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HOW do you see the lifestyle. ..?

Cross-dressing isn't really my kink, but I could see being "Forced" to do so purely as a humiliation scene to please my superior...

Sun Aug 31, 2025 10:33 pm • 4 Replies • 3621 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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HOW do you see the lifestyle. ..?

Wondering if I’m the only one whose into raceplay…

There are aspects of it that bother me, but maybe I just don't understand it, and I do not want to be judgemental here, so I'll just say that it isn't my thing- and won't get too into it.

Sun Aug 24, 2025 10:04 pm • 18 Replies • 8285 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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Wondering if I’m the only one whose into raceplay…

Fetish vs Kink

Some examples: I have a fetish for miniskirts and boots. Basically, certain styles of dress. Other people have a fetish for leather. Basically, it's a desire for a THING.

A KINK is a desire for ...

Sun Aug 17, 2025 8:41 am • 6 Replies • 3213 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

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Fetish vs Kink

Piss play

I can think of four good reasons why:

1) It's deliciously degrading and humiliating in an erotic way.
2) It's a symbolic way for a dominant to mark their territory.
3) It is a form of objectific ...

Fri Aug 01, 2025 2:34 am • 19 Replies • 7985 Views

Author

Steellover

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Fetish

Topic

Piss play

chemical play

My persinal (sic) advice is, I wouldn't recommend it, as it could cause permanent or lasting harm. I would stick to the tried and true methods of corporal punishment, i.e. paddles, floggers, spanking ...

Fri Jun 27, 2025 3:23 am • 9 Replies • 3806 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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chemical play

Earliest Memory Challenge

There were a group of us toddlers who were all around the same age, when we were really little, and the parents would get together and chat while us kids, mostly 3,4 years old, would just wrassle aro ...

Tue Jun 17, 2025 2:53 am • 12 Replies • 6170 Views

Author

Steellover

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Just for Fun

Topic

Earliest Memory Challenge

Dominant women on the rise?

^That sucks. If someone isn't your type then I would hope people would have the maturity to just move on, or at least, write them off as "Good person but not my type." I love and respect submissive ...

Wed Jun 11, 2025 3:00 am • 17 Replies • 4432 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Dominant women on the rise?

Blocking

If someone blocks me, I would at least like to know the reason, assuming that it truely is because I have offended them unknowingly and not simply because they block ALL sub males (in my case) or dom ...

Sat May 31, 2025 3:02 am • 24 Replies • 3912 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Blocking

Romantic feelings in dynamics

When I submit to someone, I am opening up a deep part of myself that I keep hidden, and allowing that person to awaken certain feelings, certain needs in me, that are intimate and powerful. You are o ...

Sat May 31, 2025 2:55 am • 11 Replies • 2326 Views

Author

Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Romantic feelings in dynamics

At this point, I am looking for a romantic partner as well as a dominant (or to put it more clearly, a romantic partner who is also a dominant.) I enjoy the intensity of submission and kink, but I nee ...

Fri May 30, 2025 3:04 am • 11 Replies • 2326 Views

Author

Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Romantic feelings in dynamics