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What about forced bi ?

There has to be informed consent and plenty of dialogue with the one being "Forced" prior to engaging in the scene, for sure.

Thu Jan 29, 2026 3:59 am • 21 Replies • 4065 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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What about forced bi ?

I've been interested in that dynamic for the longest time, but for specific reasons, and in the right context with the right person(s).

Mainly from my perspective as a submissive in a cuck relati ...

Wed Jan 28, 2026 4:08 am • 21 Replies • 4065 Views

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Steellover

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Fetish

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What about forced bi ?

What is our Priorities?

I agree with everything you say here; some people may be looking for short-term "play partners" and that may be fine for the short term, but a lot of people have moved past that. Many people, includi ...

Sun Jan 25, 2026 10:55 pm • 4 Replies • 1189 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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What is our Priorities?

Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

A hot alternative to a "Ruined" orgasm, would be jerk-off instructions to the sub, but under humiliating circumstances, and with conditions: For example, (common suggestions) jerking off into the to ...

Wed Jan 07, 2026 3:56 am • 9 Replies • 1667 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Edging= no orgasm at all. It's tease and denial, up to the edge of cumming- but you don't get to cum.

Ruined orgasm- you do have an orgasm, but in a non- enjoyable way, and usually not without som ...

Tue Jan 06, 2026 7:47 am • 9 Replies • 1667 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Edging vs Ruined Orgasm

Introduction. Long time in the lifestyle.

welcome to the forums!

Sun Jan 04, 2026 9:34 am • 2 Replies • 565 Views

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Steellover

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Introductions

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Introduction. Long time in the lifestyle.

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

I personally think fetishes are... not at all uncommon nor unhealthy, and are unique and personal to each individual,. But they are complicated from a relationship standpoint. My own experience with ...

Sun Jan 04, 2026 9:31 am • 14 Replies • 2599 Views

Author

Steellover

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Fetish

Topic

What Do People Think About Fetishes?

Low, middle, or high

I couldn't do high protocol in a 24-7 situation; too much other stuff going on (Job, hobbies, social life, etc.) but for those times I'm with Her- just the two of us (or those who are into what we are ...

Tue Dec 09, 2025 9:22 am • 18 Replies • 4491 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Low, middle, or high

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

Some people desire a traditional, 50's household, June Cleaver, submissive wife. That's cool. Something to be said for that.

Others desire a strong, independent, intelligent, assertive, and pow ...

Tue Dec 02, 2025 3:52 am • 24 Replies • 5929 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

Can't seem to meet a dominant women

It is, sadly, not uncommon among submissive males to have trouble finding a partner. I can certainly relate. It is tough on many levels, especially when it comes to simple numbers. If you've been o ...

Thu Nov 20, 2025 4:33 am • 37 Replies • 8292 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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Can't seem to meet a dominant women