It sounds like you are striving for self-improvement and are looking for a domme as a sort of "life coach." While there are those who would take that role on, a lot of that you can do yourself. Be yo ...

I would say: While I don't see why a sub cannot lead, or be a chairperson of a communal space, the odds of it happening are less than a dom/me in that role, for the simple reason that subs, by nature ...

I am not a "Pain slut" as I don't have the tolerance for pain that I wish I did, however I view impact play as a sub in a specific way. I see it as a tool of punishment and discipline; a tool to "Whi ...

I actually like this; as a young and new sub, I obviously had a lot of misconceptions about things and a lot to learn.

My fear is that a lot of the new dominants, specifically the female ones, are ...

There currently is no local BDSM club in my city. Probably a true situation for a lot of people.

Ha ha, maybe they tied up their little brother when they were babysitting, or something.

There are also, unfortunately, a lot of bots; the kinds that message you with terse one-liners like "Hello, How Are You Today?" then, often by the time you reply (if you even bother) it's "Profile Do ...