Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

Hello,

I am brand new on this site, but I am not new to the kinky lifestyle. I sometimes go away, but can never stay away because this is a part of what brings me such joy in partnership.

I am a bit bratty until I feel safe and obedient, and then I am a dream submissive- the right balance of strong and soft.

I own my own business and it is very successful. I prefer a man who is more financially successful than me, which I know limits my prospects greatly.

Want to be a power couple in public and a power exchange couple in private.

Not into much S&M. Not a masochist. Really just love a string and firm partner who sets rules strictly and exceptions high. We are better together as a unit.

I am a service submissive at heart, but also want someone who understands work and life balance.

What I want in life: big social circle, normal lifestyle, but to submit control to you at home.

I sometimes like DD/lg play, but don’t want it to be the standard. When I am little too often it is exhausting for me. I like it as a welcome retreat now and then.

I am educated and love to have deep and spiritual conversations, but sometimes I get too stuck in that and would love to just unwind and be silly together, while maintaining respect of course!

Love rules about diet, lifestyle, exercise, appearance, dress code, and sleep very much. It’s fun to have structure like that.

Feeling appreciated is very important to me.

I am looking forward to building something fun and wonderful with an amazing man. Hopefully you ☺️

new to this and looking for some experience
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Married bbw female wants to experience the lifestyle. Husband wants to participate.

hello, i am a submissive masochistic woman who is looking for someone to be my dominant. i am okay with it being online for now, but should we get along, i would preferably enjoy it to move to being physical. i have had some short term dynamics which i have enjoyed, but i would like to have something more settling.

I am a very submissive slut that needs an experienced master to use and abuse me..
I can be bi and will act out for you and a female as long as both are dom over me.
I'm an older cunt with a horrendous sex drive. I have a big clt which gets me into trouble. I'm attractive and willing to meet in person if things go well.
Painb is something I crave. I can not orgasm without it. I love to have my pussy pumped.. makes the pain and pleasure more intense.. I like bdsm, bondage, humiliation, public degradation, incest, (no kids), gangs,water play. I am
Inerested in experimenting with urethral sounding. I luv orgasm control and can come many times in a session. I scream, beg, moan and groan. I aim to please you.
I'm sweet, relatively naive, and ready to test my limits. I live in Washington state and need for you to come to me. I'm married to a man that is ill. No sex for 15 years. I need someone flexible. On line and in person ok. Let me know if you interested. Nos are, scatt, blood, perm marks,kids, drinking piss. Open to all else. Xo

I am looking for a Long term M/s dynamic with in the confines of a committed relationship. IRL 24/7 TPE subtle in public and strict but loving behind closed doors.

As for looks I am 5'3 220 lbs. With long blonde hair and hazel green eyes. I am not a super model but I'm not a crack head either.

My limits are as listed below.
No intercourse before marriage. If your not seeking a sub /slave wife we wont be compatible.
No blood, urine or fecal matter.
No needles or broken skin.
No indecent videos or photos.
No sharing on either side.
Nothing illegal.
No diapers.
No abuse, permanent or long-term harm.
Most other things I am willing to try or compromise on.

As you can see this isnt something that will be easy or instant. If my limits aren't something you can tolerate and/or work around there is no need to try. I wont bend on limits, and you shouldn't either.
Breaking limits should be in the same category as lying, cheating and dishonesty.

If sex is your main goal in this relationship I wont be intrested. I'm after the control aspect. As in the less of it I have the better.

Those who are practicing Christians, Conservative, enjoy prepping or homesteading, being outdoors please move to the head of the line. If this sounds like something you would be interested in please take a look at my profile and send me a message.

Hi guys,

I'm sort of at a loss for where to look, as I don't want to waste my time (or deal with the b/s of dating apps but also am not looking for some super kinky fetish-y meet ups.) I just want to start dating, but only like dominant men. Men who know what they want and go for it. Who like to work hard and are intelligent. Who like to take control and can help guide me when I feel lost. I need someone who can put me in my place, or I'll end up bored & complacent.

I'm happy to get to know each other online first, but want to take it IRL. I'm not interested in keeping an online relationship/play partner. I am very busy, and need someone else who can keep up with me/take the lead.

About me: I'm 5'1, blonde, very petite/fit, big blue/green eyes and love to laugh. I have big aspirations and want to meet people equally (or more!) motivated.

This is the longest of long shots, I know, but in a pandemic world, why not try?

