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Permanent scarring

Miki's story of the "high school sweetheart tattoo" is one reason why I consider any kind of permanant branding/modification/tattooing as a hard limit of mine. There are, of course, plenty of other ...

Wed Sep 21, 2022 6:13 am • 7 Replies • 3183 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Permanent scarring

352

Online Mistress"s

One good rule of thumb, never pay money to anyone you have not met face to face.

If they are true professional dommes, seeking mere clients rather than a committed relationship, then first of all, ...

Tue Sep 13, 2022 3:18 am • 7 Replies • 4913 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Online Mistress"s

353

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I do think this thread will lead to a lot of self-examining, which I can't help think might be helpful for people even if they never actually do discover the "Why" behind their kinks.

It is also so ...

Thu Sep 08, 2022 6:51 am • 37 Replies • 10633 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

354

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

I have at least analyzed why I have submissive tendencies, but it's a complicated answer. Partly it stems from both a desire to please and a fear of failure, and partly from an admiration of strength ...

Sat Sep 03, 2022 2:42 am • 37 Replies • 10633 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Does everyone know the why behind their kinks?

355

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

While I don't disagree with Lord Zephyr's points, he did come across as a bit condescending there, I'm afraid.

I think every BDSM relationship is different as far as the amount of commitment, contr ...

Wed Aug 31, 2022 7:57 am • 13 Replies • 5450 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Differences Between Vanilla And Kink Relationships

356

What makes you ignore messages on here?

Really...just a two word intro and then a one sentence come-on?

That is either a spammer, a bot, or a kid...or a newbie who is so utterly clueless and/or rude (or likely both) that they need to s ...

Tue Aug 23, 2022 3:30 am • 119 Replies • 47407 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What makes you ignore messages on here?

357

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

I'm not into race play either, but the only way I will judge/kink shame it is, along the same lines that I judge/kink shame people who are into snuff, dangerous or permanantly disfiguring play, or act ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 4:05 am • 34 Replies • 19101 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Violent and taboo fantasies causing guilt trips + is it totally legal to fantasize?

358

Panties

This is kinda, well I don't know how I feel about it. Thing is, I never wanted to be one of those stereotypical "Creepy panty sniffer" types, but I gotta admit, in private it IS kind of arousing. I ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 3:54 am • 6 Replies • 2928 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Panties

359

Participating in website features out of loneliness/bordom

Location and reduced number of compatible people may play a part for some.
This is part of it for me. I don't know a lot of kink-minded people in real life. In fact, I know very, very few.
I gener ...

Fri Aug 19, 2022 3:49 am • 15 Replies • 7640 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Participating in website features out of loneliness/bordom

360

Do other subs feel a pull towards doms in the workplace?

As a submissive, to some extent yes, but to some extent; it is a different dynamic in the work place where your income and livelihood depend on having a solid working relationship with your boss. If ...

Fri Jul 22, 2022 4:46 am • 7 Replies • 2648 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Do other subs feel a pull towards doms in the workplace?