Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

38 y/o      Illinois

Anal slave full-use, three-hole, no-limits. .Well Written as a bottom yet submissive with a beautiful mind an
Total abuse Slave with Art is more of a passion to be embraced as erotica but the soft classic core of it. Pain with pleasure be under a man Classic curvy pale 1950’s/Stepford Sensual beauty bottom 38 Illinois Ltr tpe to be under a Head of Household know my place but in fair manner. With love romance and pain. I’m the universe with Syfy. Very clean good hygiene keep myself up with confidence have lots 1950s clothes I have invested in. Sensory Deprivation 24/7. 25 years of this experience as a maso 1950s/Stepford. Takes the right HoH take the hand Lead the way well groomed clean cut with stability and established with manners. Growth you have that you only need one not all over the place or collecting. Emotionally invested to earn the heart.

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20 y/o      Indiana

Im a little (age 2-5) located in southern Indiana seeking a foster Daddy. My little is very scared due to past relationships and trauma. My little loves stuffies, coloring, soft blankets, Disney movies and music, pacies, and tons of snuggles. But she also needs lots of reassurance.

Long distance is perfectly okay with me as well as the possibility of getting to meet in person a few times. I ask that any potential foster please be non-sexual, kind and patient.

Please message if interested. I look forward to chatting with you.

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25 y/o      Nevada

I wanna know what your taboo fantasies are I have many of my own but tend to scare off lots of people with them I wanna know if u have some too the messed up kind that u don’t want other people to know turn you on

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  California

50-year-old, married, curvy/full-figured, 5’6” and very real. I am intelligent, friendly, respectful, sincere, direct, and earnest. I am literal minded and need clarity in communication. I am also playful, naughty, sensual, and I love to laugh. I see myself as a “good girl” sub. When in a dynamic, I like to please and be obedient. I do speak my mind, but never with ill-intent or disrespect. I do not respond well to degradation. I am very critical of myself and do not need assistance in that area.

I am interested in pursuing a dynamic that is online to start with the potential to be in person after trust is built. Someone in Southern California or who visits the area periodically would be ideal. I am drawn to men who are intelligent, respectful, direct, confident, dirty-minded, playful, and attentive. Strong and consistent communication skills are vital to me. Not looking to jump into anything, willing to take my time to find correct match.

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  United States

I’m seeking a Dom/master who can mold me into his perfect submissive. I enjoy being obedient, following rules and completing tasks. I also like being punished and restrained. I’m prefer online however I travel for work to numerous states and if you are in my area that’s a huge plus. Any other questions feel free to message me!

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27 y/o      California

Looking for caring Daddy dom type. Online for now. Would like something that turns into more with time. Under 40.

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41 y/o      The Woodlands, Texas

40F
5 ft 8 in
Heterosexual
Monogamous
Sapiosexual
Demisexual
Willing to Relocate

Hello,
I am a kind, loving, intelligent Princess sub, who has been patiently waiting to be claimed by only one man.

I want to belong entirely to him.

I want to connect on all levels so that sex becomes a transcendent experience.

Please, visit my profile to see more about who I am and what I want.

Love always,
Princess Liz

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23 y/o      Puerto Rico

I'm looking for someone that I can connect with and not be afraid to be who I am truly inside. I don't want to to hide from my partner and I don't want them to hide from me. I'm a very shy person and often time way to honest for my own good. I love helping others and I adore animals. The person I'm looking for needs to be the type that's a natural alpha since I'm way to submissive to be with anyone else that could remotely pose a submissive feel. That being said I don't just lay down and take whatever commands or orders you might give out. I'm a sub but I'm also a brat and I Will act out if I feel even the slightest loosing on the grip you might have on me. But if you can deal with that part of me then you'll have a submissive that's really loyal and will be there. Btw before I forget I'm also a little and its important that every dom knows that so there's no confusion when you and I talk with each other. I desire honesty at all times and if were ever going through something communication is a absolute must. I don't like liars or cheaters. I'm hoping to find the right daddy dom for me, someone who understands what I'm saying when I'm not saying anything at all. I hope with all my heart that someday we'll meet. I'm trying not to lose faith but sometimes i have to lock my little side away just so i can keep going in this big adult world but I'll keep on waiting for you no matter where you are.

