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New domme

This is super cool! Thanks for sharing so openly.

It sounds like you are both open-minded, respectful toward each other and effective communicators. These are strong foundations that will allow yo ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 1:43 pm • 6 Replies • 4260 Views

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A Cloud

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Femdom

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New domme

172

Exploring BDSM solo

This doesn't exactly answer your question, and I apologise if it's not accurate or relevant, but.... It may be a problem of insecurity for your husband. He feels confronted by this whole unknown world ...

Tue Oct 12, 2021 12:24 pm • 8 Replies • 4310 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Exploring BDSM solo

173

Sex and Playing

I love sex, but it is nothing without titillation, desire and connection. Sometimes I purposely play without penetration, intently exploring body and mind. I find there is acute focus on detail and se ...

Mon Oct 11, 2021 7:53 am • 12 Replies • 8474 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Sex and Playing

174

Power

I am with Defender and Cressida.

My mind is my greatest allie, particularly when people underestimate my intellectual ability, innovation and persistence (it seems to happen a lot!). Silence, obser ...

Mon Oct 04, 2021 5:48 am • 9 Replies • 3623 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Power

175

Any words gross you out?

Hmmm, it is interesting to see the emotional weight we place on words based on lived experience.

I, like others who have mentioned it, have overcome some negative associations placed on words, suc ...

Mon Oct 04, 2021 5:22 am • 46 Replies • 17269 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Any words gross you out?

176

Any words gross you out?

I agree Morgein. I do note that you were speaking from a subjective point of view about your personal response to the word, and I take no issue with your post. However, stereotyped, negative and uninf ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 2:53 pm • 46 Replies • 17269 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Any words gross you out?

177

Any words gross you out?

Steellover
You stated in your original post that, "Someone looking for a Daddy is none of those things," (in reference to being independent, intelligent and confident). Clearly, you are saying, or ra ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 10:05 am • 46 Replies • 17269 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Any words gross you out?

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Any words gross you out?

Lol. I am particular about vocab but most of the ones mentioned are my favourites, particularly 'cunt'. I actually prefer it to pussy. Cannot do words like dick, boobs, bum - they seem too adolescent. ...

Tue Sep 28, 2021 11:43 am • 46 Replies • 17269 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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Any words gross you out?

179

I want to talk about Ghosting

Some great discussion here. There has been mention of self-awareness and acknowledging feelings of hurt and anger. I would agree that here lies the key.

For me, D/s is about feeling deeply, feelin ...

Sun Sep 26, 2021 4:07 am • 35 Replies • 13938 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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I want to talk about Ghosting

180

Questioned role

[quote="SubtleHush"]
- 'I have a magic 3 rule. If 3 or more unrelated people or sources give feedback or mention something, I take a closer look at it. Doesn't mean I will do what they think I should ...

Sun Sep 12, 2021 3:42 am • 13 Replies • 7799 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Questioned role