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Ramblings and musings of a fox who is struggling to pull herself together and regain the confidence that was once broken and stripped from her. Will most likely be nothing more than a mind dump when things are getting rough.
5 years ago. November 12, 2018 at 1:58 PM

Why, oh why, do people not seem to have common courtesy and respect? 

 

Constantly, I'm messaged and propositioned for being people's Domme/Mistress. When it says very obviously on my profile that I'm not here for that. 

 

I'm married and currently monogamous. All I want is my husband. No one else. 

 

And then some of these people have the balls to tell me they're better than my husband? 

 

Fuck you. You're not. Just the simple fact that you're so prideful you think it's okay to say that, proves he's better. 

 

Respect, courtesy, understanding, honesty... All very important in a D/s relationship. You're showing none of those when you proposition someone A) without reading their profile, or B) having read it and choosing to ignore their wishes. 

 

Read a profile before you message to ask for something. Seriously, it takes two seconds. 

 

Makes me want to turn off PMs, but I dont want to deny people who wish to speak about legitimate things. 

HuntertheYeenQueen​(dom femme){Allie Kat} - I figure it's probably that, which absolutely as you said is a major turn-off. Even if I was interested, the way I'm being approached makes me not want it at all. I'm really considering changing my message settings, i just dont want to leave people who want to get a hold of me for good reasons, unable to because they're not premium or something. It definitely wont chase me off of the site Haha, it's just very frustrating. Worst thing that happens is I try premium only messaging even though I dont want to. And then no messaging if even that is still bad (Though, I feel like if you're paying, you prolly will have more respect. It seems like mostly new, unpaying members reaching out.)
5 years ago

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