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Muscle Shoals, Alabama
Male Dom seeking Female Sub
I currently live in the south and my last sub had a lifestyle change (got married) and I need a new sub(s). If you're interested message me, I'm open to many things in this world. The most I can do is say no. Willing to chat, text, the occasional phone conversation, and possibly a meet in the future.
May 30, 2022 at 6:56 PM
34 y/o
United Kingdom
Searching for loyal female to be my sub
Looking for a sub to submit to me to let me push there boundaries online to humiliate and punish and ultimately build a trust.
May 30, 2022 at 1:18 PM
Vermont
Open minded fun
I’m a single novice dom. I do intend to gain more experience but unfortunately where I live prevents me from advancing. I’ll answer any questions the reader of this might be curious about. I’m not looking for a play mate so don’t bother unless you are into ltr irl and open minded about perverse sex.
May 27, 2022 at 9:41 AM
21 y/o
Massachusetts
19M Dom Looking for an Online Sub Close to My Age
Hi! I’m a 19M Dom from Central Massachusetts and I am looking for a new sub! Despite my age, I have a decent amount of experience, especially in online dynamics, so if you’re new to the scene then I can and would be happy to help.
Because of logistics and other irl things, I most likely can’t do in-person stuff for now, but I would love to have an online dynamic! Like I said, I have a decent amount of experience online, having had a few online subs in the past.
If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message! By the way, if you’re not okay with sending NSFW pictures or things of that nature that is 100% okay and I would still be thrilled to have you as a sub. Thanks!
Because of logistics and other irl things, I most likely can’t do in-person stuff for now, but I would love to have an online dynamic! Like I said, I have a decent amount of experience online, having had a few online subs in the past.
If you’re interested, feel free to send me a message! By the way, if you’re not okay with sending NSFW pictures or things of that nature that is 100% okay and I would still be thrilled to have you as a sub. Thanks!
May 25, 2022 at 9:26 AM
United States
New to BDSM, looking for a submissive woman
I am new to the BDSM world, and looking for an online D/s relationship with a submissive woman.
May 24, 2022 at 9:25 PM
34 y/o
Poole, England
Seeking For Full Time Subs
I am looking for a full time sub who is willing and obedient, and also wanting a full time Dom/Sub Relationship
May 24, 2022 at 2:09 PM
Boston, Massachusetts
Boston’s bachelor
Hello all,
I’m new to The Cage but I’ve been kinky for a while now and I’m trying to branch out in the city to discover all there is in the Boston BDSM community. Not only am I trying to find play partners, munches, and events, I’m also interested in making friends with like minded individuals or couples in the area. Let’s chat!
I’m new to The Cage but I’ve been kinky for a while now and I’m trying to branch out in the city to discover all there is in the Boston BDSM community. Not only am I trying to find play partners, munches, and events, I’m also interested in making friends with like minded individuals or couples in the area. Let’s chat!
May 24, 2022 at 12:26 PM
England
18 m uk dom lookinf subs
hi guys im new here 18 m uk dom looking subs can be trand m to f ,and fem boys and girls,iam very polite and can come to enjoy a new relationship,thanks you again for ur time : )
May 21, 2022 at 10:25 AM
39 y/o
Lead Hill, Arkansas
Babygirl?
Weres my good little girl
Daddy dom looking for his good little girl maby its you babygirl if your interested please give me a holler beautiful ? And I prefer to video chat I hope u do to babygirl ?
Daddy dom looking for his good little girl maby its you babygirl if your interested please give me a holler beautiful ? And I prefer to video chat I hope u do to babygirl ?
May 18, 2022 at 11:36 AM
California
Bay Area Daddy seeking little one
Daddy of 10 years new to Bay area in California looking to take on a local little one - to guide, nurture, train to be the best she can be, for herself as well as for her Daddy.
Long term arrangement preferred, however I am open to have a conversation.
Say hello if my profile or this ad interests you. Even if we don't mesh, im happy to chat and provide info/guidance/and a friendly conversation.
tattooed, bearded, respectful
Long term arrangement preferred, however I am open to have a conversation.
Say hello if my profile or this ad interests you. Even if we don't mesh, im happy to chat and provide info/guidance/and a friendly conversation.
tattooed, bearded, respectful
May 17, 2022 at 9:58 AM
Miami, Florida
Straight Sadist seeking beta to degrade, feminize & own
The title says it all, pretty much.
To avoid wasting my time and any potential applicants time - I am a masc, bearded, business professional of Spanish and Italian descent.
I am seeking a long term and discreet arrangement with very few limits. I am based in South florida - I am married and require the utmost discretion. If you think that you’re an ideal fit - you likely are, I can break any beta.
Submit the following prior to your submission to me -
Age/experience/location/goals/body type
Tell me a bit about how you discovered you were. beta and why you think I should choose you over all of the other pathetic betas that will likely apply.
