First Snowfall

I get a lot of stuff done during the winter that I don't in the summer- lots more reading, art work, and indoor creative stuff. Because winter evenings, that's just what you do. In the summer during ...

Wed Jan 03, 2024 3:57 am • 24 Replies • 1514 Views

Blackmailed when compromised...

I haven't posted in a couple weeks; I've been on vacation and taking a break from just about everything, except family issues, and have thought a little about it.

I'm done pretending as well. At ...

Tue Jan 02, 2024 9:00 am • 14 Replies • 3513 Views

Favorite Board Games

I was a huge Dungeons and Dragons guy years ago, but I haven't played in a long while and there've been a couple massive revamps and revisions of the rules since then. I think the last time I played ...

Fri Dec 15, 2023 4:52 am • 14 Replies • 780 Views

Blackmailed when compromised...

So, I'm writing this basically to elaborate on a recent blog post, but most of all to explain things rationally as a cautionary tale, "For the good of the order."

This is more in the spirit of "Be ...

Thu Dec 14, 2023 4:52 am • 14 Replies • 3513 Views

Being told no thanks

I can certainly understand the frustration of a lot of guys- though of course I'm not in any way condoning the type of behavior described above. I can relate to a guy who read someone's profile, and r ...

Sun Dec 10, 2023 11:42 pm • 20 Replies • 3432 Views

First Date Horror Stories

Speed is an absolute, non-negotiable, hard, hard limit for me. Both for myself, and for anyone I associate with (let alone date.)

Don't want it, don't wanna be around it, don't wanna be around oth ...

Sat Dec 09, 2023 4:32 am • 50 Replies • 6209 Views

Kinky Play Playlist

My suggestion: Otep Shamaya, "Seduce and Destroy." Moody, atmospheric, and lyrically it fits....And it's a great song.

Thu Dec 07, 2023 7:47 am • 13 Replies • 1001 Views

First Date Horror Stories

That almost sounds like someone deliberatly TRYING to scare you off. Either way...no thanks. Five kids by four different men? All four of which are in prison? Yikes; I know some women like "Bad Bo ...

Thu Dec 07, 2023 3:49 am • 50 Replies • 6209 Views

Dollar Store Domming.

I posted in a blog once a year or so back, that pet supply stores have an assortment of leashes, that can just as easily be adaptable to humans as to animals. (I was in one with a sexy friend once, a ...

Thu Dec 07, 2023 3:43 am • 5 Replies • 1192 Views

Coming across as a Domme

Here's my advice on how to handle such would-be submissives (whose submission you have absolutely no use for):

Tell them this: "Okay then slave, as your new Mistress your job is to obey my every c ...

Tue Nov 28, 2023 3:47 am • 7 Replies • 1175 Views