gave the chat room a go and enjoyed it, but alas I arrived at the party late and it wasn't long before lobby began to die, and go off.

As it is now I find lobby uncomfortable due to a few 'bad presences, being there and I find it very hard to feel relaxed to talk much, when people who have hurt my sub are there and others who hate me are hanging on my every word, to attack, I can tell from how others who are not blocked react. Lobby sucks these days for me and I can't see it improving until the block feature on the Cage makes those people vanish completely and my presence to them also vanishes.

Many decent people have left the site, and many who are still here no longer enter the lobby and often its down to the presence of certain people in there. I know some created Kik chat groups off site, but those ultimately didn't work for me.

Some might say create your own room and I did for awhile and it was fun, but these days I don't think its the answer. For me I don't know what the answer is, nor do I know what the answer is for you Rose or the future of the lobby.
5 years ago
Bunnie - I think a lot of people also are just doing their own thing. The people that have been in there when I’ve popped in have been a great group to chat with... lots of friendly newbies, and even a few of the dinosaurs who haven’t been on here in forever have popped their heads in which was great. I’m sorry to hear it’s more quiet, that sucks. Hopefully soon it will gain a new group to bring it to life again... that’s generally how the cycle seems to go.

Hope you’re well... that’s great to hear that you’re sharing more of yourself with those close to you :)
5 years ago
Hisproclivity​(sub female) - I definitely miss chat. Everytime I pop in it is dead.
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - Maybe we should all come up with a time to meet , even if it’s once a week , just to see how everyone’s doing
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Im happy to host it after next week as I have time, we can arrange a time best for everyone US and UK :)
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - and Canada too ,lol
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - how can there be Drama when no ones in there?
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Just realised how this thread has essentially turned into chat, so we are obviously still here, some of us anyway x
5 years ago
Radiance​(dom female) - rose your such a sweet heart, never change xoxoxo
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Awww same to you too rad x
5 years ago
justu​(switch male) - I had a really fun chat last night in another chat rm with Jash, JL, MK, MzL, Wicked, Trace and a few others..Chat rooms still work as long as everyone is actively chatting. Somehow the subject shifted from bdsm to irish beer lol. So Rose if you schedule a happy hour say on a Friday afternoon I might come!
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - I cant promise the topic of irish whiskey not coming up on a friday afternoon but I will try, I will just give it a few more days incase anyone else has a suggestion or time best for them.
5 years ago
justu​(switch male) - Yes Red different website. Irish Whiskey will not attract me to a Happy Hour but hors d'oeuvre will.
5 years ago
rosethorn​(sub female) - Noted blue :) hope they are having a good time on the new site.
5 years ago
justu​(switch male) - Thx Red..Thats funny Fud because a friend of mine suggested we all go back to MIRC.
Yep I am really old lol
5 years ago
Miss Tia​(sub female) - I used to go in chat to learn more about people, joke around...but that was when I was premium. It became a choices of medical bills or other odd things like the chat.
Ugh adulting sucks 😂
5 years ago

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