Looking for long term relationship with bdsm dynamics
The title is as said, I'm looking to date or be in a relationship with someone who is committed to maintaining open and honest communication, has emotional maturity, and is devoted to the understanding that trust needs to be built all while actively participating in a private bdsm lifestyle within our relationship. My experience on this site has not been great in the recent past and I am holding my cards tighter this round as I vet out each response so bear with me.
I lean more submissive but can absolutely take control when my mood strikes which is why I find myself identifying as a switch. I enjoy the chase of a dom wanting me and working to win me over, teasing through flirting or inside jokes, and consistent communication about wants, needs, limits, and comfort level. I have a list of questions I plan to ask any future doms to ensure you and I are a good fit.
I am located on the east coast and have evenings and weekends mostly available to chat and play.
Hello! I am an inexperienced lady looking for someone to show me the ropes. I prefer online at first then hopefully in person experiences later. I am new to personals but a couple things I like are good communication, great smiles, spankings, learning, and being able to relax after a long workday. Can't wait to meet you!
I think I need a Daddy. I've played online some and know I'm naturally submissive. I like to be a good girl. Once trust communication are built, help me stay hydrated and productive please. Have me plug my ass and get my chores done so I can cum on command for you.
Florida Submissive looking for her Florida Gentleman Dom
I am very detail oriented and love tasks to complete, disciplined professional woman looking for the special Dom who enjoys molding his submissive. Can you be what I am looking for I would like to find out. Shy at first but wide open when comfortable within my environment.
Looking for a family oriented Dominant. Online could work at the beggining but it must move to real life. I'm a masochistic and want the dynamic to go in an out of the bedroom.
Be realistic about distance
I am seeking a life long in-person relationship with a single, straight Dom/Top/Master between the ages of 35-50. For additional information, please see my profile page. If you like what you see, please send me a message.
Intelligent Bratty sub seeking Dominant Daddy type
31 year old Brat seeking Dominant Daddy type 35-50 my preferred type is cerebral and established in what they do for a living.
I'm very intelligent, quick witted pride myself on my witty banter, affectionate, silly, kind, love to laugh, flirty, want to please and be pleased in return. If you put time into me you'll get it back in spades.
I'm 5'2, brown hair, dark green eyes, curvy (not fat) with big boobs.
This isn't my first day on the scene, if your new or inexperienced don't waste either of our time. I can spot a fake/predator a mile away so again don't bother I have ZERO time for them you won't even get a message back.
I've served under one RL Dom and 2 online all of which ended amicably. I'd prefer a RL relationship but also consider online for the right person. Feel free to message me, try and be creative in greeting if it's just "hey how's you" I doubt you'd get a message back. Happy browsing! ?
Hi I’m 26yrs old in manhattan looking for a relationship inperson/ long term with a dom. This will be my first d/s relationship but still hoping to do regular stuff together and have a relationship. Not interested in online only or too much of a age gap. Okay thanks ?? talk to you soon ?
Are you looking for your next submissive? Have you ever thought about a fairly new inexperienced, mature, bbw submissive could be the right one for you?
With inexperienced comes none of those old habits from other Doms to break. The fact that alot is new to them also reignites that passion. Getting to explore new things together to deepen the connection.
If any of that sounds interesting I invite you to read my profile. If you like what you read, send me a message to chat.
This is a ridiculous ask as well as unlikely. Things work out. I’m a flying from Chicago to Ft Meyers Florida. There is a long story, plans change. I will be in Naples at a nice hotel the 5-10. I’m asking a fun man come and join me to relax, dress up, okay in pool, play in bed or not. Not looking for someone to be my dom right now. I’m asking a Dom or Sub ti join me for fun. Only in mood to fuck men this week. ????♀️?
Yes, it is a true OWNER I dream of. To be able to live 24/7 as property. To lose myself entirely in service to HIM. To be obedient and passive. To be allowed to love an Owner without asking for love in return, just seeking his satisfaction with me, his slavegirl.
I'll be honest. I know sometimes I'll post an ad and you may or may not hear back from me or I'll just outright disappear. I'm working that, I'm working on trying to find the right balance of consistency in my life with my spaghetti brain. So I apologize to any I've just disappeared on. I'm a mess. Stable and strong with years of experience both live in and distance, but definitely a mess haha. I can commit, I can be loyal, I am willing and eager. I would love for someone to control everything again. I like parent control apps, I'm into every aspect of control. I love being a kajira I love being a slave, I love mental conditioning.
I need someone patient and a way like discord or something for better quicker communication. If you're socially distant and persistence I will fall off the boat. I know who I am, my weaknesses my flaws take me as I am and make me who I should be next to You.
