Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

The younger you go the more pressure they probably feel to show they've definitely got the "not gays." I don't know how it is these days, but I know when I was in high school gay was like the worst t ...

Fri Mar 29, 2019 7:22 pm • 76 Replies • 35714 Views

Brand new, I have questions

I don't think there's a particular way one can figure out what they are. Learning about BDSM and self-reflecting on your life/inner-self and where you'd best fit is what I would think is best. You c ...

Tue Mar 26, 2019 12:44 am • 15 Replies • 5372 Views

Brand new, I have questions

If you're a little more specific on what questions you have, people could help you a lot more.

Something to keep in mind is there is no universal lexicon as to what everything is to everyone so it' ...

Mon Mar 25, 2019 11:15 pm • 15 Replies • 5372 Views

What does high protocol mean to you?

When I think high protocol, I think having most interactions being very regimented. There's a defined place and way for one to stand, how exactly one interacts in conversations, when and how one is a ...

Mon Mar 25, 2019 12:22 am • 13 Replies • 13379 Views

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

I generally use my real name for in real life lifestyle stuff, and I got that from an old relationship. I changed my legal name long after that ended, but I really gelled with the name and stuck with ...

Sun Mar 24, 2019 11:54 pm • 267 Replies • 105764 Views

Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

The nature of an online and easy medium means there's always going to be a lot of crap. There's little tricks you can do (like someone mentioned having a short passphrase required somewhere in the mi ...

Sun Mar 24, 2019 9:05 pm • 50 Replies • 30297 Views

The BDSM Test: Is it Useful To You?

I don't think it's particularly useful and felt a bit silly about it when I included results from one in my profile at times. There's very little one can really get from it; how you answer the questi ...

Sun Mar 24, 2019 8:38 pm • 36 Replies • 16169 Views