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31 y/o      New York, New York

First time signing on in a year or so. Tried vanilla dating once again, but I find myself back on here. Although I haven’t found the right man for me yet, I still have hope. My profile is much more in depth for those who are interested! Xo

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  Ireland

I’m Miffy, 28 from Ireland. Willing to relocate within Europe. I want to be the perfect slave for the right Daddy/ Master and being collared by the right person would be a dream come true. I have around 10 years experience in the lifestyle. 5 words that would sum up my slave side would be: service oriented, masochist, filthy urinal, toy and loyal pet. I want to be trained to be what the “perfect submissive” looks like in your eyes. I love being trained, being told what to do, when to touch myself, what to eat, when to go to bed, etc. I like my suffering in big doses, but it does take a lot to make me cry. I love face slaps, punches, blood play, fear play, humiliation and degradation, cable ties, electro play, CNC, anal, piggy play, severe denial, cages, heavy impact play, being spat on, breeding, piss play, giving body worship, specifically foot and ass worship, and obviously there’s lots more I am forgetting. I love pup play too, that’s a more non sexual space for me to regress.

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  Illinois

I’m a 21y/o f chocolate skinned and looking for a dom. I’ma be blunt I’m not very experienced in this field but so willing to learn I’m into creating deep connections w others and the dom/sun relation I’m looking for is something along those lines I want to have fun of course but this is meaningful for me I want to be able to experience all the kinks out there and learn what really moves me with someone I can genuinely trust I was a dom I can fully allow to control and own me but I have to trust you first!

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37 y/o      Bismarck, North Dakota

I am seeking a life long in-person relationship with a single, straight Dom/Top/Master between the ages of 35-50. For additional information, please see my profile page. If you like what you see, please send me a message.

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29 y/o      Ontario

I Need a Daddy

I am 29 and I am looking for an online Dom or Daddy/Dom. I have only had one Dom so my experience is limited. I need a Daddy with a firm hand and he must be constant. I can be defiant at times . I like a little pain, but am good with toys and spankings.

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  Atlanta, Georgia

Hi, I'm a trans female sub, years on hormones... looking for a dom with interest in theatrical and brutally creative bondage and domination for a lifestyle dedicated to expressing ourselves through kink. I want to be a captive slave, obviously there are practical elements that need to be navigated but... you know. I like latex, rope, needles, impact, humiliation, exhibitionism and protocol and I have at least some experience in all of them.
I want to be clear, I'm looking for someone with enthusiasm for BDSM and a desire to do things right. You can't be a good dom if you aren't humble enough to learn, and I'm not interested in repressed people who are gonna get all hot and bothered by the idea but don't have the knowledge nor situation to do full time slavery. I'm interested in eventually getting to a full time BDSM Lifestyle. But obviously that needs to be felt out.
Local to Atlanta area, hoping to find someone within a few hours driving distance because super long distance sucks.

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  Atlanta, Georgia

I'm a somewhat experienced slave looking for a creative and deeply sadistic dom looking for captivity and objectification scene or hopefully eventually lifestyle. Located in Atlanta area. Into needles, watersports, cages, canes, rubber, pup play, taboo roleplay.

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  Queensland

Brisbane based sub looking for her master. Train me, spank me, control me. Master knows best for his pet.

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67 y/o      Tennessee

I'm looking for a Dominant who is intelligent, confident, wants both bedroom and lifestyle and has a high sex drive. A single man who has traditional values about life and relationships, is honest, loyal, gives respect, structure and consistent communication. Financial stability is an absolute must. Eventual forever 24/7 IRL.