Hello Everyone, title kind of explains it. I am 28yo female slave who lives in the Memphis TN location. Im looking for a Master in or near the Memphis location for a TPE CNC 24/7 M/s dynamic. I am not into online dynamics. Couples are ok with me as well. Looking to start with regular service visits and hope to lead into a live in slave.
This slave has been unowned for too long and needs to fulfill her life purpose of servitude.
LF Play Partner
LF play partner
Looking for dom with sadistic tendencies to play with. Based in north west england if possible.
Prefereably aged 40+
Will travel to a point...
Would like to try some new things.
Sense of humour is a bonus
I’m new to this world and would love to have an online dynamic to get me introduced to this lifestyle. I’ve been interested since I first heard about it when I was like 19. Looking for someone who is patient. Not looking for anyone over 50. If you have any questions please shoot a message! Hope to hear from you soon!
I'm just a normal girl, who got a little curious.
I'm looking for someone patient, more of a mentor, teacher, trainer. Someone who can lead me, challenge me, push me to my limits and beyond.
I fantasize a lot about exploring sexual pain / pleasure thing, especially regarding my nipples and clit, but under someone's guidance and control. I don't want to injure myself or cause any damage to my health.
The other problem is that I'm really bad at causing pain to myself, I just can't bring myself to do it. I know it would be easier to just let someone do it in real life, but I'm not there yet. So maybe if someone guide me and encourages me and know what he's doing, I could bring myself to do it. The main thrill is not just doing it myself but being told what to do and having little or no control over it.
Please read my profile too.
I'm looking for someone that I can connect with and not be afraid to be who I am truly inside. I don't want to to hide from my partner and I don't want them to hide from me. I'm a very shy person and often time way to honest for my own good. I love helping others and I adore animals. The person I'm looking for needs to be the type that's a natural alpha since I'm way to submissive to be with anyone else that could remotely pose a submissive feel. That being said I don't just lay down and take whatever commands or orders you might give out. I'm a sub but I'm also a brat and I Will act out if I feel even the slightest loosing on the grip you might have on me. But if you can deal with that part of me then you'll have a submissive that's really loyal and will be there. Btw before I forget I'm also a little and its important that every dom knows that so there's no confusion when you and I talk with each other. I desire honesty at all times and if were ever going through something communication is a absolute must. I don't like liars or cheaters. I'm hoping to find the right daddy dom for me, someone who understands what I'm saying when I'm not saying anything at all. I hope with all my heart that someday we'll meet. I'm trying not to lose faith but sometimes i have to lock my little side away just so i can keep going in this big adult world but I'll keep on waiting for you no matter where you are.
Hihi! Hi<3 I'm 19 and I would like someone (25-35) to be an internet dom(daddy) for me. Someone to help me chose what to wear everyday, pick out what to eat, when to clean my room, etc. I'm very naturally submissive & we can talk about any sexual interests privately. What I look like rn: I'm 4'11 and weigh 130lbs I have blonde hair and dark blue green eyes, i have a few, small, tattoos on my ankle and my nose is pierced. Obviously if we start talking I'll send you pics and videos, I'm not opposed to video/voice calls. So yeah lol.
NE Fl submissive looking for someone in my area. Please read my profile, I prefer someone within driving distance or easy travel. Please have the time for a relationship, not looking for a hookup or fwb.
online Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress, hopefully near DMV
hi everyone :) I’m seeking a Dom/Domme/Master/Mistress (basically, a dominant type of any gender) that’s online to start, with maybe/hopefully the potential to move irl later on (ideally you’d be in the DC area!).
a little about me: I’m 25 years old, athletic body type and around 5’6. Submissive with the smallest hint of brat. Ask me anything about my kinks! Really turned on by good writers, well-timed degradation, and sexy voices.
I’m open to a lot of configurations/dynamics, so let’s chat and see if we align! Overall, looking for someone kind, open-minded, a little stern, and genuinely interested in me as a person. Homophobes and cops need not apply :)
Hi my name is Cassie I'm 26 years old and I'm looking for a daddy/master I'm looking for someone thats kind, caring, loving and can be strict when needed , someone is likes taking control, etc hope to here from you
Hi I’m pretty new to this space. I’m looking for an ✨experience✨ for my birthday that’s tomorrow!! I’m turning 20 I am a curvy hispanic woman and I consider myself to be pretty open minded send me a message and maybe we can set something up?
