Playtime Table.....

Our bed is king size and not always practical for certain play because it can become hard to reach. We were thinking about a massage table that could fold up and be put away. Do any of you use this? W ...

Sun Feb 28, 2021 5:12 pm • 6 Replies • 2151 Views

What do you think?

I love the last line of your comment. So true.

Wed Oct 07, 2020 5:41 pm • 2 Replies • 1462 Views

What do you think?

I’ve been listening to a lot of 90’s music lately and it occurred to me....I feel like in general there were a lot more references to BDSM in culture during that time than there are today. I know cult ...

Wed Oct 07, 2020 2:45 pm • 2 Replies • 1462 Views

Dealing with shame

If I'm reading your situation correctly.....

1) the THING is something you HAVE done in the past.

2) the THING is something you desire as well as your Dom.

3) for WHATEVER reason, you were un ...

Fri Sep 18, 2020 11:52 pm • 29 Replies • 6838 Views

Dealing with shame

Oh, I like this viewpoint, and I see truth in it! Herein lies one of my coping mechanisms....avoidance/distraction/hiding from uncomfortable things. I'm working on being more available to all the th ...

Wed Sep 09, 2020 12:46 am • 29 Replies • 6838 Views

Dealing with shame

I must have been too vague, not really setting up a good scenario in my post. Here is more context...

The particular times I'm referring to what was wanted of me were not things that were beyond m ...

Tue Sep 08, 2020 11:11 pm • 29 Replies • 6838 Views

Dealing with shame

This very well could have been covered here before. But one thing I’m curious about is shame when (especially as a sub, because that’s where my headspace is) how do you combat feelings of shame when u ...

Tue Sep 08, 2020 9:01 pm • 29 Replies • 6838 Views

Calling sub females! I'm here feeling a little bewildered...

Chat is available right now to non-paying members, too. It might be a good place to make connections. As always, the best method when entering a new environment or group definitely holds true in onlin ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 4:07 pm • 12 Replies • 3738 Views

Calling sub females! I'm here feeling a little bewildered...

I would suggest going back in time and reading blogs there are a good number on here on many different subjects of the lifestyle along with doing research on submissive guide which also has some ...

Thu Sep 03, 2020 4:03 pm • 12 Replies • 3738 Views

Calling sub females! I'm here feeling a little bewildered...

Hey there! I am very new to exploring this lifestyle (and brand new to this site) and would love to connect with some other like minded people. I've had a few encounters, half good, half not so good ...

Wed Sep 02, 2020 8:00 pm • 12 Replies • 3738 Views