Talk soon.
To avoid wasting my time and any potential applicants time - I am a masc, bearded, business professional of Spanish and Italian descent.
I am seeking a long term and discreet arrangement with very few limits. I am based in South florida - I am married and require the utmost discretion. If you think that you’re an ideal fit - you likely are, I can break any beta.
Submit the following prior to your submission to me -
Age/experience/location/goals/body type
Tell me a bit about how you discovered you were. beta and why you think I should choose you over all of the other pathetic betas that will likely apply.
Talk soon.
May 16, 2022 at 11:38 PM
Australia
Life as a nomad
I enjoy life as a grey nomad and am looking for a partner to be my 24/7 sub. Princess by day slut by night. The retired lifestyle is fantastic, we will tour Australia everyday.
Your desires and fantasies can be anywhere on the spectrum only that you want to serve and be serviced (everyday).
Pm me for more information.
Your desires and fantasies can be anywhere on the spectrum only that you want to serve and be serviced (everyday).
Pm me for more information.
May 15, 2022 at 7:03 AM
51 y/o
Denver, Colorado
Laid back poly Master seeks slave girl to join family
I have been living the M/s lifestyle for the last 9 years, with 10 years of BDSM experiance befor that. I am a teacher in my local community, presenting on Power Exchange, BDSM skills, and Communication and Emotional Maturity.
These are things that are foundations of my relationships.
I seek women who are able to surrender Authorityy from a place of persaonal strength. And I know that to be able to surrender, first trust must be built. I am not looking for instant gratification but to spend time getting to know if a woman to see if we are compatible. the end goal is to have that woman join our house hold as a full member of the family.
My preferred "type" are 25-35 years old, well purportioned women of any ethnicity.
These are things that are foundations of my relationships.
I seek women who are able to surrender Authorityy from a place of persaonal strength. And I know that to be able to surrender, first trust must be built. I am not looking for instant gratification but to spend time getting to know if a woman to see if we are compatible. the end goal is to have that woman join our house hold as a full member of the family.
My preferred "type" are 25-35 years old, well purportioned women of any ethnicity.
May 12, 2022 at 10:08 AM
58 y/o
Michigan
Highly Experienced Dominant Male aged 53 seeking a submissive female. Detroit, Michigan
I absolutely love to introduce newbie submissives to the scene. Drug and disease free me and you.
You safety is my main concern. We can meet in a vanilla public space where you feel comfortable. You would then tell Me what your desires from this type of relationship. I also have hard limits. No scat, blood, needles, branding, etc... (Not to be judgmental, but that shit is gross and just wrong).
I always use safe words and gestures. I have been training from those in the scene in San Francisco (since 1996), New York (I am there frequently so why not?), Detroit too has quite a scene.
I have a home in Metro Detroit and also one in the Upper Peninsula as well. It’s not far from the Mackinaw Bridge, on the grid, beautiful property for outside activities (Like bondage). The house is small, yet it has a variety of places to have a female submissive restrained so I can have my way with her. In addition, I have a pole barn too. Rafters for ropes, dirt floor if that’s your thing.
We could also meet at my main residence too. Looks of places for fun to be had there as well.
A long term relationship is not out of the question. If you will to relocate, all the better either way.
If you are looking for a Dominant, remember that I have a ton of experience that I would love to share.
For example, I am very good at edging a women with a Hitachi Wand.
Kids are grown, no other interference—Just privacy.
Hit Me Up, you will not be disappointed.
You safety is my main concern. We can meet in a vanilla public space where you feel comfortable. You would then tell Me what your desires from this type of relationship. I also have hard limits. No scat, blood, needles, branding, etc... (Not to be judgmental, but that shit is gross and just wrong).
I always use safe words and gestures. I have been training from those in the scene in San Francisco (since 1996), New York (I am there frequently so why not?), Detroit too has quite a scene.
I have a home in Metro Detroit and also one in the Upper Peninsula as well. It’s not far from the Mackinaw Bridge, on the grid, beautiful property for outside activities (Like bondage). The house is small, yet it has a variety of places to have a female submissive restrained so I can have my way with her. In addition, I have a pole barn too. Rafters for ropes, dirt floor if that’s your thing.
We could also meet at my main residence too. Looks of places for fun to be had there as well.
A long term relationship is not out of the question. If you will to relocate, all the better either way.
If you are looking for a Dominant, remember that I have a ton of experience that I would love to share.
For example, I am very good at edging a women with a Hitachi Wand.
Kids are grown, no other interference—Just privacy.
Hit Me Up, you will not be disappointed.
May 8, 2022 at 11:42 AM
Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
Looking for Dynamic
Hello out there!
I am an older Daddy Dom that is newer to the scene with a few years of experience. I am looking for a loyal and loving little, brat, or pet that is looking to be cared for, loved, trained, and molded into my perfect little one. I am very open and interested in a wide variety of kinks and desires and am looking for a long term online to irl situation or meeting someone close to home and see how we hit it off.
