It’s simple. It’s just like dancing. He leads and you follow. If you step on his toes, that’s on him not you. He is supposed to figure out how to get you there. You job is as simple as doing what f ...

I have reached that point in my life where I am who I am, and giving back is more fulfilling that taking more. In my time as a Dom, I have found that being a good Dom is the same as mentoring. Both should be aimed at growth.

Thanks for your replies. My experience mimics yours. Most that identify as subs are pleasers at heart. But to really release that submission to get them to experience those “ I’m not so sure about th ...

I am new to this site but not new to this lifestyle. I find new to the lifestyle subs are ready to submit for the experience. As a dominant I get no feeling of dominance from someone who readily giv ...

Strange that you feel the need to be submissive. I can’t speak for others but I like to draw the submission out of my subs. Too easy leaves me feeling unfulfilled. A dominant’s job is to get you to ...