Dominant Men Seeking Submissive Women

69 y/o      Hermosa Beach, California

Active dominant investment broker looking for an attractive HWP submissive woman that seeks to incorporate her submission in a LTR involving bdsm, d/s and a full range of professional and social functions of Master. See my profile for further details.

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  New York

Dom looking for a sub in NY. Looking for something long term.

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35 y/o      New York

I know most people are looking for somebody experienced to help them get started in the bdsm lifestyle. But, I'm looking for a newbie submissive woman to dive deeper into bdsm with. The idea or theory I'm working with is we can both learn as we grow. It's almost like when your in school and the teacher gives you the task of being the friend or working with the new kid in school. Also, with us both being newbies. We'll be able to build trust that much easier.

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  State Line, Pennsylvania

I am a truck driver. I seek a sub willing to join me as I travel from delivery to delivery about the Mid-west and Eastern Regions. I prefer a sub to train that is untrained, willing to keep an open mind to all aspects of sub life, and no ties requiring them back home in a timely fashion. Qualified subs also preferred in the 18 to 35 yo range, reasonably fit, race not an issue, and of course the obvious no disease, no drug issue's, and only slightly cRaZy. Willing to discuss consideration with all subs even if not meeting preferred conditions.

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46 y/o      Toledo, Ohio

I'm looking for a lady who wants to be trained. I will take care of you

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35 y/o      Canada

Looking for real sub to grow with.
4 years of experience online and can be irl if you are near Vancouver Canada

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  United States

I'm a 36 year and single man. Have a great career. Been playing music most of my life.
I have over 20 years experience with being a Dom. In to role play, humiliation, using and abusing, pet training....... Not many limits lol

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41 y/o      Phoenix, Arizona

Hello,

Dom here looking for a sub! Been looking for a while, as I know what I want. Looking for someone with similar likes and dislikes as well as the desire to explore to find new things in life. I am not opposed to starting off as an online D/S but please understand it must go further. I require the aspect of of the physical world. I have very little time for games, and require the up most attentiveness. If this sounds like a good match contact me and we can chat and see if it could work.

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39 y/o      Farmington Hills, Michigan

Hello, everyone! My name is Brandon and I am 32 looking for a sub to call My own. I have been a Dom for the past 11 years and you'll come to find that I'm strict yet compassionate, loving yet firm, aggressive yet understanding. So if there's anyone out there who is looking for that thrill and satisfaction of being owned again, send me a message!

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35 y/o      Swansboro, North Carolina

Hello how is everyone I am looking for a women to start online but lead into a real setup I want someone that can become a submissive part and not only submit to me in mind body and soul but be my wife and also have my kids.

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42 y/o      Germany

Greetings Slaves !
Which of you want to get under my complete control ?
i will do with you what i want ! Then i want !
I don´t care about your age or how your look ! the only importen is that you follow each of my commands !
Send me a pm ! and you will find your master that you always search for !

i await from you:
Obedient
Committed Creative
Willing to serve
Can keep a conversation
Self motivated to please master
Pictures Of Tasks/Punishments required
Videos Of Tasks/Punishments required
Kinky Sexual and non sexual tasks given daily

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  United States

In search of a submissive who is Capable.

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  England

I'm a 21 year old dom, semi-experienced, looking for a young female submissive of a similar age. Online only.

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36 y/o      Manchester, England

I am an experienced dom seeking a female sub, preferably 20-30 to train.

I'm primarily interested in online domination, issuing commands from afar, be it photos, videos, webchats or more.

I am UK based and would potentially be willing to meet up for the right sub.

My preferences are for domination, humiliation, pain play, age play and degradation.

Message me if you're interested.

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33 y/o      Florida

I am a moderately experienced Dom seeking a sub I can control, teach, and pleasure. I have no issue with the relationship starting off long distance, and am more than willing to meet up with my sub if we get along well enough. Prospects should be between the ages of 18 and 40. Experience is nice, but not necessary, I appreciate taking things slow, creating a natural relationship and pacing.

I'm in good shape and I expect my subs to be as well, please include a picture with any inquires.

Talk soon. x

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36 y/o      Toronto, Ontario

Sub female, wanted for collar tryouts serious only needs msg

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62 y/o      Italy

I am a Dom from Italy looking for a real sub female to start a D/s relationship. I am interested in a sub that enjoy being controlled and disciplined. I am into mind control , reward, punishment and humiliation for the submissive. Orgasm denial and teasing & denial is what the sub has to expect. I accept submissives from 18 y.o. for a strict train. Yes to online relationship

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39 y/o      Turkey

Hi all, I am looking for subs/slaves for online training.if u re ready contact with me ;)

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25 y/o      Kent, Ohio

Dom, 19 M located In Kennesaw, GA looking for a F submissive. I do not limit myself with age, lets talk and see if we have a connection. Would love to meet new people.

