Low effort messages from dudes

This won't ever change, most don't know how to put in effort

Thu May 02, 2024 7:20 pm • 49 Replies • 7181 Views

Celebrity kink crush

Do you have a celebrity crush that is based on your idea that they are dominant or submissive and if so who is that for you?

Mon Apr 15, 2024 10:35 pm • 23 Replies • 2445 Views

Flame?

Flame, roast, dis, ECT all basically the same

Sat Apr 06, 2024 4:10 am • 3 Replies • 694 Views

Taking it or giving it in the ass

Likes it, no, but if I was submitting to someone have done it to please him

Wed Mar 20, 2024 8:21 pm • 24 Replies • 4149 Views

Re: Conversing between the sexes

As a younger man I struggled to express what I wanted in both vanilla and BDSM contexts. (I have little issue expressing what I want now.)

Looking back, I believe it was a matter of low self worth. ...

Mon Mar 04, 2024 10:36 pm • 12 Replies • 2161 Views

Conversing between the sexes

Good question. I am going to view your question from the perspective of a starting relationship: A man meeting a woman or prospective partner and starting dialogue towards a relationship.

It depen ...

Fri Mar 01, 2024 10:31 pm • 12 Replies • 2161 Views

Conversing between the sexes

Do men, whatever their role on the lifestyle have a harder time expressing what they want in a BDSM relationship than men in vanilla relationships?

If you think so why would that be?

Fri Mar 01, 2024 5:26 pm • 12 Replies • 2161 Views

Submissive verses Slave

Many, particularly those new to this sub-culture, do not see the various flavors of kink as distinct and separate or overlapping from each other rather than all being the same thing.

Sadists often ...

Wed Feb 28, 2024 8:03 pm • 53 Replies • 9332 Views

Addressing Other Master/Dommes

In an email or private chat I do use an honorific, in public forums or chat I do not

Wed Jan 17, 2024 5:00 pm • 27 Replies • 4251 Views

Deserving to be served

When I met the Master that became my very first owner in a BDSM situation I felt very early that he deserved to be obeyed and pleased, long before I even understood what that meant. This is a difficul ...

Thu Nov 30, 2023 6:17 pm • 2 Replies • 1237 Views