I am a single submissive, youthful in appearance and mind, curvy but losing. I'm loyal, honest, great with communication and conversation, sophisticated, confident, intelligent, laugh frequently with a bit of a wild side. Need to touch and be touched, but not clingy. I have a very high libido and though I am truly searching for One, I would consider a permanent MFM. I will make you an absolute priority in my life and I respectfully expect the same. Please view my profile for more.

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  London, England

I desire to meet an experienced Dominant man i can explore and try out as many activities as possible, well me and my sisters

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  Tennessee

Hi I’m sunnyshine. I’m a little/sub and I’m looking

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48 y/o      United States

Please contact me if you 45 or old and white and from the USA.

Looking for hard-core no mercy giving.

Not seeking to be a sex slave.

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21 y/o      England

Hi there, as it states I'm new to the scene. I've been researching the bdsm community for quite some time now but have never been bold enough to actually do anything. Anyways not only am I looking to talk to some Doms and get first hand experiences and advice (knowledge is power people), I'm also want to make friends hopefully with a few subs.
I'm not looking for anything permanent since I'm not in the right state of mind atm however I am in that experiment stage and am curious to find out a lot about this community and try a lot of things.
I've read however about these Doms that spam accounts often with owned/ collared subs or are just straight up invasive. Not cool at all, this community functions on trust, respect and rules. If you just want someone to straight up control without getting to know the person and establishing boundaries then you're no dom and I will give you sass if I see you in my dms. Other than that I'm really excited for this experience and can't wait ;)

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37 y/o      Wausau, Wisconsin

I am a demisexual little (3-5) looking for a daddy. One who is strict but fun. I need a lot of attention. I am looking for in person or online. Please read my profile and message me.

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35 y/o      Belgium

Hello.
I'm looking for someone and to be honest, at this moment I'm not entirely sure of what I'm looking for because I have several different needs, which don't seem to all fit in a certain specific role.
I'm looking for a man who is mature, kind, and likes to give attention. Someone who gives me strength when I need it. So maybe I'm looking for a Daddy.
I'm also looking for a man who enjoys roleplay and dirty rough sex. So maybe I'm looking for a Dom.
Maybe I'm looking for someone who can be both. Or maybe I'm looking for two different men who are the different things I need.
I want someone who respects me (but also who loves treating me like he doesn't during sex). Someone with who I can be good friends. With who I click and share a connection. And that also feels the same about me.
I like to obey during sex but I hate to do it outside it.
I'm looking for an open relationship (at least for now).
I would say more but there's a word limit so I will edit my profile and write it there.

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  Las Vegas, Nevada

Hi kinksters ;)

Let’s try a new personal for the new year!

About me:
• I hover quite in the middle in terms of submission; sometimes I want to be a complete brat, but I also want to be a good princess half the time
• Currently ~210lbs, active lifestyle and healthy diet for weight loss
• Majorly into asphyxiation and degradation, would really love to try dp some day

Looking for:
• Dom MEN ages 23 through 39
• Men who are physically fit
• Want an IN PERSON arrangement; full disclosure, I cannot afford travel and don’t have my own place (living at home). So I need someone who’s willing to at least split a hotel room now & then
• Looking for a best friend, with incredible dom energy in the bedroom but very respectful and “traditional” relationships publically

Please be patient, I’ve been internet-burned too much :(

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Rope bunny
95% Submissive
91% Masochist
89% Degradee
85% Boy/Girl
67% Ageplayer
66% Brat
59% Experimentalist
50% Slave

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  London, England

Looking for the right guy to draw out my submission. Most men I meet are underwhelming and predictable. Prove me wrong? Into a whole host of things but more than anything dirty talk and vocal commands, wax-play and spanking. Looking for online at the moment, with the possibility of in person if we really hit it off. Only into the dynamics in bed and anywhere sex-adjacent, otherwise you and I would just enjoy each others company and maybe have some likes in common. 25-30yo men only please.

