d/s deffinitions

It is hard, and at least, takes practice, to be a good sub. Practice, trust, and courage- and finding that person to trust so you can put yourself in both a physically and emotionally compromising po ...

Mon Mar 31, 2025 6:25 am • 5 Replies • 217 Views

Being Naked

What Blondie said about being in your dominants control, about baring your body and soul- total surrender and trust, well, that is what I have been chasing all my life- that kind of connection.

Sun Mar 30, 2025 3:18 am • 20 Replies • 2054 Views

What's worst?

Well, you do at least give a warning, and for that reason I respect, and agree with, everything you are saying. You let them know, and if they don't get it then, it's on them.

And yes, as mentio ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 6:39 am • 17 Replies • 707 Views

Can we normalize not using suicide/self harm as a threat?

It is manipulation, and is called being a drama queen. I have no patience for that kind of thing. If someone was really serious about taking such a drastic step, then often, they won't actually say ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 2:49 am • 6 Replies • 248 Views

What's worst?

If you are talking about specifically on this site; I think being blocked without discernible reason bothers me more. Because then, I always wonder what I did, or what I said, that upset them to the ...

Thu Mar 27, 2025 2:33 am • 17 Replies • 707 Views

Lesson of the day

I agree with that sentiment. I would argue that my submissiveness is also a personality trait....however, when people talk about "Skills" or "Experience" they may mean a couple things. One of them i ...

Tue Mar 25, 2025 2:55 am • 3 Replies • 307 Views

How did you get started.

I suppose, then, on that note I was always submissive, but there were certainly a few experiences along the way that shaped me to be this way.

I was always raised to be attentive to other people' ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:06 am • 17 Replies • 1456 Views

A vetting guide/questionnaire

These are ALL very valid questions for people to narrow down what they are seeking, and to avoid wasting time when you get into it and realize that you are both seeking very different things from the ...

Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:43 am • 2 Replies • 337 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

It is certainly a learning curve. A lot of people jump into it with tons of intense feelings- Sub frenzy you call it, but little knowledge or experience or even really knowing what they are seeking. ...

Thu Mar 06, 2025 3:48 am • 14 Replies • 1116 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

Everyone has limits. Problem is, some of them they just don't know it. With inexperienced people new to the lifestyle, they might not yet realize what those limits are. And it's up to them to disco ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:44 am • 14 Replies • 1116 Views