If you are interested in learning more or learning about me, drop me a line.
I am an older Daddy Dom that is newer to the scene with a few years of experience. I am looking for a loyal and loving little, brat, or pet that is looking to be cared for, loved, trained, and molded into my perfect little one. I am very open and interested in a wide variety of kinks and desires and am looking for a long term online to irl situation or meeting someone close to home and see how we hit it off.
If you are interested in learning more or learning about me, drop me a line.
May 3, 2022 at 1:07 AM
34 y/o
New Jersey
Looking for my hunny bunny that I can tie tight and gag hard! ;)
I'm 31 yrs old and haven't had any luck with some other dating sites. I'm looking for a playmate/girlfriend who's submissive to my every will (in the bedroom of course) but when time comes to do other stuff, I'm the type of guy who likes to do outdoor stuff (swimming, hiking, skateboarding, etc.), playing video games, occasionally reading books as well. It's not a deal breaker but a similar taste in movies would be nice. But anyways I'm rambling, if you're down for a good time, message me. We'll set something up, hope to hear from you. Have a super cool day!
May 1, 2022 at 4:26 PM
United States
In Cleveland
I am a dominant with several years of experience and I will be in Cleveland for work the first week of May. I would welcome the opportunity to meet a lovely woman...submissive....and see if we can have some fun while I am there (and if we connect, then even more after)....
May 1, 2022 at 4:25 AM
26 y/o
Deptford, New Jersey
Come play
Looking to do anything and everything
April 30, 2022 at 9:30 AM
Delaware
Beautiful dom looking for a female sub
Hello everyone. I'm a 21 year old male dom who's looking for a cis submissive female partner. Basically, I'd like to tie you down and do naughty things to you. Lots of chains, whips, hair-pulling, making you BEG for it, etc.
Not looking for anything super-specific. I'd like to chat first and then see if we can make something happen irl. Tbh I'm more of a sub myself, but I absolutely believe I'm capable of dominating ANY woman mwahahaha >:)
It's all in good fun, of course. I would never actually hurt you, I promise. If I caught your interest, feel free to message me!!!
Not looking for anything super-specific. I'd like to chat first and then see if we can make something happen irl. Tbh I'm more of a sub myself, but I absolutely believe I'm capable of dominating ANY woman mwahahaha >:)
It's all in good fun, of course. I would never actually hurt you, I promise. If I caught your interest, feel free to message me!!!
April 29, 2022 at 4:56 AM
Amman, Amman Governorate
Dom male looking for submissive female
Im a 6,5 male bushy beard looking for a submissive female to get to know aswell as finding weaknesses and enjoying their kinks
April 28, 2022 at 9:16 AM
United Kingdom
35 Male Experienced Dominant Looking for female sub UK/Online
I have been in the lifestyle for the past 15 years. I enjoy both mental and physical connection, more about me in my profile and some of the writings I posted here. If interested and serious message me.
April 27, 2022 at 10:01 AM
49 y/o
Mineola, Texas
Iso monogamous sub .
Iso sub who only wants 1 Daddy! I'm out of practice w my bad manners bc I had a devoted slave for 24 yrs. Widower now for 2 yrs and I need a new brat.
April 27, 2022 at 6:42 AM
49 y/o
Reno, Nevada
Seeking my forever sub
46 year old Gentleman Dom is seeking his forever sub/babygirl. I want only a monogamous relationship in and out of the lifestyle. I would prefer to live the lifestyle 24/7. I am open to a long distance relationship with the goal of being together in person. I am willing to relocate to my potential sub’s locale if we work out. I am not into games. Please be serious if you choose to respond to my ad.
I prefer women who are curvy or BBW. I am stocky myself. I want to build a great relationship based on friendship, trust and loyalty. Communication is imperative with me. Please have time in your life. I will spoil you with my time, attention and affection. I want to eventually collar you.
I prefer women who are curvy or BBW. I am stocky myself. I want to build a great relationship based on friendship, trust and loyalty. Communication is imperative with me. Please have time in your life. I will spoil you with my time, attention and affection. I want to eventually collar you.
April 26, 2022 at 10:31 PM
Edison, New Jersey
Searching for my Kitten
I'm a Gentleman Dom with primal tendencies searching for a female Sub/FWB/ENM.
I'm married, open and poly.
I'm married, open and poly.
April 26, 2022 at 11:25 AM
Baton Rouge, Louisiana
Been in the lifestyle for couple years but working hard at it
I would like a sub that younger, race does not matter, just don't want a sub that been trained for a long time by someone else. I guess I am saying that I want to make this journey with a sub female that learning the lifestyle with me and we do it together. Anyway if you are new to this or somewhat new and you want to give me a try then please message me.
