Jealousy in a Mono-Poly dynamic

Much like BDSM, polyamory has different kinds/flavors. Let's start off by saying that polyamory isn't straight forward or simple. Often two people struggle with their emotions, to say nothing of what ...

Tue Dec 26, 2023 1:43 am • 6 Replies • 1452 Views

Humor and Reality

C) don't know a paddle from a puddle from a piddle
I did chuckle at this and thought to myself "If one piddles when paddled, a puddle will be created."

Do I pass?

The lack of reality and gen ...

Sat Dec 23, 2023 4:58 pm • 20 Replies • 3329 Views

Indicators that Someone is Likely a Dom

I'd like to take a moment and point out something which I've noticed over the years. BDSM lifestyle, whether it be scenes on the weekend to 24/7 TPE, tends to attract neurodivergent people. I'm not st ...

Tue Dec 12, 2023 4:28 pm • 18 Replies • 2592 Views

Being told no thanks

Ms MaryJane,

Not to just pile on or highjack your point, but the behavior your pointing out, produces other issues. For those of us who take the time to read the bio, compose a reasonably well thou ...

Sun Dec 10, 2023 5:28 am • 20 Replies • 4532 Views

Should I stop and leave the community?

SilentNotes,

The question you pose is a difficult one, and in the end, only you can answer. This lifestyle is challenging, when things are going well. When emotions run high, or out of control, it ...

Sat Dec 09, 2023 2:15 am • 12 Replies • 2236 Views