Vanilla dating

Well, I've been pretty much resigned to the vanilla dating pool. Mostly because, over the years since I realized I was a kinky, submissive male, I have found that the options for any kind of mutually ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 2:41 am • 26 Replies • 5583 Views

What do you like most about premium?

I am not a "Premium" member but the one bonus is the ability to spruce up your blog entries with pictures. I've been wanting to do so for a while. You can't post pics as a standard member.
(quick e ...

Thu Apr 18, 2024 3:43 am • 12 Replies • 6485 Views

Celebrity kink crush

Wonder Woman. She can lasso me any time of day.

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:31 am • 23 Replies • 3865 Views

Form post not published?

I've seen them remove threads without explanation, and I've often wondered how they ran afoul of the forum guidelines.

Typically, if someone posts a personal ad (e.g. "I'm seeking a female dominant ...

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:30 am • 2 Replies • 3131 Views

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

Yes, I would say (as a sub male) that my being attracted to my domme is a prerequisite for this kind of play.

So in the context of this topic, that being "forced bisexuality" play, I'm curious how ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 2:40 am • 14 Replies • 3078 Views

Multiple bad experiences

So, what I would advise, going forward is simply: Never send money to someone UNTIL you have met them face to face.

Now, to expand on that, it is not uncommon for professional dominants to want t ...

Tue Apr 09, 2024 2:47 am • 15 Replies • 5372 Views

Multiple bad experiences

As I'm sure you have already suspected, you have fallen for an online scammer. Notice a pattern: All "her" requests for money were simply followed up by: More requests for money!

I am guessing y ...

Mon Apr 08, 2024 9:15 pm • 15 Replies • 5372 Views

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

Yes, I would say (as a sub male) that my being attracted to my domme is a prerequisite for this kind of play.

Mon Apr 08, 2024 6:12 am • 14 Replies • 3078 Views

The Cage Appreciation Thread

As I said in the "Personals" post, I love it. I come here mainly for blogs and forum posts; not really for personals or hook-up potential. I love hearing about other people's lifestyles and dynamics. ...

Sat Apr 06, 2024 9:31 pm • 11 Replies • 2482 Views

Personals

Agree, and I was once on Alt as well as a now-defunct site called Collarspace (previously Collarme.) The former was, well, it wasn't worth the paid subscription rate, lets just say. Not when it was li ...

Sat Apr 06, 2024 9:28 pm • 27 Replies • 6323 Views