For now, I’m looking for an online dom. I’m open to real life dom in the future but I ain’t moving nowhere so he’d have to be near me and willing to wait. I’ve been burned in the past so it takes a while for me to trust someone. That means no video and no photos, though verbal/audio conversations will be considered. If that’s not up your alley, that’s fine, keep scrolling please. I’m not going to negotiate that and if you try to get me to, you’ll be raising red flags left and right.

BDSM is, for me, psychological more than it is physical. A dom doesn’t force me to submit, I give it. It’s a gift to be given to the right man. A man who will protect me, guide me, and cherish me. Who puts my needs above his wants, and in return earns a need in me to satisfy his wants.

Specifically, I want someone who will take a moderate amount of control over me. Give me a bedtime, an exercise routine, a limit for laziness, a routine for cleaning the home. When I’m good, he praises me. When I’m bad, he punishes me. When it’s playtime and my needs have been met, he pushes me in his own sadistic and delicious ways. He’ll anally train me. Edge me and deny me. Train me in positions. Torture me with a remote controlled vibe. Clamp me. Paddle me. Give me lines to write. Have me meditate with collar and cuffs on to remind me who I belong to.

Most of all, he’ll communicate with me. Discuss with me my wants and needs. He’ll push me to be a better me. He’ll guide me and teach me. He’ll share with me himself as much as I share with him, so I can better ease his stresses and please him, even when or especially when he doesn’t ask. He will be a friend, a companion, a confidant, and my dominant.

If that sounds like you, send me a message. Age doesn’t matter. Experience doesn’t matter. Hell, a good dominant who is a decade younger than me is hot as fuck. A new dominant who is willing to accept guidance and suggestions is hotter than any experienced dominant with arrogance issues.

Communication is key. Typos and misspellings are fine and human. To be human is to make mistakes. But if you have difficulty communicating via texting and typing, then an online based relationship isn’t going to work. Putting a tiny bit of effort into your message goes a long way.

I am seeking a daddy dom i am a middle. I need someone that will do this online. I am 41 female.

I'm a new submissive looking for her Dom, but Not new to the Bdsm world and know deep in my heart this is the World for Me. I'm 40 years old and Am Looking for that Special person who knows to Break my Bed and putting me in a wheel chair so to speak but can respect me out of the room and in public. I'm Looking for the person that's my other half and that my body craves. I do have kids most also respect that. I do have hard limits but there limited to know bodily fluids like pee/etc, other than that would like to test my Limits and see what I enjoy and don't. I Like Bondage and being at my Doms mercy and own my own stuff like handcuffs, riding crops, belts and other such stuff. I'm not super model size but I'm working on toning my Body. I'm Look for someone between 27 and 55 well built with a strong agility as I like sex a Lot and have a wild thirst for it. If you think your the one hit me up. Looking for life time single dom just for me at least for now.

Seeking dominant for online scenario.
Not necessarily daily.
No face photos, live video/audio will be provided.

I am over 40, thick, and interested primarily in black men my age or older.

Will you send me to my room to plug my ass then make me finish my chores before you make me cum?

Southern CA Locals Only

I’m missing someone in my life. A Dom, a true Dom. One who knows how to treat His submissive properly and respectfully. I want someone who is local so that we can meet in-person on a regular basis. Someone with experience and preferably in their 40’s to 50’s.

I'm brand new to BDSM officially. I've been in relationships with more dominant men but it was not technically a D/s relationship.

So I'm looking for my very first official one. I'm 38 but told constantly that I look younger. I'm 5' 3", dark hair, light eyes and fair skin. I'm Italian and Scandinavian mostly so that gives you an idea... I have some tattoos, no piercings except ears. My tattoos are tasteful. Very nice, cute feet if you're into that. I have a bigger butt and perky boobs. My look ranges from girly to more gothic or femme fetal. But I can also be very casual.

As far as my personality and likes: I like to cook, keep a pretty clean house. I'm an artist, as in I sell my art and spend a lot of time doing that. I love animals. I enjoy baths, walks, nature, reading and watching movies or shows. I'm into darker things. And I'm cute, sweet, smart and funny.

I love snuggling and hard cuddling, sometimes more than sex. I enjoy sex too. Mainly I want to be tied up and I enjoy edging and primal play. Looking for a rigger to show me the ropes and their skills. Around my age range would be nice, though I tend to attract either very young guys or older men. I'm monogamous with the right man. I'm a sub mostly, can be a switch if that is something you want. I'm sometimes a brat. I'm not into pet play but will wear a collar and do not mind being owned or claimed. I don't like being degraded or called names, so that is off the table.