April 25, 2022 at 9:52 AM
United States
Male sadist for LTR
Hello, I'm a 25 year old sadist. I've been in the bdsm community for a long time. Ive been called sweet and understanding in the past, but I'm still a stern and very strict dominant. I'm searching for a long term relationship. I would like to find a sub or slave that wants to settle down with one very kinky man, and have a real 24/7 relationship. Feel free to check out my profile if you are interested, and if you enjoy reading it shoot me a message! I'm not looking to rush into anything, but I would like to get to know you :) I'm more interested in a true connection than I am your age or your looks.
April 24, 2022 at 5:35 PM
Paris, Île-de-France
Daddy Dom
I'm a Daddy Dom who would like to meet a submissive woman to satisfy all my sexual needs, in a fun and exciting way. I can wear, Fetish clothes and use SM accessories. The picture is really me.
April 21, 2022 at 9:39 AM
53 y/o
France
Dominant Business Man looking for Sub
51 year old business man looking for experienced sub to join me on business trips throughout Europe twice a month. Airfare and hotel taken care of. Please know I am into hardcore BDSM. Feel free to message me to learn more.
April 20, 2022 at 10:59 AM
Casablanca, Casablanca-Settat
Dominant man from Casablanca looking for submissive woman
Hello,
I am seeking a submissive woman ready to relocate to Casablanca which is a modern and welcoming city, especially for people speaking English. I am seeking an open minded submissive woman who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7 and try new things. I am seeking someone with no limits, who is ready to start a new life to be used for sexual use. Women woth degrees are highly appreciated as I am an intellectual. Blue eyes are much appreciated. If interested, let me know.
I am seeking a submissive woman ready to relocate to Casablanca which is a modern and welcoming city, especially for people speaking English. I am seeking an open minded submissive woman who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7 and try new things. I am seeking someone with no limits, who is ready to start a new life to be used for sexual use. Women woth degrees are highly appreciated as I am an intellectual. Blue eyes are much appreciated. If interested, let me know.
April 20, 2022 at 8:13 AM
Berlin, Berlin
Pet girl wanted <3
I’m looking for a sub who will also be my friend, lover, and partner :) A girl I can take care of, support, teach & train - within a healthy relationship built on communication, trust, admiration & respect.
First, a quick intro :) I'm originally from New Zealand, I live in Berlin and can travel easily, being my own boss. I'm a fit, successful 38 year old guy - I’m a musician, I work in tech, love to cook, write, travel, and have a lot of interests and projects on the go. I’d say I’m a caring but strict Dom.
I'm posting this because I want to build an amazing D/s dynamic together - the precise nature & rules cannot be known in advance, it’s something we both develop as we get to know each other - but I have many ideas and desires, so I will mention just some of the kinds of things that excite me:
I love using reward and punishment to bring the best out of a dynamic. I love giving pleasure, but it must be earned, just like I must earn your submission ;)
I like to give rewards in the form of pleasure, treats, favours, privileges, for giving me full satisfaction and pleasure, and learning to know what I need and want without having to be told. I love to come up with creative challenges & tasks, with the motivation of rewards & special treats, or punishment for failure. As for punishment, there’s the "play" punishment that turns you on and makes you crazy with desire, and then there’s actual punishment that you don't like. I can be creative with both, but I’d prefer a dynamic with more of the pleasurable kind :)
I’d love a sub who gets really turned on by being used as a play thing. This includes toys, restraints, costumes, blindfolds, random stuff like being body painted, tied up in certain positions and enjoyed in creative ways
I seek a sub who wants to master the art of pleasure, as well as being a work of art in herself. A sub who loves to learn and improve, with plenty of tasks and goals, rewards and punishments to help along the way :)
I believe that as a sub, you have ultimate control! You can always decide when things aren't working, when to stop, when to push or extend - you can always open up & communicate, we are both exploring together and we both want the same fulfilment.
As a partner, I want someone I can support in their general life goals & aspirations, and someone who can be supportive and encouraging of mine.
If you’ve read this far, that’s great, please reach out and say hi, and let’s see where things go :)
First, a quick intro :) I'm originally from New Zealand, I live in Berlin and can travel easily, being my own boss. I'm a fit, successful 38 year old guy - I’m a musician, I work in tech, love to cook, write, travel, and have a lot of interests and projects on the go. I’d say I’m a caring but strict Dom.
