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Looking for a submissive in areas of sc,nc, and va
I’d like to get to know each other see if we mesh well eventually see each in real life If things go good im open to a long term relationship.
Any questions just ask.
38 year old white male with approximately 20 years in BDSM, between studying, learning and living it. I am a sadist, and live a traditional style life (1950s but with more kink). I live currently in South Carolina, owning my own house, good but demanding job.
What I seek: a loyal, obedient submissive who strives to be a TPE slave. A female who craves to learn, how to act, dress, and please me. A female who craves to surrender complete control to a master, who will in turn provide, care and nurture her, helping her achieve things she didn’t think was possible. A female with little to no limits except set by her master. A female who enjoys doing domestic as well as sexual service.
If your interested view my profile, and get in contact with me.
Searching for a very submissive female that will follow instructions and directions. Who can be vanilla when needed, such as going shopping, dining and socializing in the community. Must be willing to accept punishments, possible bondage and restraints, including blindfolds and gags. No brats or littles. Must be over 21
Hey there. Glad you check out my post, I am emperor GZY, I have been in the lifestyle for quite sometimes and I can say, it’s a big part of me. I'm seeking a sub who is interested in the lifestyle of being devoted to her Dom, and very submissive by nature,want to learn, explore, be spoiled and cherished as a perfect sub. A sub who wants to live her true purpose of happiness, someone who do not only want to learn but also grow in the lifestyle. Someone who is ready to live, live like they have ever wanted to, someone who is not afraid to be who they want to be. I do not only make sure my sub is well look after but also make sure that they are satisfy and happy in the lifestyle and also that I look after their mental , physical and psychological health as their happiness and satisfaction is important as much as mine . I am open to either a sub who lives the lifestyle 24/7 or partially or a live in irl sub or online sub. If you think we are a good fit. Let’s talk
It feels better when you do things for someone else rather than yourself isn’t it? You need to serve and craves for a purpose. That’s what I’m looking for. I want to take the reigns of your life and give you a clear goal while making you feel useful and valued.
I will guide you, own you in every aspect. It’s contradictory but constraints give you freedom: the more control you give the better you feel. You might have mixed feelings about this, giving yourself it’s risky and makes you vulnerable but, at the same time, it sounds satisfactory and fulfilling and there is something inside you craving for it.
Regarding kinks, I like orgasm control, humiliation, TPE, and more things we can discuss. I’m a bit sadistic, I will enjoy making you helpless and desperate.
I’m looking for a Dom/sub or a Master/slave relationship. I even like some aspects of DDlg. In any case we can discuss about it. Don't be afraid if you don't have experience, you can share your doubts with me if you have them
The more submissive you are, the better...
The longer relation you want, the better...
The more intelligent you are, the better...
The more loyal you are ,the better...
The more caring you are, the better...
The more happy and jokefull you are the better....
I reside in Texas and am willing on my time off from work to maybe travel and meet. I am 21 and am looking for a dynamic that can start online if it makes you comfortable. But I do wish for it to lead to the irl aspect of life. I have been interested in the lifestyle for some time now and haven’t had a partner that indulges deeply into it. If you contact me, refer to me as Sir or Master I will not respond to someone who doesn’t know manners first and foremost. I am interested in a M/s dynamic, Master/pet, or just TPE. Thank you for taking the time to read this, don’t be afraid to shoot me a message.
Thank you for taking time to read my ad. I am seeking a obedient submissive woman who lives for service. I am seeking a loyal obedient open minded submissive who wants to live the lifestyle 24/7, try new things, and learn the life style. I am seeking someone with little to no limits, who is willing to be open in ideas and implementing those ideas. Must be wanting to be used for sexual and domestic use. If interested see my profile, and let me know.
Seeking to live the life and not just talk about it
Bm age 66 seeking polyamory female subs or slaves attractive enough to put a smile on my face. tall very well build who likes a good spanking totally obedient financially secure don't want anyone contacting me saying pay my to me. had enough scammers and fakes open to a post-op have to be very attractive totally passable or a couple or submissive male seeking live in long term for domestic sexual service and slaver my dream was all ways to find models ex-dancer types. I tried being an actor my self no luck I had was only being an extra. Work up one day with vitiligo gave that dream up in life
Strict yet caring Master seeks sub/slave for training
First off my name is Orgazmo. You can address me as “Orgazmo” “Sir” or “Master”. I live in Colorado (Mountain Time). I'm very serious when it comes to my subs & slaves and can be gentle, funny, understanding and compassionate but also strict and even harsh at times if Master determines a slave/sub needs it.
Trust
If trust is destroyed, so goes the relationship. Master doesn’t have the tolerance or time to try and determine if the slave is lying.
Communication
Google Hangouts and email... How much communication will need to be determined. Tasks may be given with a specified time limit.
Inexcusable
Lying will not be tolerated. Masters door to communication will be open. This Master will not use silence or non-communication as a form of punishment. Master will not tolerate silence from a slave/sub just because the slave/sub is scared or is trying to get out of a task.
Training
Limits will always be respected. Online training can work if Master and slave/sub are honest with each other and trust that the slave will only get out of it what the slave puts in. It goes without saying that the slave who pretends to follow the rules will not get as much out of it and may jump from one online Master to another while those that learn and grow honestly will develop deeper relationships and learn the true meaning of serving a Master.
sessions will be slow at first and tasks will be simple, maybe even seem trivial. If the slave/sub can’t/won’t follow instructions during an online session or complete the easiest task, why should Master waste his time expanding the slaves/subs training when the slave/sub does not take the training serious?
Control
Master will take as much control as a slave/sub is willing to concede. Master will always have total control in online sessions, and determining what, if any tasks are assigned. Control can also include complete control over daily activities.
If a slave/sub is only looking for a Master to have online sessions …….then say so! If the slave/sub is looking for “long term” understand that “long term” means more than a couple of days. If a slave/sub answers this Masters add at a very minimum know what it is the slave is looking for, how much time the slave is willing/able to put into serving and have the ability to convey this to the slaves potential Master.
What do I look for in a sub? It would be easy to say obedience and loyalty but that's not really what I'm in this for. I look for the potential for personal growth. If I choose you to be my sub I'll be giving you assignments from which you will benefit. In the past, I have held subs accountable for dietary or fitness goals, so in many ways, I act as a personal trainer or success coach. Also, whole food plant-based diet training. I also give mindfulness and sensual assignments.
Thank you to all prospective slaves and subs for taking the time to read this. Hopefully it has created enough interest that you will contact this Master.
I’m a passionate and nurturing but strict SadoDom from NW London who’s lived the lifestyle for 10+ years with Subs who I’ve typically trained and helped evolve from relative newbies to experienced kinksters. I’m probably a Master based on experience but like lots of things in the BDSM world people get precious about names and sometimes it just makes you sound like a twat, which I hope I’m not! I push myself to learn as we are all on a journey and there’s no part of my life or skills I can’t improve on.
Fundamentally I believe that pleasure fulfills your Sub’s fanciful needs in the moment but pain and submission fulfills your partner’s deep psychological needs over the long term.
I’m looking for a UK based Sub who wants to embrace her submissive nature and to be pushed to be all she can be. I’ve an extensive Fet profile I’m happy to share.
Hello and thanks for viewing my personal ad.
I am seeking sub/slave for all manner of kink, from bondage, breeding, flogging, objectification, pet play, to photography and more!
I hope you are interested!
Hello! I'm looking for female sub, slave who interested in being controlled and dominated in every aspect of life. I would decide what you could eat, what you wear, people you meet...
If you are interested in this lifestyle, message me