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  United Kingdom

i am a 63 year old Master looking for a submissive that enjoys being restrained spanked and used - i currently live in north Wales and hope you will visit or relocate -you can be experienced or a complete novice as you will be trained

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43 y/o      Queensland

Seeking sub woman within the Brisbane area , also I’m new to this so either a sub that’s also new or a sub that could help me become the Dom I can be !!

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  Ireland

Hi submissive,
I'm looking for an online submissive female between the ages of 22 and 36 for general fun. I'm into denial, humiliation, body writing, lifestyle control and some minor public exhibition play. I'm not very diplomatic so ladies who are fit and look after their bodies are most desired.
I currently have an online only submissive for the past 7 months but I want to explore having another to play with.
I would appreciate you checking out my profile before messaging me. If you are interested please just send an message briefly describing yourself and what you want from a dominant.
Thank you and I look forward to your messages.
Ben

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35 y/o      California

I’m a new white male dom. I'm looking for someone who would either like to learn with me in this. Or someone with experience to help me learn and understand the lifestyle better. I live in the SoCal area so ideally you would too but it can online only. Please message me if you have any questions.

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  Salt Lake City, Utah

Are you interested in trying out the Sub lifestyle but nervous? You are a naughty girl for having such fantasies and need to be punished: WHACK, WHACK, WHACK... there's a few spankings to put you back in line you naughty little girl.

I am an expert in taking it slow and giving you what you deserve. I will dominate you, but will not scare you away. I will leave you wanting more. We can start off online and let the fun begin.

Don't forget to always call me Daddy or else you will earn some more intense punishment.

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41 y/o      Benton, Louisiana

Dom couple Seeking live in female dsub/slave in the shreveport/bossier are if out of state relocation can be a ranged for right person more details will be provided if interested

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62 y/o      Pennsylvania

Looking for a Sub married or not a sub who would enjoy being trained to the Doms desires! Do not be shy give you will have what you need! Plenty of play time!

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54 y/o      West Bloomfield Township, Michigan

Firm yet caring Dom seeking a petite submissive woman for training and ideally LTR. I am very attentive, love to deliver both pleasure and pain (when necessary). My submissive will love oral and anal play, spankings, crops, flogs, gagging, breath play, breast play, and she desires to please me beyond everything else.

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49 y/o      Italy

I'm a 42yo Master and I'm actually seeking for a online slavegirl to long term train. Training will be strict and limits will be set together. I'll teach you the discipline, how to behave and how to please and serve your Owner. The slave must be in age range 18-44, and be able to have regular sessions (at least 2/3 times per week or more). A thin body or big tits are a plus. I'm not so interested in sadism but I accept masochist slaves and training will be appropriate. No experience needed, just be serious and ready for a long term D/s relationship.
If you're interested then message Me.
Master Steve

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  United States

Hi, I am looking for a submissive, I like PM more then open, And i like to ask questions, So if you message me expect a good amount of those, Can't wait to meet you

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  Montclair, New Jersey

Looking or a submissive women in the New Jersey area

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  Arizona

Looking for a submissive woman that wants to make a commitment to me and to us and a long-term relationship age race is not important what matters is the amount of commitment all relationships take work especially one in this lifestyle so if you are new to it I will show you the ropes and how to become the best if you have some experience with it then we will proceed on and have new experiences together all that I ask is for you to be honest and upfront and put in the amount of time and effort is I am going to put in to our relationship send your contact information so I can get ahold of you ASAP and we can begin our journey together Arizona Dom 6.3 240 tempe

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37 y/o      Columbia, South Carolina

I am a loyal, nurturing, honest Daddy Dom looking for the right little for me. She should be respectful, caring, and most of all loving. If you fit this please feel free to message me so we can get to know each other.

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  San Jose, California

No spring chicken this retired (but still consulting) >M< in the M/s lifestyle, engineer kinkster -- 75 and still feisty, alive, and kicking -- and in the organized (if one could call it that) scene since 1980, and I'm looking for a contemporary, female, STEM type, >s< in the M/s lifestyle to hookup/partner with. I live in the San Jose, CA area, so geographic desirability is kinda necessary.

