Submissive Women Seeking Dominant Men

It is really hard to find what I am looking for! But that's ok, I'm waiting for a handsome, professional, experienced and kind Dom to find me. I'm a classy, ladylike girl next door that wants to give my submissiveness to the right Dom. I'm new (ish), but ready and excited to find the right man to submit to. Online at first is great, but I don't want to be your "side" . I want to be your only lovely, devoted sub in real life?

Searching for my Daddy/Master/Owner. Looking for someone who is serious, Dominant, and wants long term. With me. I prefer in person, but online is completely acceptable if serious about meeting and becoming a true Dominant/submissive/Master/slave relationship. If you have any questions ask and I’ll answer ☺️

I'm currently new on bdsm. After many years I have finally decided to look for dominant.
I'm looking for a long term relationship with a caring dominant. Preferably in person but I'm open for online training if there's the chance for meeting.

hi im in search of a dominant particularly a daddy dom or just a caregiver please contact me for more information. Please no one over 30

I'm daily busy with work, as it rules every aspect of my life. But I have a set range of leave I can take. Near the holiday season!

I'm looking for a teacher, someone who can show, guide, train me. I have no experience but I know for sure this is what I want. This is who I am. And I want to explore it.

I am self sufficient, I can provide for myself. I'm merely looking for a guide.

If you're interested please look over my profile and message me.

47, married female,...sshhhhh, hubby doesn't know about my extracurricular needs....if this is an issue for you...you're welcome for saving you time...stop reading...if you are continuing to read, I will not take the blame....hehehe....would love to find someone near me for something ongoing yet discreet...I have a wonderful online Dom but now want someone in person and he cant do that, but knows I am looking here.... sooooooo here I am. In all of my enthusiasm and sarcasm, which has gotten me into trouble more than once, I am still learning so in need of more training too...he should preferably be married as well and definitely have facial hair!.....I expect this could be a wonderfully fun and kinky time with the right person

P.S. I don't have KIK, or InstaSnapChatOGram
I'm 5'4", dirty blonde hair, green eyes glasses, little curvy

very new, but the idea of being tied up and the idea of giving over control to that trusted person has interested me for quite some time....finally acting on it....

Limits
extreme pain or humiliation, bathroom antics/mess, anything illegal...and yes that includes dogs for chrissakes!...lol......and as for pain ...I'm still exploring what those limits might be...

update:
may have been unclear about my online Dom....I am Not looking to leave him or replace him, so do not ask me to, I won't. I want something in person. He is gracious enough and so very good to me, that I can seek the physical.

Hello! I am a switch who wants to explore my submissive side, I would be considered a little or a pet. However I am NOT a slave or into TPC, I need a dom who is affectionate but can be stern when I need it. I can be a bit bratty so I need a stern but tender hand to guide me. I am new at this so please be patient. I am always willing to also be a dom for a sub as well, however I would be considered a mommy because of my natural care taking personality.

Hi I'm interested in finding a Master in real life who is single..self sufficient and is willing to work towards a live in situation with me We can start talking online but be willing to meet before I agree to anything. I have never been owned before but I am very willing to learn and open to anything you desire.. I'm very eager to please but I am looking for an all around attraction with a confident Master. I am 38 years old and I would prefer someone at least my age preferably someone older.. I am very intelligent so please be honest and don't waste my time or yours

Looking for a Dominant Man to hold me accountable to my goals. i’m in my mid-20’s and struggling to balance my job, school and diet/exercise plans. The ideal situation would be to set up a system where You and i set goals and i send updates at an agreed upon interval (reflections/photos) throughout the progression. Of course, i will be punished for failing to fulfill your demands! (and maybe rewarded for being a good girl?) This submission will be online only.

Hello, I’m a newbie. Looking for a dom relationship to progress to a 1:1. I work in the community so I have some limitations. New York area.

Wanted - hard dominant Master to train cumslut whorewife how to behave in front of groups - needs to be very strong & provide hard lessons if the slut doe not obey the commands - no matter what they are & however many are in the group

I'm looking for a teacher, a mentor, a dominant that is willing to help me build myself up and further my understanding of this lifestyle.