I'm posting this because I want to build an amazing D/s dynamic together - the precise nature & rules cannot be known in advance, it’s something we both develop as we get to know each other - but I have many ideas and desires, so I will mention just some of the kinds of things that excite me:
I love using reward and punishment to bring the best out of a dynamic. I love giving pleasure, but it must be earned, just like I must earn your submission ;)
I like to give rewards in the form of pleasure, treats, favours, privileges, for giving me full satisfaction and pleasure, and learning to know what I need and want without having to be told. I love to come up with creative challenges & tasks, with the motivation of rewards & special treats, or punishment for failure. As for punishment, there’s the "play" punishment that turns you on and makes you crazy with desire, and then there’s actual punishment that you don't like. I can be creative with both, but I’d prefer a dynamic with more of the pleasurable kind :)
I’d love a sub who gets really turned on by being used as a play thing. This includes toys, restraints, costumes, blindfolds, random stuff like being body painted, tied up in certain positions and enjoyed in creative ways
I seek a sub who wants to master the art of pleasure, as well as being a work of art in herself. A sub who loves to learn and improve, with plenty of tasks and goals, rewards and punishments to help along the way :)
I believe that as a sub, you have ultimate control! You can always decide when things aren't working, when to stop, when to push or extend - you can always open up & communicate, we are both exploring together and we both want the same fulfilment.
As a partner, I want someone I can support in their general life goals & aspirations, and someone who can be supportive and encouraging of mine.
If you’ve read this far, that’s great, please reach out and say hi, and let’s see where things go :)
April 19, 2022 at 9:23 AM
Texas
Looking for a sub/masochist To be owned in a monogamous LTR
Hi young lady, I am a Dom Who lives in Texas in particularly in Garland.
I am 61 years old physician, and I am looking for a long-term relationship with the female sub in A monogamous relationship.
Please let me hear from you if you are interested.
I am 61 years old physician, and I am looking for a long-term relationship with the female sub in A monogamous relationship.
Please let me hear from you if you are interested.
April 18, 2022 at 5:55 PM
Argentina
Could we be a good match?
Hi, I'm a 23 yo dom male. I am currently seeing an online situation that would develop into a LTR. As far as what would make for a good dynamic, it is a give and take and I would like to figure that out with my sub.
I am a tall, lean attractive guy and am well traveled. The best dynamic for me would start online and gradually develop into something more serious and possibly in person. Please reach out if you think we would be a good match!
I am a tall, lean attractive guy and am well traveled. The best dynamic for me would start online and gradually develop into something more serious and possibly in person. Please reach out if you think we would be a good match!
April 18, 2022 at 5:53 PM
Jefferson City, Missouri
Master/dom looking for a slave/sub
I am looking for a partner to going into a strict D/S relationship with. I am married so this would only be for a dynamic lifestyle. My wife may join at times but it mostly would be me.
April 18, 2022 at 5:52 PM
70 y/o
Cumming, Georgia
Dominant for the when I can have a good connection with.
I have been involved in the lifestyle for many years and have a vast amount of experience and knowledge to share with that one who desires to serve me. Your submission is a gift to be taken seriously and not likely. Whether you're looking for a daddy or to serve a master it all depends on what your desires are. This is all consensual and limits are respected. I consider myself to be an affectionate and caring dominant who can teach you and be your guide in the lifestyle. This is not something that's all about sex but about the dynamic between a dominant and as submissive. I want someone with whom I can connect with.
I'm looking for someone in north Georgia area and surrounding area that's knows they are submissive and has a burning desire to serve. I'm not into games or long emails. I'm intelligent and if you can hold a conversation that would be a plus.
I am a single, mature and experienced Dom and seeking a female submissive for a long-term D's dynamic relationship.
I'm looking for someone in north Georgia area and surrounding area that's knows they are submissive and has a burning desire to serve. I'm not into games or long emails. I'm intelligent and if you can hold a conversation that would be a plus.
I am a single, mature and experienced Dom and seeking a female submissive for a long-term D's dynamic relationship.
April 11, 2022 at 9:38 AM
Pennsylvania
Someone To Grow With
I've been knowledgeable about the world of BDSM for years, but now I'm looking to get into it. I want someone local that I can get with, someone open-minded, trustworthy, and not judgemental. I don't have much experience, but I'm definitely eager and definitely giving. If this is something that interests you, message me.
April 10, 2022 at 5:27 AM
52 y/o
Irvington, New Jersey
DOMINATE SEEKING SUB SEX SLAVE
LONG TERM
April 9, 2022 at 3:00 PM
34 y/o
Virginia
Looking for a willing slave
Hello there my pet, I see you found my ad. I decided to update my previous ad, since it didn't seem to be doing so well.
I am Garret Mvahd, I am an upcoming game developer who is getting rather sick of dealing with women who seem to be a tad too opinionated. So I thought I'd make this simple. I am looking for a slave, specifically, a sex slave, who will give themselves and their obedience over to me and my will. I expect total obedience from you and I expect you to heed me when I speak and give orders.
I do have standards, so no women who are older than me, women between the ages of 18 and 22 preferred. Will go as high as the mid twenties. Must be attractive and fit. No tattoos or crazy piercings. I am not attracted to black women. Must be spiritual at the least.