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  Pensacola, Florida

Hi there. Sorry if this comes across awkward. I’m quite shy until I get comfortable.
I’m not sure *exactly* what I need, so I’m hoping to explore and find out.
I have tried traditional dating and it just doesn’t seem to fit me.
My best long term relationship was when I was allowed to be my submissive self, but there was no maturity in the relationship and life changes happened. A lot can happen in three years and preferences and life styles can unfortunately change.
I am intrigued with the idea of having someone who is invested in helping me achieve my goals and still provide what I do crave.
I am a very passive person. I am a people pleaser. I love making others happy.
Ideally I would love a daddy-type, but I am open to exploring options to find what suits me best.

Thank you so much for reading. :)

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  United States

Own me use me fuck me all day at anytime anywhere

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  Texas

Seeking a daddy/master for some online/in person play ASAP. It’s been so long since I’ve gotten any sort of activity & it is driving me crazy.

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33 y/o      Colombia

Sub looking for an online Dom who loves edging me and making me beg. I enjoy long sessions over snap where my Dom tells me how I should touch myself, which toys I use, and most importantly, when I get to cum. Forced orgasms after a long edging session are something I enjoy until I have to beg my Dom to stop once it gets to be too much. Dirty talk is a huge turn on for me. But more than anything, I love hearing and seeing the effect all of this has on my Dom, there's nothing better than hearing him cum from doing all of that to me.

Biggest issue I've had has been finding someone I can trust and knows how to get in my head, time everything according to my reactions and just take over. Ideally, I'd want to build some trust by having a few phone calls and seeing if there's real chemistry between us. Pics, Skype and videos could come after that.

I'd want someone who isn't sneaking around and is free to talk.

Message me if you feel like playing and seeing if we could work out xx

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  Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania

I am seeking a dominant male online. Someone in usa.

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  United States

Seeking strict Dominant
I enjoy the darker side
Of bdsm, forced, cnc, degradation, pain. Rules giving up complete control, not in a rush to relocate so starting online and moving to irl possibly. Message me if you think you are a fit.

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22 y/o      United States

I am looking for a Dom or Master. I am looking for someone who has experience, patience, willingness to teach. This person needs to be very strict, ambitious, and kind. I am very much into the mental aspect of BDSM. I want to be challenged and pushed to be the best submissive I can be. I want someone to learn me, to know me inside and out, and I want to know my potential Dom the same way. I want to learn how to serve you, to be everything you need. I want structure, discipline, consistency as well as a monogamous relationship that is loving, caring, and something that will last. I am willing to relocate is things seem right. Please send me a message if you seem like a good fit!

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  New Jersey

I am looking for a discreet dom for hookups or long term encounters.
I am in my 40's, in a sexless marriage. I am a sub that wants to be dominated and disciplined and be told how to please you.
Message me and let's talk.

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25 y/o      New Jersey

Hi everyone!!! Looking for that special someone....what does that even mean?
For me, it means someone that is going to love me like I love them. My best friend. When life is hard, our love will make it easy. I just want to worship someone, make them feel like they are ontop of the world while I am sitting at their feet. Check out my profile and see if I'm your girl ?

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  United States

I am back searching for my perfect Daddy.

About me: 30, 5’4, size 6, 36C, curvy but in shape. No children. INFJ. Leo woman in every sense. I have a graduate degree in public policy and split my time between the west coast and DC (for work). I probably would be classified as an “alpha female”. Beautiful, successful, ambitious, and educated. And overall am very career-driven person who I’d working in a difficult industry.

I love wearing lingerie & enjoy dressing sexy. I also like being objectified. I consider myself a "barbie" kind of girl. My hair, makeup, and nails are always done. I’m put together. Lol I do enjoy being a spoiled princess but try not to be a brat. I’m passionate and nurturing. I love to take care of the person I am with, from cooking to cuddling and everything in between.

I am monogamous and am hope to develop something that is long-term. Eventually living together.