Hey All, new to the community, but not the lifestyle. Ideally, I would be interested in finding the perfect balance among relationship of someone, who possesses a specific set of qualities. If I find that, awesome.
In the meantime, I could use the helpful distraction of a dominant, attractive male, that might like to role play as “daddy.” Of course I would exude the role as daddy’s naughty “little girl” that desperately needs some correction in the form of punishment. I believe a spanking over daddy’s knee would be deemed necessary.
If interested, get at me. No creeps. And only genuine interests please, & ty. :)

I am a fun sassy sexy sub. I am not looking to have the brat in me tamed or broken. I need a very strict stern dom who will understand me and my needs. A good sense of humor is a must in order to play with me.

Hello, I am currently 18 about to turn 19, I have always been very drawn to and interested in the BDSM community. Due to the fact that I will be moving in a few months, I am currently seeking an emotional and sexual relationship online with a dom who isn't set out to solely dominate my life. I want someone who can micromanage me and give me space when asked. Someone who will not take advantage of my trust and will work with me as I learn more about and explore my sexuality. I am a very shy and awkward individual until I begin to open up. Not really into age play, but I do have a daddy kink. If this interests you or you would like to learn more, don't be afraid to message me <3

I’ve been on here looking for the right dom to use me and fulfill my needs as a sub. I want someone who might even be into using me anal only, as well as other tasks. Looking to be used online.

I'm a submissive brat and I'm looking for a Dom East indian to similiar race. Younger then me prefered. I am obedient and a fast learner. I love affection and being treated as a toy.

Having a hard time finding someone I click with that enjoys the same things as me. Just looking for a good conversation !

Hello and welcome to my profile.

After years of knowing my kinky self, I am finally ready to venture out and find that special someone that I can submit to and ultimately, give myself to. My husband is OK with this, as he does not quite understand the nuances of BDSM. My marital status may change in the future, but please be aware of this situation for now.


I love humiliation, impact play, power exchange, bondage and the thrill that comes with submission. I hope to find someone that I can relate to in and out of the playroom. Please be intelligent, mature and understanding. I am sure that we both have a life filled with family, friends and work, but still seek this special relationship that completes a part of us that is hard for most people to understand. With the right person, I hope to explore and learn more about my in-born submissive desires. And with the right person, I know I can fulfill my deep needs to submit, serve and honor. I just want to find you so we can get to know each other slowly, build the trust necessary and start enjoying the wonderful world of dominance and submission together.


I am too old for games (51), so please be real and honest and I will be the same. Being local is mandatory (Long Island is great, but I can venture off the Island for the right person.) No smokers, please. Drug and disease free a must; humor and good conversation a big plus.

I’m Ella, a 24 year old girl from the Netherlands. Let me tell you about myself, so that you can decide if we should have a chat :-)

I love it when someone has the power of me. I love to be submissive. However, I do want to feel like my obedience is enforced, rather than I’m just giving it to you. I want to feel tamed. In my opinion, it’s too easy, too simple, if you just give me commands, and I follow them, and that’s it then. I obey to people that outsmart me, that see through me, that are able to read me and know how to pick up on that.

I get intimidated by strict but calm masters. And I love to feel intimidated ;-). I will test my limits… But only to see if you are able to put a stop to this. To see if you are confident, experienced and intelligent enough to put a stop to it. Once you do, I’ll be your good girl.

I don't see a Dom/sub relation as purely sexual. I like it when someone has subtle power over me in the most trivial conversations. An overall feeling of being owned… That’s what turns me on. Also, being with my last Dom made me realize that it’s valuable to be friends as well as more. I hope we can talk and laugh together and get to know each other's vanilla side a bit too.

About your looks… They matter to me. I can’t help it - I need to be sexually attracted to your appearance. For this reason, we probably won’t be a match if you’re older than 45. Also, it would help if you’re reasonably fit. I am too :-). I’m sorry if this last part sounds a bit shallow.

A little disclaimer… You should know that I am very scared for my privacy, and I don’t want my relationship with you to interfere with certain aspects of my life, for instance my work. Because of this, I feel quite hesitant about using my camera, sharing pictures, stuff like that. So I am looking for someone who is okay with just chatting. In time I can probably show more of me, but until I am ready to do that, I need you to have some patience. It’ll be worth the wait…

I'd love to hear from you! Ella xx