I am fine with starting this relation online to test the waters and evolving into a more in person relationship. Message me if you are interested.
I am Garret Mvahd, I am an upcoming game developer who is getting rather sick of dealing with women who seem to be a tad too opinionated. So I thought I'd make this simple. I am looking for a slave, specifically, a sex slave, who will give themselves and their obedience over to me and my will. I expect total obedience from you and I expect you to heed me when I speak and give orders.
I do have standards, so no women who are older than me, women between the ages of 18 and 22 preferred. Will go as high as the mid twenties. Must be attractive and fit. No tattoos or crazy piercings. I am not attracted to black women. Must be spiritual at the least.
I am fine with starting this relation online to test the waters and evolving into a more in person relationship. Message me if you are interested.
April 9, 2022 at 7:03 AM
42 y/o
South Carolina
Where is my world?
Are you looking to be taken care of like no one else has before? Provided with structure, rules, guidelines, tasks and reaching your full potential while under the care of a capable protective Dom? A Dom who is understanding, loyal, educated, caring and willing to make you their #1 priority as he watches you grow and flourish? Someone who is looking for the real deal, no games and wants to put forth the effort to take your mind, body and breath away right from under you?
Look no further. I know what I want and will not stop until I have obtained my goal while taking care of you in the process. Join me and let's walk this journey together. It will be way more fun with some good company wouldn't you agree? :)
Look no further. I know what I want and will not stop until I have obtained my goal while taking care of you in the process. Join me and let's walk this journey together. It will be way more fun with some good company wouldn't you agree? :)
April 9, 2022 at 5:25 AM
28 y/o
Houston, Texas
Looking for a girl who loves being told what to do
I'm 25 y/o engineer living alone in midtown Houston. I'm ethnically brown (south Asian), 200 lbs and stand 5'11" tall with a muscular build. I'm looking for someone who likes getting a little rough and taking instructions quite a bit. If that sounds like your thing please send me a message.
April 7, 2022 at 9:43 AM
61 y/o
South Bend, Indiana
Impact Play Oh My
I am looking for a woman/women who enjoy being restrained (optional) and want impact play. You can see the furniture in my profile. Everything is negotiable.
April 1, 2022 at 8:45 AM
Washington
Let's Begin
New here and overall to the bdsm community. I can see that experience is usually wanted by a lot of posts, so I'm hoping to stumble across a kind and patient sub (not too patient, I learn quick). I don't have immediate expectations or anything, just looking to learn grow and have fun!
April 1, 2022 at 8:45 AM
23 y/o
United Kingdom
Are you ready to let go?
Are you born to serve? Sexually, domestically and mentally? Cuz I don’t just want your body, I demand your mind and your soul.
I might train you starting from basic obedience, endurance and commitment. Don’t even think about sexual service unless I decide you are worthy enough.
My rules are strict and my standards are high. It doesn’t matter who you are, or who you think you are. To me, you will be nothing. My nothing.
You will come when I want, and leave when I want. I will use you when I want, where I want and how I want. If I bless you with an order, you follow. Blindly. I will expect you to switch on the part of your brain used for service and switch everything off. When I say jump, you don’t ask how high. You just jump as high as you can.
Are you ready to let go?
I might train you starting from basic obedience, endurance and commitment. Don’t even think about sexual service unless I decide you are worthy enough.
My rules are strict and my standards are high. It doesn’t matter who you are, or who you think you are. To me, you will be nothing. My nothing.
You will come when I want, and leave when I want. I will use you when I want, where I want and how I want. If I bless you with an order, you follow. Blindly. I will expect you to switch on the part of your brain used for service and switch everything off. When I say jump, you don’t ask how high. You just jump as high as you can.
Are you ready to let go?
March 30, 2022 at 10:04 AM
New South Wales
Obey
I will treat you like a princess when out in public and my little cum slut at home while driving you will either sucking my cock or playing with yourself but you can't cum till you beg for it. My sub will meet me at the door on her knees with pleasure comes pain your disobedience will be punished accordingly following directions will bring you pleasure. She will learn when I say ass up she will grab her ankles and hold on while I take her hard when I say head down she will immediately start sucking till she has drained my balls any gag reflex will be trained out of you failure to do so will result in you being punished accordingly. You will be be randomly tied up and whipped if I think you have misbehaved by not following directions. If you can handle this arrangement your every fantasy and desire will be rewarded reply back with yes daddy and when your available.
March 29, 2022 at 11:48 AM
36 y/o
East Harling, England
Need a sub
Looking for a obedient sub that presents her holes to me for using
March 28, 2022 at 5:56 PM
Antioquia
Looking for Live-In Sub
Looking for an attractive sub to fly to Colombia for training and ownership. We will establish a real connection with fun and romance. You will be punished and used when I see fit.
About me: Athletic BBC who understands his strength. Calm. Loving. Romantic. Successful.