I need a firm but gentle hand. I’ll do whatever you ask, within reason. :)

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  Texas

I'm a 28 year old afab masochist who really wants to get involved with some older men. I like pain and I like being dominated but I also like being a little bratty and playful so I would want to be with someone who is okay with that. I'm definitely into impact play and am open to a lot of other things as well. Right now I think I'd like to get to know someone online for a little while first before deciding if I want to do anything in person.

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28 y/o      South Padre Island, Texas

Looking for a pleasure Dom. I am typically more dominant than most but I love nothing more that submitting to a strong willed man.

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39 y/o      Woodbridge, Virginia

I am looking for a master to show me the ropes literally. I've dabbled in being a sub off and on through out my life but have never been able to find a true master to serve. I consider my switch because I perfer the dominance of a man but I love dominating females myself...Freak in sheets and lady on the streets completely describes me! I want a relationship that wil lala, built on trust, complete honestly and mutual respect.

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55 y/o      Danville, Virginia

i am a 55-year-old submissive bbw in search of her forever Owner. i want the vanilla and the lifestyle combination in Him. Ideally, He would be within an hour of my hometown and at least 55-years-old. He needs to be a complete Dom, not just a sexual One. i am anxious to see if Anyone would be interested in giving me a chance.

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35 y/o      South Carolina

I am in my 30s and am looking for a connection. I don't get sexually aroused with small talk or fake facades. I am very blunt. I am looking for someone who is into control play most of all.

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25 y/o      Florida

I’m relatively new to the lifestyle and am interested in learning more from someone who is serious about their role as a dominant while also respecting my boundaries as a professional.

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33 y/o      Virginia

**Please see my profile and BDSM Checklist for additional background.**

I'm a black tomboyish bisexual woman (5'5", ~240lbs) who's into CNC play and currently looking to lose my virginity to a bigger, stronger daddy dom who can restrain me. If this person is willing, they could experiment with me long term. I would also prefer that this man be black or brown-skinned and muscular. I would say that my sub type is about 80% brat and 20% little. I would strongly prefer someone local to my area, but am open to possibly traveling to the Richmond or DMV metro areas.

I am rather shy and not very social. I mostly wear jeans, t-shirts/flannels and sneakers, so if you're looking for someone prissy, sorry but that's not me. :)

Before doing anything, I am willing to get tested and any potential partner must also do so. Condoms are a must. I would like to get to know each other a bit before things heat up. Message me if interested! ;)

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  Fort Worth, Texas

I haven't fully explored bdsm and I really want to try catering to this part of my life. I need someone who is patient and won't push me. I need someone who will start slow. Who will let me set limits as I learn them. Who will suggest new things to try.

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  Minneapolis, Minnesota

I am seeking someone strong and kind and honorable. Someone I can entrust myself to absolutely, my strong sides but especially my helpless side that needs to be loved and protected but also fucked senseless and spanked when I am bad! I want someone comfortable being adored and admired and who values my desire to please him. Connection with phone and videochats but eventually in person.

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  United States

Hi there,
My name is Sofia (20f) and I'm currently a student residing in California. I've always been a very shy, timid, and passive individual, as it feels very natural and comforting to look to someone for guidance, validation, and confirmation. I secretly harbor the desire to relinquish all control and submit to the will of a Dominant. It's quite arousing to fantasize about not just feeling safe and trusting while I'm in such a vulnerable state, but knowing that my innate tendency to submit gives my partner immense satisfaction. I have limited experience in regards to exploring BDSM; I enjoy spanking, bondage, verbal/explicit degradation, being physically marked (i.e., hickies, biting, and bruises) and being treated like your personal whore.

