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What Do People Think About Fetishes?

I personally think fetishes are... not at all uncommon nor unhealthy, and are unique and personal to each individual,. But they are complicated from a relationship standpoint. My own experience with ...

Sun Jan 04, 2026 9:31 am • 14 Replies • 2097 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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What Do People Think About Fetishes?

Low, middle, or high

I couldn't do high protocol in a 24-7 situation; too much other stuff going on (Job, hobbies, social life, etc.) but for those times I'm with Her- just the two of us (or those who are into what we are ...

Tue Dec 09, 2025 9:22 am • 18 Replies • 3632 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Low, middle, or high

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

Some people desire a traditional, 50's household, June Cleaver, submissive wife. That's cool. Something to be said for that.

Others desire a strong, independent, intelligent, assertive, and pow ...

Tue Dec 02, 2025 3:52 am • 24 Replies • 4661 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

Can't seem to meet a dominant women

It is, sadly, not uncommon among submissive males to have trouble finding a partner. I can certainly relate. It is tough on many levels, especially when it comes to simple numbers. If you've been o ...

Thu Nov 20, 2025 4:33 am • 37 Replies • 6587 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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Can't seem to meet a dominant women

Humiliation kink

Good post, I agree that it is all of these things.

Sat Nov 08, 2025 3:37 am • 18 Replies • 4785 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Humiliation kink

Inflation

Since there was no reply, honestly I don't know much about that so I'm afraid I can't be much help either. It does sound kind of dangerous though.

Sun Nov 02, 2025 11:02 pm • 13 Replies • 2577 Views

Author

Steellover

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Fetish

Topic

Inflation

Chem Play

I guess I need a more clear definition of what chem play is.

Is it the use of intoxicants/drugs in some kind of scene play? I would prefer safe and sober in that context.

Is it the use of skin ...

Thu Oct 30, 2025 7:20 am • 7 Replies • 1679 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Chem Play

Humiliation kink

I dunno. It's the power exchange aspect of it, I guess. Somehow making my partner seem more desireable or powerful. I get off on the small-penis humiliation fetish, and some of the verbal degredati ...

Sun Oct 12, 2025 3:35 am • 18 Replies • 4785 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Humiliation kink

What’s the makeup here?

Outwardly, a vanilla adult male, creeping up on middle age, with a successful career in a white collar job, into the arts, the outdoors, sports and outdoor recreation.

Inwardly, a closeted kinkster ...

Sat Oct 11, 2025 3:05 am • 17 Replies • 9528 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What’s the makeup here?

Is it a gift?

In a healthy relationship, it is mutual gift to each other. Ideally, my domme's control over me is her gift to me, fulfilling a deep-seated need in me. And I would hope that my choosing to submit to ...

Thu Sep 11, 2025 5:59 am • 8 Replies • 5641 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Is it a gift?