About me: Athletic BBC who understands his strength. Calm. Loving. Romantic. Successful.
March 28, 2022 at 9:59 AM
United States
Looking for Submissive
I'm new to dominating someone in a bdsm relationship. Looking for someone between ages 18-25 in Michigan. I want a submissive who is open to explore sex, kinks and other fun, while being able to share and enjoy each others company. We each have our own lives, but we have fun with each other. Not looking for a 24/7 slave who always depends on me. I am open to online chatting and getting to know one another before meeting up. I can be flexible or stern depending on if I believe the situation needs it.
March 27, 2022 at 4:57 PM
37 y/o
New York
Looking for a Kitten
Hoping to connect with a sub/slave kitten that lives near new york state. Hoping to establish a friendship and see if it blossoms into something more.
March 27, 2022 at 11:23 AM
25 y/o
Sweden
Looking for a online friend, fwb, and/or sub.
Im a 21 year old dom looking for a online sub. I'm mostly into public dares (like driving around in your car fully naked at night when the streets are empty, or maybe something as simple as wearing a skirt without underwear while going to the library. If you wanna spice it up you can cover your genitals with lube or cooking oil. Bonus points if you use enough to make it drip down your legs.)
Sometimes I'll give you other tasks, like just sending a shower picture (to solidify the fact that you're mine), or to stay nude for the entire weekend.
I am strict, but loving and caring. I will give you increasingly harder tasks, but not just for my pleasure. I will build up your confindence and self trust. If you've secretly been naked in public, with only a long coat to hide yourself, then what social situation could possibly scare you? Giving a speech in front of a bunch of boring people? Nah, you'll be unstoppable.
If you decide to be my sub, I will ask for photos proving that you fulfill the tasks I give you. But nothing more, no webcam shows or anything else.
But that's only if you decide to be my sub. I can also be just a friend that you can talk dirty with. I wouldn't mind a platonic relationship at all. And if you want to, I can still give you dares.
And please don't be shy. You can do anything with me, I won't judge you. I mean, this is a bdsm website. Talk dirty with me even if we're only platonic. Then on the other hand, if you're into blackmail, I'd be very excited! If you give me such authority over you, I will not disappoint you. But blackmail would only be relevant later, when we know each other better, unless you really really want to get started with it immediately.
If you are interested, let me know! I'd love to hear from you, are you my new sub or my new friend?
Sometimes I'll give you other tasks, like just sending a shower picture (to solidify the fact that you're mine), or to stay nude for the entire weekend.
I am strict, but loving and caring. I will give you increasingly harder tasks, but not just for my pleasure. I will build up your confindence and self trust. If you've secretly been naked in public, with only a long coat to hide yourself, then what social situation could possibly scare you? Giving a speech in front of a bunch of boring people? Nah, you'll be unstoppable.
If you decide to be my sub, I will ask for photos proving that you fulfill the tasks I give you. But nothing more, no webcam shows or anything else.
But that's only if you decide to be my sub. I can also be just a friend that you can talk dirty with. I wouldn't mind a platonic relationship at all. And if you want to, I can still give you dares.
And please don't be shy. You can do anything with me, I won't judge you. I mean, this is a bdsm website. Talk dirty with me even if we're only platonic. Then on the other hand, if you're into blackmail, I'd be very excited! If you give me such authority over you, I will not disappoint you. But blackmail would only be relevant later, when we know each other better, unless you really really want to get started with it immediately.
If you are interested, let me know! I'd love to hear from you, are you my new sub or my new friend?
March 25, 2022 at 4:10 PM
23 y/o
Pennsylvania
Trainer
I train subs to be ready for doms. But not against a lasting relationship.
March 23, 2022 at 12:11 AM
27 y/o
Portsmouth, England
Dominant master looking for my slave
I’m a young master looking for someone I can dominate. I’m after a young playful sub that is respectful, and you will find me to be a respectful, and gentle Dom that can become ruth if you want. I’m happy to explore all aspects of bdsm so don’t be shy!
March 21, 2022 at 10:13 AM
United Kingdom
Man is the head of the family
I am a British male 56 years of age. I enjoy the company of women who are naturally submissive/slave. Having been out of the lifestyle for a number of years now i feel is the time to return. I am looking for naturally obedient ladies. Those who get pleasure from service and training. I believe in Domestic discipline and that a man can have as many wives as he wishes, So think sister wives. I like the idea of a big family community revolving around the dominant male head of the family. The man being the rule maker, authority and role model. I prefer women younger then myself so if you are between 18-40 then get in touch.
March 20, 2022 at 3:40 PM
White Plains, New York
New to BSDM, looking for someone to learn and explore with
I've always wanted to indulge my desire to dominate and now I'm in a place where I can. I'm kind, caring, and respectful of your needs, desires, and limits. If you are looking for someone to play and learn with please contact me
March 19, 2022 at 12:10 PM
Arizona
25 Arizona looking for online or IRL
if you have come to read this I am a dominant as stated in the title if you want to know about me go ahead and look at my about section. As for what I am looking for it is a female submissive who is looking to explore. I am open to discussion and look forward to any PM.