Why am I looking for an older >s< partner? Well, for one, I am one of the lucky oldsters that have been through the mills of life ...surviving damn near everything (I have a vest badge that says that), and coming away ...sometimes scathed, but never defeated. I take life as it comes -- both good and bad -- and wind up with what I call a "net gain in positives". I love learning new things and experiences and meeting new people. That keeps me going. And with being an active kinster since 1980, I've learned about and enjoyed lots of techniques and lifestyles. My lifestyle, of course, is M/s, and my technical specialty is Electrical Play.

With that in mind, I'm specifically looking for a female >s< 65 or older who enjoys her intelligence and sees her life having a "net gain in positives" -- despite all she's been through.

So why STEM specific? Well, for me, as an engineer, that was my key to my growth. No, I didn't get stuck into a "Spock" syndrome, but I was able to parlay that into integrating my rational/emotional/spiritual sides. This was not easy and it took years to accomplish. So, I wondering if any female >s<'s were able to accomplish the same thing. Besides, for me it's fun to talk about what I've done professionally without having to dumb down or mansplaning things.

As I said, I'm no spring chicken. I have my aches and pains, but I enjoy being able to outsmart them. This Is also a benefit in my doing my M/s and doing enjoyable play scenes. As to scenes, my goal is always for both of us to be attentive and caring to each other and to both have an enjoyable scene.

What's possible? Enjoyable conversations ... pleasant meetings ... getting to know each other ... M/s and/or play ... love, old age, and death (a line from the movie "LA Story" BTW) ... who knows? I game.

Sorry I wasn't able to cram this down to a Cliff-Notes version, but if you're interested, contact me. Tell me about yourself, and what you're looking for.

Unc'

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63 y/o      Franklin Square, New York

I'm white dom (i do not switch)-- seeking female submissive
i can be your daddy dom, sir or master

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  Wales

Experienced and sensual Daddy Dom/Sir looking for a sub/middle who likes age play, keen to please Daddy and being trained to do it better and sometimes being punished if she breaks the rules. To live this of course there also needs to be mutual love and gentleness, conversation and aftercare. If it works for both of us I'm happy for this to develop into something long-term.

I require my sub/middle to be petite/slim (or heading in that direction) and probably between 25 and 40 (though younger is possible if very mature and knows what she is doing), naturally submissive for 'the right reasons' and enthusiastic about dressing up and learning how to make her Daddy proud of her when she will of course be told what a good girl she is and helped to come for Daddy - with his permission, of course.

I'm currently based in Kent and London and regularly visiting Surrey and the Manchester area. Happy to start off online and see how it goes. See my profile for more about me.

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  Texas

Seeking a pleasant, affectionate, woman to live with me and share my life. Inexperienced will be fun. Must enjoy serving a man. I'm old, but not dead, yearn for an affectionate, submissive, pleasant, passionate woman to spend my remaining years with. Minimal tattoos, prefer no tattoos, marks. I have an income; you must have one too. Doesn't have to be a lot, together we can do well. I want to enjoy you and desire an attractive woman who will enjoy being my woman and being under my authority. You will be spanked and disciplined as needed, or as I desire.

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  Campbell, California

Gentleman but firm Looking for sub, slave, online or irl fun - women only plz. I might be new to the life style but have a wicked imagination that I want to make reality. Your limits will be respected and won't be crossed. Can you be my life partner or toy?

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  New York

I am fairly new to the area of Bondage. I am 30 years old looking for a sub to meet with and own. Not looking to have a monogamous relationship.

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  Singapore, Singapore

Looking for an online sub who wants to sext. No extreme tasks. Only minor bodywriting and light punishment. Pics and vids without faces preferred. Creative roleplays also on the table.

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  Germany

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  Florida

I'm looking for a sub woman to train my way, and to own in every way. Admittedly I can be strict if necessary, but also loving. Mostly loving. Maybe live in. Not looking for grannies, pigs or druggies, Prefer NW Florida unless you are willing to travel. Please see my profile. Ask questions....get to know me. You won't be sorry.

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66 y/o      California

I want to find a live-in sub/slave that may be open to a poly household. All hard limits and duties may/will be discussed. I'm a Cancer so you can judge my basic personality from there!

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32 y/o      United States

I have little experience. Just figured that should go out front and center. Looking for something online, where both of us will need each other and learn from each other.