Ideally you are a sweet and strong daddy with a sense of humor and intelligent. I enjoy beards, tattoos and slender or muscular physique. You can be a switch or top but I prefer a mostly Dom male. Aftercare is very important to me. You can cuddle me, draw me a bath, feed me, play with my hair, pick out my clothes and hold me till I fall asleep. No Doms who can not care or lack emotional intimacy. I need to be babied and I need attention. Once you earn my trust you will have my full devotion, loyalty and affection.

Salutations and thank you for reading this! I'm a twenty-something PhD student and high-achieving for my age. I'm vegan, a feminist, and a member of the queer community. I’m looking for a caring dom to guide me, bring out the best in me and cherish me. But also punish me when agreed upon rules are broken. I’m really struggling with decision fatigue. I just don’t want to have to manage the minutia of day-to-day things (ie what to wear, when to go to sleep, what and when to eat) and hoping my dom will manage those things. But also respects my wants and emotions (like, I’m vegan and will remain vegan so it wouldn’t work w someone who wanted me to eat animal products).

I’m demisexual, so a romantic/ emotional connection is very important to me before becoming physical. I also love rope bondage and am hoping to connect with a dom who does as well. Consent and communication is a must. Outside of these things I love reading, writing, classical music, and laughing.

My ideal dom would be:
-Intelligent
-Funny
-Self-identified feminist
-Vegan
-A reader
-High achieving
-Sexually sadistic
-Excited to learn and grow together
-Emotionally mature

I value compassion, curiosity, and humour above most everything else.

I'd like to start online and build a lasting connection from there, that way we can both learn and grow together.

If you think we'd be a good fit, please message me! xx

Hello!
I’m K, 31, and new here. I am hoping to find a very caring and confident dom to introduce me to bdsm! I find myself to be a naturally submissive person, yet I’m very independent and am not looking for a 24/7 situation. I would love to find a long term partner and someone I can have a relationship with outside the bedroom as well. Preferably someone in my age range (28-39) and in the PNW.
I’m 5’ 5”, size 18-20, kind of nerdy, sweet, and love to laugh!

Searching for my Daddy/Master/Owner. Looking for someone who is serious, Dominant, and wants long term. With me. I prefer in person, but online is completely acceptable if serious about meeting and becoming a true Dominant/submissive/Master/slave relationship. If you have any questions ask and I’ll answer ☺️

Hi there, I am a twenty four year old Submissive from Canada, have been in the lifestyle for six years, recently exploring more of the real life scene, munches, lifestyle clubs, etc.
I take my submission very seriously, although I am naturally a brat, more so in teasing, sarcasm, push back, etc.
I am polyamours and am currently involved in a vanilla relationship which is RL.
Weather online, or in person (when the covid 19 pandemic is over, or better, whichever comes first), I am seeking a Dominant man who can not only guide, steer me in the right direction, but also take on the role of my friend and perhaps trainer.
I am also a little, so those who have experience as a Daddy would be wonderful, if not that is not needed.
Age is not a big factor for me, but we need to have some things in common so we can stand on the same ground.
I am a premium member, so message me, or like my profile.
Hoping to hear from whomever is interested soon.
Sassy, xo.

Hi! Lets get to know each other! I'm an 18yrs old submissive, I love to do many things in the arts like culinary, painting, poetry, dancing (not very well but its the thought that counts lol), and other things of the sort. I'm looking forward to getting to know you and maybe we can figure something out!

I’m on the hunt for a dominant daddy. I am a naturally pleasing person. I am submissive by nature. I am open to a variety of different options but I want the situation to be beneficial for both parties involved.

I am very cautious about pictures as I am an educator. They will come with time and trust.

I am located in the southeast US.

I am looking for a Dom that is interested in a monogamous, long-term relationship in and outside of the bedroom.

Roles and rules are important to me, built on trust and communication, and expand/change as more trust is built. The directions should be clearly communicated, without ambiguity as I want to be able to please my partner properly.

I value Dom’s that express care in responsibility, knowing who I am, and what I desire in the bedroom and everyday life.

I'm incredibly attracted to men with a sadistic side. I enjoy a hand on the back of my neck when I am out of line, knowing and at the same time not knowing what happens when we get home. I equally care for a man who makes sure to listen to my worries and fixes my garbage disposal.

I'd like to find someone that will make me the center of his attention/life as well as take and use me when desired.

If you decide to write me, please make sure that your profile includes a detailed description of you/what you're looking for and a photograph that gives me an idea of what you look like.