Sub drop or just dissatisfaction?

Where to start

- you 100% have the right and expectations that your limits are understood and respected
- you can say no at any time
- negotiating and agreeing upfront is not topping from the bo ...

Mon Mar 22, 2021 12:25 am • 5 Replies • 3696 Views

Self Experimentation

There is so much you can do at home on your own:

- ice on your nipped and clit
- toothpaste or tiger balm or peppermint oil on your nipple, clit or anus
- body writing on yourself - either positi ...

Sun Mar 21, 2021 11:24 pm • 19 Replies • 7577 Views

Why does it feels like this?

girl is a mindset not an age thing,.

Thu Mar 18, 2021 1:11 am • 19 Replies • 4319 Views

Hair or Bare?

Preference is bare....then trimmed.....then bushy. From a looks perspective but also for when I am down there eating

Thu Mar 18, 2021 12:24 am • 138 Replies • 41258 Views

A slave’s life (realistically)

I think what a slave is depends very much on the dynamic. One explanation I like is that a sub agrees limits and a safeword while the slave gives up that safeword. Certainly a slave has less rights ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 11:55 pm • 11 Replies • 5101 Views

Why does it feels like this?

I am sorry you feel that way. Lots of people feel that their bodies do not measure up to whatever standard they set for themselves but it sounds like your concerns go a bit deeper. You could try kee ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 10:36 pm • 19 Replies • 4319 Views

Teeth during Blow Jobs

It is a type of sensation play that can be fun but needs to be done very very carefully.

I like doing it to nipples and clits......very very carefully.

If your partner jumps to the ceiling scr ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 9:53 pm • 49 Replies • 14832 Views

How to take orders

Hello,

Like most things in BDSM it starts with communication. Start with discussing what orders the Dom/Domme wants to give, ensure it is within your limits, start small and build up - so you have ...

Wed Mar 17, 2021 8:23 pm • 5 Replies • 2651 Views

Labels in relationships.

Hello,

I am confused by your post. Is the person you “like” poly? Are you?

If you are dating and want to be transparent....I agree with Zedland.....something like “exploring possibilities” w ...

Mon Mar 08, 2021 12:45 am • 19 Replies • 5161 Views

Questions. Out of curiosity

Hello,

I’m with Sir Dom. If you are in a dynamic then to flirt with someone else is not on....for both parties mind you.

A guide I always thought worked well is would you do that in front of ...

Sun Mar 07, 2021 11:59 pm • 15 Replies • 4350 Views