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29 y/o      Lithuania

Looking for a family oriented Dominant. Online could work at the beggining but it must move to real life. I'm a masochistic and want the dynamic to go in an out of the bedroom.
Be realistic about distance

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  Toronto, Ontario

Hello,
I am looking for a Dominant man who understands that what I chose to give is precious and that I am as well. That is because when I give to a Dominant man, it is deep and meaningful. I have exhibitionist tendencies and like to go to BDSM events and be shown off. I am a very intelligent woman and can think up all kinds of 'games' to play in and outside of the bedroom. I do not do any online play at all, only real life for this submissive. Talk soon :)

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25 y/o      Wisconsin

To keep it short and sweet, I’m looking for a dom/master willing to take me as his sub. Pleasing is in my nature and I want to be able to be put to use. I’m 24, looking for any age. I am open to any type of relationship, and would love to hear from you!

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24 y/o      Melk, Lower Austria

Long time owned slaves, back to the market.
My former master introduced me to the darkest and most perverted places of the mind.
Now I am hooked.

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  Scotland

Looking for Daddies/Doms to play with me online and maybe even in person.

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  United States

Looking for a total control dominant man. 38 years old or older.

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  Vancouver, British Columbia

Come see me

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  Birmingham, Alabama

Looking for a Dom who is in Birmingham or within a couple hours drive. If local, I’d like to have someone who can host/meet up 3-4 times a week. If not local, we can have a long distance relationship with maybe weekly sessions where I can drive over. I’ve got a soft spot for intelligent, socially aware, nerds ?

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  England

I am now looking for an experienced dominant.

The will need to enjoy impact play, wax play and exploration inside my hard limits.

They must be no older than 50 and be in fit condition.
I am looking for that connection between a dominant and submissive.

Please read my profile, I am in an open relationship, and we love each other a lot, he is not kink minded and understands that this is something I need as well.

I can promise to always be honest with you, and I will tell it like it is.

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48 y/o      United States

Really looking for the opportunity to open up and offer myself to the right D type. I'm intelligent, well-traveled and read, love talking about movies, world events, psychology or nonsense. It's wonderful to have my mind stimulated as well as my submission. I'm virtual only and am looking for someone who appreciates how deep and beautiful those connections can be. I'm a slave-sided submissive with babygirl/little tendencies who is primarily into mental submission. I love rules, structure and service...and a good mindfuck. I'm loyal, obedient fiercely protective and loving with the right person. Is that you?

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  Chicago, Illinois

26 yr old African American woman, never married with no children currently living in Tampa. Real time only. Willing to travel if we seem compatable.

A sub with slave tendencies, this one probably has to many limits to be considered a slave. This one will often refer to herself as slave since within those limits she is very obedient, docile and pleasing Open to relocate for the right situation

Experienced at Domestic service Accepting Verbal Humiliation Collar and leash Light bondage Public play, Protocols Obedience Training Objectification Begging Body Worship Human Footstool.

What this slave is seeking in a Master Any age and experience level would be considered. He should be confident in knowing he deserves to be pleased and likes having a slave at his beck and call, intelligent, a great communicator, and strong. At least several kinks in common. I have a low pain tolerance so would not be a good fit for a sadist.

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  Massachusetts

Looking to be your Doll, I am trans but will go all the way (or not) whatever you want. Build my body to your needs! In need of a Master to whip me into shape. I am constantly working on myself to improve my looks and figure. If I am someone you may want, get in touch ?

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  Missouri

Hello-
I am interested in a Dom to get to know in hopes of one day meeting IRL. I really like the mental aspect of the D/s relationship and like men that are sapiosexual. I am really turned on by kindness, intelligence and humor. I have more on my profile if you are interested in getting to know me more :)

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47 y/o      Pottstown, Pennsylvania

In need of a new Dom. That said, I'm not your regular sub. I'm a woman to be reckoned with. I have a very powerful personality. I'm very much the Head Bitch In Charge in many situations. I fight for myself and what I know is right, and I stand up for other people. I will not be treated as a doormat or a piece of furniture. But if I'm put in the right hands, and given the right treatment, I can be a very submissive kitten and a very, very good girl. Are you up for the challenge?

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41 y/o      Knoxville, Tennessee

I am looking for someone in my area looking for a fairly new little

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