Inexperienced sub looking for advice

It’s simple. It’s just like dancing. He leads and you follow. If you step on his toes, that’s on him not you. He is supposed to figure out how to get you there. You job is as simple as doing what f ...

Thu Sep 24, 2020 3:38 am • 18 Replies • 7321 Views

How do I acquire a sub girl?

Go down to the subsRus and buy two. They are on sale. Really dude, how do you get a girlfriend, it’s really not different

Thu Sep 24, 2020 3:29 am • 41 Replies • 11146 Views

Advice on blow jobs.

From a Dom perspective I enjoy the gagging. I know it's unpleasant and you would rather not gag, but that you would push past it for him knowing that you don't like it should make him feel dominant ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 6:44 pm • 13 Replies • 5784 Views

Being a Dom and mentoring, the same thing only one has a col

I have reached that point in my life where I am who I am, and giving back is more fulfilling that taking more. In my time as a Dom, I have found that being a good Dom is the same as mentoring. Both ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 4:32 pm • 3 Replies • 1480 Views

Looking for advice from doms and subs

Personally, I cannot understand Dom's that want to control every aspect of someone else's life. I have a hard enough time controlling my own. I have been asked a few times by subs that wanted this, ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 3:50 pm • 32 Replies • 7877 Views

Do you submit freely or are you freed to submit

Thanks for your replies. My experience mimics yours. Most that identify as subs are pleasers at heart. But to really release that submission to get them to experience those “ I’m not so sure about th ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 5:05 am • 19 Replies • 4786 Views

Question for Doms

It’s all about sex and sexuality for me. I don’t want a stepford wife yes dear relationship. I want an equal. I want our bdsm sessions to be sessions and not all day every day. It short be short an ...

Wed Sep 23, 2020 4:55 am • 11 Replies • 3936 Views

Do you submit freely or are you freed to submit

I am new to this site but not new to this lifestyle. I find new to the lifestyle subs are ready to submit for the experience. As a dominant I get no feeling of dominance from someone who readily giv ...

Tue Sep 22, 2020 6:11 am • 19 Replies • 4786 Views

ISO Submissive Meditation to start my day?

Strange that you feel the need to be submissive. I can’t speak for others but I like to draw the submission out of my subs. Too easy leaves me feeling unfulfilled. A dominant’s job is to get you to ...

Tue Sep 22, 2020 5:59 am • 15 Replies • 6059 Views

In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

Dominance is providing the confidence and nurturing to allow others to let go.

Mon Sep 21, 2020 11:25 pm • 61 Replies • 14313 Views