genderfication

There are certain topics that are going to be divisive. There is a recent thread where a person is seeking not only a specific gender, but a specific ethnicity along with that gender. I am neither o ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 5:16 am • 70 Replies • 4399 Views

Re: genderfication

Do you see genderfication here? Are you concerned about it? What do you think should be done?

Honestly, I have not noticed it. Maybe I just haven't been sensitive or aware enough to notice it ...

Tue Aug 20, 2024 2:44 am • 70 Replies • 4399 Views

Your Turn Ladies

I don’t answer questions that perpetuate gentrification. It’s disrespectful to the philosophies that BDSM were built on. Old guard came from the leather community to combat these types of bigotry.
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Sun Aug 18, 2024 8:55 pm • 33 Replies • 2514 Views

meaningless tasks

If a dominant assigns a sub task like, say, "alphabetize the guitar strings," or "Sort the potato chips according to size" then it's either a way of saying "You're bothering me; go find something mea ...

Wed Jul 31, 2024 2:30 am • 38 Replies • 2364 Views

Perversion Discussion

Short answer is no.
More detailed answer: Perversion is when your sexual desires get so out of your control that they impact other people around them.

Or, any activities that, as explained, invol ...

Thu Jul 25, 2024 2:59 am • 4 Replies • 466 Views

Changing Kink Desires

Like Mera x2 said, I can understand the "Binging and Purging" aspect of being submissive and kinky, and I've talked about this before- "Binging and Purging" meaning, being periodically overcome with g ...

Tue Jul 23, 2024 2:48 am • 8 Replies • 634 Views

Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

okay, so I guess that makes sense. It's like, we do try to "do the right thing," but yet, I see your point that if you are actually having to TELL people, "Hey I'm a nice guy," then the obvious react ...

Sat Jul 20, 2024 7:13 am • 40 Replies • 4521 Views

Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

This thread is the classic examples of the "Mixed Messages" a lot of guys get.

On one hand, we are told we are supposed to be gentlemen, be a nice guy and treat a woman gallantly and with kindnes ...

Sat Jul 20, 2024 3:06 am • 40 Replies • 4521 Views

Age Is Just A Number

In some jurisdictions, if one party is SLIGHTLY over the age of consent (say, 18-20) and the other is slightly under (we're talking 16 or 17), judges have an option to be lenient and charge both parti ...

Sat Jul 20, 2024 3:03 am • 41 Replies • 3682 Views

Age Is Just A Number

Anything below 18 is a felony, from 18 to ♾️ is just a number.


And if you haven't lost your lunch yet, back in 1871, the democrats in Delaware lowered the age of consent from 12 to 7. That law st ...

Fri Jul 19, 2024 5:39 am • 41 Replies • 3682 Views