March 18, 2022 at 2:31 AM
42 y/o
New Jersey
Refined submissive/slave for LTR
I am seeking a beautiful and loyal long term sub/slave who will eventually become my wife.
We will live a 24/7 TPE dynamic, though we will be discrete in public.
you:
- Elegant, educated, kind, loving, and service-oriented.
- Passionate and a great conversationalist
- Feminine and traditional
- Generally happy and ready for commitment
- Ready to fully surrender into the arms and care of the right man
Me:
- Slightly reserved, but love to engage in interesting and intelligent conversation
- Controlling and strict
- Traditional European man
- Love taking what I want, though I can be patient until you see it my way
- Ready to take care of and provide for the right woman
My vices:
I think it is only fair that you know the parts of me that are hard for some women
- I am very focused on my career. This is wonderful for the right woman, but you will need to have some hobbies or equal interest in career so that you are occupied when I am at work
- I am very slow to open up and be vulnerable. I have a great capacity to love, and sometimes it is hard for me to say the words. If you are the type who needs to rush and control things, then this will be a challenge for you.
- I am not good at small talk. In a social setting I am more reserved than verbose. I will expect you to be able to pick up the slack and engage our guests if I am not able to make light chat.
- I have extremely high expectations. Any lack of class or tact are a complete turn off to me. If you are sloppy in dress, behavior, or appearance, then it is a no for me.
- I prefer true submissives to brats or littles, but I do like a bit of age play now and then, and some sass is okay. I need an intellectual equal, so I know that the request comes with the likelihood of attracting a woman who is slightly opinionated and strong in her own right. That is fine, but I will quiet you when I deem necessary.
- I do not know the difference between worse and worst (I'm not a native speaker) - I hope you will find this endearing
We will live a 24/7 TPE dynamic, though we will be discrete in public.
you:
- Elegant, educated, kind, loving, and service-oriented.
- Passionate and a great conversationalist
- Feminine and traditional
- Generally happy and ready for commitment
- Ready to fully surrender into the arms and care of the right man
Me:
- Slightly reserved, but love to engage in interesting and intelligent conversation
- Controlling and strict
- Traditional European man
- Love taking what I want, though I can be patient until you see it my way
- Ready to take care of and provide for the right woman
My vices:
I think it is only fair that you know the parts of me that are hard for some women
- I am very focused on my career. This is wonderful for the right woman, but you will need to have some hobbies or equal interest in career so that you are occupied when I am at work
- I am very slow to open up and be vulnerable. I have a great capacity to love, and sometimes it is hard for me to say the words. If you are the type who needs to rush and control things, then this will be a challenge for you.
- I am not good at small talk. In a social setting I am more reserved than verbose. I will expect you to be able to pick up the slack and engage our guests if I am not able to make light chat.
- I have extremely high expectations. Any lack of class or tact are a complete turn off to me. If you are sloppy in dress, behavior, or appearance, then it is a no for me.
- I prefer true submissives to brats or littles, but I do like a bit of age play now and then, and some sass is okay. I need an intellectual equal, so I know that the request comes with the likelihood of attracting a woman who is slightly opinionated and strong in her own right. That is fine, but I will quiet you when I deem necessary.
- I do not know the difference between worse and worst (I'm not a native speaker) - I hope you will find this endearing
March 14, 2022 at 11:25 PM
63 y/o
Santa Monica, California
Los Angeless Master seeks female sub for collar
Master looking for yng female sub to collar and train. Into most kink . You be young thin and sexually adventurous , a true sub and open minded. Lets build a relationship based on trust openness and love. I have a house with a dungeon play room . lots of gear and toys Want a sub to join me, share my life home and lust. If this interests you please contact me. Master Dan
March 14, 2022 at 2:56 PM
21 y/o
England
Rope top / rigger looking for a rope bunny to tie. (LTR - UK)
Trying to find that special someone to spice up my life. Interested in finding someone who'd be interested in rope bondage and play, and then some smaller things beyond that. Check out my profile for more :)
March 13, 2022 at 1:28 PM
Durham, England
One ONLY mature submissive lady OR Couple
Assertive mature attractive gentleman is looking for ONE ONLY mature submissive woman OR Couple!, to own. regular meetings extreemly discreet and demands the same. Have not owned a couple for a few years but the last two couples lasted 5 years and 7 years.
March 9, 2022 at 10:43 AM
Ontario
looking for my long-term match
my description is too long for this to fit, check out my profile page for more details. looking for an online submissive to get to know and have fun with. if your interested, send me a message. :)
March 3, 2022 at 10:22 AM