Well, I finally stopped procrastinating and joined the site to see what it’s all about. I’m still trying to figure out what I like and expressing my sexuality, so I’m looking for someone who doesn’t mind taking an inexperienced, adhd having sophomore college student under their belt. Message me if you’re interested, would love to talk casually first instead of jumping straight in.
Look for a someone patient and willing to each someone with very little experience. Just because I have little experience does not mean I'm not willing to put my all in to learn. I need someone stern and willing to be there as much as possible. I have a lot of things from my past I need to work on as well as a direction I want to head for in the future. I am just stuck in between with bad habits I don't always control properly. Please do not message me and expect me to call you sir or Daddy or whatever on your first message. I do not know you. Time will help me trust you.
Exploring what I like, and need someone to help with that. Big on trust, i don’t do hookups or meetups with strangers. I don’t feel sexual attraction to people i have no connection with so being friends and having chemistry is a must. Keeping it short because i’d like to talk specifics in chat if i like you only:) look at my profile before messaging me to see if we’re a good fit first please <3 absolutely not looking for a relationship or anything serious
I’m looking for that perfect owner who wants a 24x7 TPE slave/pet. Full control. Pain, humiliation, degradation. I’m obedient with my only limit being nothing illegal. Message me if you are looking for property.
I’ve been looking for the right Dominant for a while now but no such luck. I’ve been in a couple dynamics but nothing serious. I’ve been into bdsm ever since high school. I was watching Real Sex on HBO at the time. A women was getting hot wax poured on her back, I started my journey in 2018 but finally decided in 2023 that this is the lifestyle for me. I love being Daddy’s good girl and knowing that I’ve done a good job for him. I want to know what it feels like to be truly DOMINATED by a Dom who has my full trust and devotion. Words can’t describe how I feel being submissive. I feel safe , desired , wanted and protected. I want to feel my Doms dominance more than sexually. I want to feel him mentally and emotionally as well. I’m looking for a Dom to motivate and guide me to get me where I need to be. I love pleasing my Daddy and I love the pleasure I receive in return.
Seeking an online Dominant to assist with personal goal setting & accountability. Must be understandable of normal lifestyle needs. I am not new to the lifestyle - have many years of experience - but have nobody in my life personally that can assist with this aspect. I know what I need to be doing but without the accountability to someone, I falter quickly in my goals. Are you that person?
A little about me. I am a 40 something year old female in an open, poly relationship. I like to be very active physically but walking, running 5k races and teaching aqua classes at a local gym. I believe in body positivity at any walk of life no matter where one is on the path. I am NOT HWP and that's okay. I work a full time job, in addition to teach at the gym that is pretty sedentary.
About You... You must be Dominant... You should have knowledge of fitness, lifestyle, goal setting and accountability. You won't immediately go into 'send me pics' because those emails will be deleted. Any pictures exchanged will be for the purpose of this situation. You should have an online punishment protocol... how will You hold me accountable for the goals that we have agreed upon? How will You mix it up every now and then. I'm not asking You to write fitness or food plans - again, I know all that. I need someone that I can be accountable to - daily... maybe even multiple times per day... Again... Are you that person?
Tomboi lil for "Daddy" 51F Dallas Texas US
Roleplay and ageplay during sex turns me on. If you can get me off over a video call then I wanna do a playmates for awhile maybe FWB thing as long as we both want.
I'm a chubby babygirl when a Daddy type wants to take his lil thing and make her want it, and loves her soft roundedness. Are you the taboo type that can --in fantasy-- talk about taboo things? All the while knowing we will have sex in real life for as long as we both desire. Sapio- and demi-sexual but not femm girl loves jeans and flannels and outdoors in nature in mild weather; these things give me pleasure and I want to please my big daddy too.
Is there someone who could want the same near in Dallas or would travel here to get time together?
1950s Barbie Doll Looking for Smart, Funny and Caring Daddy Coach
I'm an autistic Jewish woman who is becoming a 1950s submissive housewife sex doll. My office worker horoscope is INTP 5w4. I'm working on my social anxiety and turning myself into a barbie.
I'm a very pretty girl who is curvy with a nice body, butt and legs and has a beautiful face. I am very fun to hang around with but I am a little odd. I don't like dumb people. I love to be dressed up and vulnerable with my caring daddy. Not into humiliation at all
My other interests are: my businesses, hip hop, computer science, math, stocks, art creating and collecting, judaism, and health and fitness.
I love a protective daddy, big bro or uncle who is interested in dollification because I'm new and sorta clueless. Not looking for anything serious or exclusive at the moment. I like rich, savage and tough guys like Eminem and 50 Cent, but I like other types of guys too. I'm from a very conservative background, so please don't be a creeper or a stupid person because I'll roast you.
Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read this! This may be cheesy but I'm looking for my forever. Someone who can be my best friend, my dom, my supporter.
I am a brat so having good banter and challenging each other is what is fun. My biggest turn on is when someone knows me so well is when they can guess my actions, my thoughts, and be able to control them.
I value honesty, communication, self-control, ambition, and dominance. I like being micromanaged and having tasks/to do lists. I love praise and impact play (bruises are a must). I want someone who will push me to be better than I am.
I live in Minnesota but am open to a long distance that turns to in person. I am willing to relocate if it comes to that. I have been a vegetarian for 11 years. I have 2 cats who are my babies! And I don't want kids. I own over 450 books.
Im a sub female based on DC. I’m 24, six foot one, and athletic. I’m looking for a dom that values consent and safety. Please send a photo when you respond if you are comfortable (if you’re not comfortable showing your face no worries)
29 years old at this writing in May 2023, currently living in Chicago, but willing to relocate for the right situation if you aren't local. Only speaks English so if out of the USA an English speaking country.
Open to considering other dynamics but prefer serving as a live in domestic slave to a deserving dominant that is a great communicator with at least some similar kinks (leash play, humiliation, full list on profile) and willing to accept my limits (also in profile)
Please if contacting me state your expectations and interests with at least some detail.
Hello I’m Em. Im a 26 yr old submissive looking for a dom. Someone to help guide me as I learn more about what being a submissive means. I’m open to an online dynamic or an in person one if it is feasible. I live in missouri with not a lot of leeway to travel but I can host if things go that route. I would prefer someone between 27-40 but I’m open to assessing the parameters on an individual basis. I can be a brat so be warned i’m not a just gonna take what you say at face value and submit kinda girl. I will question you and push you not to be disrespectful but to see how far i can go and if you’ll stick around. if you are interested or have any questions please don’t hesitate to reach out.
I want to hear your voice break when I call you Daddy or Sir. To make you struggle to maintain control. I want to push hard, and get knocked back into my place. Can you make me crave you? Dominate me mentally? Which one of us will give in?
Seeking a brat handler. I'm defenseless against natural charisma, dominance, and a deviously clever Dom. I crave the mental sparring, the banter, and being made into brainless mush when I'm outwitted. One of my favorite activities healslutting, so you get all the scratch 'n' sniff stickers if you can top while mid-game. Submission and I are already acquainted. I don't need a tired monologue about how I can only learn to submit through you, I want to learn about you. Can you make me giddy for the next message?
I prefer my partners my own age (or a little older) so 34-44, and the closer you are to Idaho the better. Not interested in something strictly online, though it can start there, and I'm Monogamish.
Sassy sub looking for a real-life romance hero Dom. Strong, tall, handsome (to me) sexy dominant but with a soft heart. I'm looking for a RL long-term D/s with a man who takes charge but listens to his sub. Who can be seriously romantic making my heart melt, playful, and funny but have a strong hand when necessary. (I can be a handful at times). Let's talk and see where it goes.
I'm a new sub looking for a serious long term Dom. Must be local or willing to travel. I'm new, kind of bratty, but I know my kinks and limits. Willing to explore new things that I've never tried (which is a long list) send me a message.
I’m looking for a Dom to get to know, preferably in MO or close enough to make travel possible, find out if we click on a mental and emotionally intimate level before moving forward into a form of 24/7 TPE dynamic preferably. I’m beginning my introduction to the lifestyle fresh with new eyes and looking to take time to learn new things and be trained to be the best sub I can be without losing myself again. Feel free to message me respectfully. Unasked for honorifics or assumed dynamics and boundary crossing will have you shown the front door before you even think the color “red”.
In short, I’m looking for the one I’m meant to devote myself to
bit more about me:
I am a sociology/ psychology nerd, but currently pursuing creative writing, which is also something I do. Stylistically, I've been described as goth/ steampunk, but i think I am just myself. I am a non drinker/ smoker; but I don't care if people around me do. Though I consider myself to be rather kinky and liberal, I have some traditional kinks. Such as monogamy lol.
oh, and I love older guys. So don't be shy.
Some disclaimers: for the time being, I am not looking to date anyone outside of a 200 mile radius. Love knows no distance. But at the moment, I wouldn't be able to make that work. Also, in terms of developing a meaningful bond / relationship, I would need to take things slow.
Maybe I should just give up on ever finding a Master I have on this site and others and still haven't been able to find a Master who is seriously interested in having me as 24/7 slave. I just very disappointed I have been very unsuccessful in peaking any one interst