Red flags? Green flags?

Red flags for me are any mention of money or financial domination.

The bad grammar thing is a red flag for me as well and here is why: Many scammers operate overseas and English is not their fir ...

Thu Oct 21, 2021 3:19 am • 48 Replies • 13311 Views

Where is good erotica?

Literotica is the biggest and probably the best, but it should be pointed out that it is not as "Kink Friendly" as some of the other sites, as far as the general readership. If there was an erotic st ...

Wed Oct 20, 2021 2:39 am • 22 Replies • 10665 Views

Dark Fantasies...

As a male and a submissive though, I feel less comfortable talking about it, as the male sub/female domme dynamic seems to be far less common and far less accepted, even in the kink community.

So ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 3:01 am • 27 Replies • 13344 Views

Vanilla to Kinky

I guess I knew I was always submissive, it was how I was raised- better to give than receive, be attentive to the needs of others, etc. And there were various things that happened in my life, things ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 2:52 am • 10 Replies • 4421 Views

Dark Fantasies...

Basically, yes... I do. I've hinted at some of them in other posts. They all involve kink, submission, and female domination, and some of them are the kind of thing that many would find, well, uncom ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 7:40 am • 27 Replies • 13344 Views

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

My only avenue in actually fulfilling my femdomme fantasies was in seeing a paid professional domme that was local to me. The differences were, I knew she was obviously in it for the money from the g ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:40 am • 23 Replies • 11543 Views

Are people afraid of coming out of closet about their BDSM fantasies and why ?

A LOT of good responses so far. I appreciate DollMaker's point that sexual repression is a very real thing in many parts of the world, and even here in the US, sexual freedoms are constantly under th ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:07 am • 12 Replies • 5156 Views

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

Some of these femdom dating scammers, you can almost tell it's not legit just by the way they write. I corresponded with someone for a while, not through this site but through a defunct one, and "Her ...

Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:32 am • 23 Replies • 11543 Views

Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

If this is not okay to ask, forgive me but, do women- specifically dominant women, enjoy GIVING anal play to straight men? Do they derive true enjoyment of penetrating their male subs with a strap on ...

Sat Oct 09, 2021 4:47 am • 76 Replies • 44090 Views

Why do people hide their limits?

Many people, newbies to BDSM, honestly probably don't know what their limits are.

They get excited about the idea of submitting, and are turned on by the idea of certain fetishes, or certain BDSM a ...

Tue Oct 05, 2021 3:13 am • 7 Replies • 3149 Views