Making the first move

I feel the dominant should be the one to make the first move.

Tue May 23, 2023 4:49 pm • 26 Replies • 3661 Views

Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

chattel,
What did you think about the reason given? Did you ...

Tue May 23, 2023 3:12 pm • 34 Replies • 4761 Views

Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

chattel,
What did you think about the reason given? Did you ...

Mon May 22, 2023 3:23 pm • 34 Replies • 4761 Views

Locked in Closet to Sleep

I served someone who often had me sleep in the closet, but not bound.

It was psychological to train me to desire to serve in his bed

Thu May 18, 2023 4:40 pm • 34 Replies • 4761 Views

Is addressing HER as Mistress Really Respectful ?

The honorific preferred by the dominant is what matters

Thu May 18, 2023 4:02 pm • 22 Replies • 2627 Views

Is it really that difficult…

In your case at least the attention is from someone that is only excluded atm in your profile. It often goes much further than that for some of us.

I am often approached by sadists despite stating ...

Thu May 18, 2023 4:00 pm • 25 Replies • 3468 Views

Contract Templates?

Clear expectations in written form help a lot in a dynamic.

My recommendation is to make it flexible enough to allow for negotiation in unforseen situations

Sat May 13, 2023 6:02 pm • 7 Replies • 1893 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

Somehow I would imagine the the two texts to the blockee would quite often being "Fuck" and "Off" if this were implented

Thu Apr 06, 2023 3:33 am • 34 Replies • 5291 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Obvious cut and paste messages sent from the same person 47 minutes apart. Doesn't have to 47 minutes, that what I had today, just long enough apart that it isn't a double click

Tue Jan 24, 2023 8:32 pm • 82 Replies • 12480 Views

Turn offs in new conversations

Being able to articulate what someone is seeking in a dynamic with some specifics makes me want to continue a conversation. Somewhat surprisingly to me, this is incredibly rare

Sat Nov 26, 2022 6:18 pm • 82 Replies • 12480 Views