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  Ohio

i am seeking for my next sub female..im in Northeast Ohio ..im an author and actor and am pagan ..i seek a sub to train and maybe kerp for a long time .all inquiries will be considred ..while younger age is not a no..tell me about you optimum age would probably be late 20s and up

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  La Grange, Illinois

I am an 18 year old new to this and I want to learn the more experience or the more knowledge the better. i am a fast learner and I am eager to learn.

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  Groningen, Groningen

Hello,
Im looking for an dedicated online sub to grow with me and explore with me. For my prefferences look my profile and i hope to see a message

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  Germany

Im looking for a submissive long term partner but I’m not opposed to just meeting new people in general.
I’m looking for someone to explore with. To experience new kinks and and strengthen the known. A woman who isn’t just a sub but a friend. I’m not just a Dom. I am a human. I have needs and urges as well.
Im looking for someone I can shoot the shit with but get serious when she forgot to do the ordered chores or tasks. Someone who puts something into the relationship and isn’t just an “Okay, Sir”-Bot. (Seriously, i could take an hour out of my time and could program a better interaction than i had with some people i met online)
Now this does not mean bratty. In fact i prefer it when my partner is not on the bratty side. If you want to get spanked you don’t need to act up until i punish you. You can just ask if i might be so nice as to spank you.
I’m also looking for more than just in the bedroom stuff.

If you just think I’m a fun guy and would love to play sometime you can hit me up as well. Preferably with an idea you would want to try.

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  California

I am a white male dom looking for subs 18-30. I’m looking for a woman who's willing to give up her ability to orgasm to me and is able to follow directions well. If interested, please message me!

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30 y/o      Liberty Hill, Texas

I am trying to find a permanent sub between the ages of 18-27 I am hoping to find one close to Austin TX so that we can get to know each other better before we make any rash decisions

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27 y/o      United States

Hi I am a dominate, i have been for a year and a half, im looking for a full term BDSM relationship. I would like to start online, until i get to know you. I need 100% loyalty and repect from my sub, any age over 18-50 welcome.

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  Canada

I am an attractive experienced 40 year old dom looking for a sub or slave to train for my pleasure. My wish being my command. Contact me to get started.

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41 y/o      United Kingdom

Hello there
If you think you are an obedient sub and you are thinking about getting yourself a nice dom to have control over you (online only) please contact me to discuss about this further.
Thanks

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57 y/o      Arizona

I'm on a quest to find a submissive woman that is seeking what I have to offer. The obvious question is what are the qualities that I am looking for well first she would be loyal and honest. I believe that in order to have a full filling experience the first thing that needs to happen is establish trust built on knowing and understanding each of our wants needs and desires. I feel that the discovery and sharing of our thoughts can be very rewarding in its self. I have a caring nature and always have the safety of us in mind.

As far as play I enjoy the dominate role with my favorite activities being orgasm control (both denial and forced orgasm), bondage, breast bondage, total power exchange, spanking, discreet public play, playing outdoors I enjoy other activities also these are just the ones that top my list. I would like to start with an online adventure that would one day progress into a full time live in arrangement.

If you find any of this interesting I would urge you to get in touch with me to start a discussion that might evolve into a rewarding relationship

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47 y/o      Gainesville, Florida

What I'm looking for is a submissive and or slave. I'm not into a extreme BDSM. But I enjoy light play whenever I have a chance. I'm basically looking for a lifelong partner. Some of the things that I am into you or the following. I enjoyed the daddy dom roll very much. I enjoyed the power exchange. Well if everything I can think of right now. I'll update as I can think of more. Oh yeah no one over the age of 38.

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34 y/o      India

Hello all.
My name's Jimmy. At present, I am a 27 year old Sadism expert who is looking to train a sub/slave ONLINE. She must be willing and interested and I am hoping will learn to love this lifestyle.

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33 y/o      United States

seeking a female masochist in the st Louis area. Still relatively new to this so experience isn't necessary.

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  California

I’m looking for a submissive woman who’s into pain and satisfying her dom

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  London, Ontario

I love control I want a woman that needs to be told to do everything and take orders without question and treats me a like their god

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  Florence, Kentucky

Looking for submissive female who wants a master/owner/daddy, new to this so preferably someone who is new to it as well or willing to help me learn and become great at it

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64 y/o      Canada

I'm a strict but comprehensive Dom. I beleive that submission is the greatest gift a sub can make. So domination is about caring and making the sub to be who she is in the deepest part of her soul. I'm not a role player. As far as I'm concern, I consider every sub as gem that only need to be polished to shine bright.

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