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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Thanks for the responses. I will come back to this because I still have thoughts, questions and descriptions to pose.
I would love to hear from females as I wonder about the differing orgasm sensatio ...

Wed Jan 07, 2026 4:14 am • 9 Replies • 1718 Views

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A Cloud

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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Please help me out. I would like to hear some explanations about what edging is, what a ruined orgasm is, and the differences between them.

Asking from the perspective of female submissive, but al ...

Tue Jan 06, 2026 6:38 am • 9 Replies • 1718 Views

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A Cloud

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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Natrual

Personally, I think you both need to explore the mental aspects of your connection and sexuality. That’s everything before any sex or play happens. Communication, trust, openness, and self-awareness a ...

Wed Dec 31, 2025 4:47 am • 8 Replies • 1637 Views

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Natrual

Which BDSM book hooked your female imagination the hardest?

My response is quite off topic from the original question but I thoroughly enjoyed contemplating my notions of submission, where they come from and what texts deepen my understanding.

My associatio ...

Wed Dec 31, 2025 4:18 am • 22 Replies • 5775 Views

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A Cloud

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Which BDSM book hooked your female imagination the hardest?

Owned vs submissive to

Speaking from my personal journey and identification with the term ‘owned’, as someone who is generally naive to old world understandings of BDSM and ‘the lifestyle’ and someone who has limited capaci ...

Tue Dec 23, 2025 4:51 am • 23 Replies • 4536 Views

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Owned vs submissive to

Forum Fightclub

It's like a family gathering at my parent's house.

I sit in the corner with a whiskey and a smoke and let it run.
My cousin has recently taken to joining me. His smokes are more interesting than ...

Tue Sep 27, 2022 2:22 am • 173 Replies • 53532 Views

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A Cloud

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Forum Fightclub

Do You Feel Pressured To Show More Of Your Body Online?

I am drawn to the notion of less is more. Yet, admittedly, can get caught up in wanting, seeing and knowing more. It's a complex chemistry.

I show my body in different ways and for different reason ...

Sun Sep 25, 2022 8:57 am • 40 Replies • 12064 Views

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Do You Feel Pressured To Show More Of Your Body Online?

being rude

If they cannot tell you what they find rude, it just means they're personal insecurities and demons have been triggered.
Being assertive and having clear boundaries is not rude but does disrupt othe ...

Sat Jul 23, 2022 12:49 am • 35 Replies • 14717 Views

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A Cloud

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Absolute Beginners

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being rude

Switching - where does it begin?

I am interested in hearing people's experiences with switching from bottom to top.

How did you start to explore this new role?
What attracted you to switch?
How did you develop a more dominant r ...

Fri Jul 08, 2022 2:35 am • 2 Replies • 1343 Views

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A Cloud

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Switching - where does it begin?

Narcissistic Dominants

From my experience I have learnt those 'dark triad' labels (Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath) can be dangerous in themselves. Using that language put me in more of a victim mentality. Once I saw othe ...

Wed May 04, 2022 2:30 am • 8 Replies • 3195 Views

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A Cloud

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Narcissistic Dominants