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Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

Moevot- Ézléýfbdréhtr Vépréùb Zùérfl Màzàgvàtre Érbbédréa

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JzYD_Pc28V8

French dungeon-synth. Because it's probably the weirdest and creepiest music I could think ...

Mon Oct 25, 2021 7:43 am • 261 Replies • 67507 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Just 4 fun: Music. What are you listening to right now?

402

Would you give this all up?

I really like Gomezadams' answer above. This sums up how I feel. There is no real kink community to speak of where I live. I can repress these feelings of submission, cage them, lock them away, but n ...

Fri Oct 22, 2021 9:19 pm • 34 Replies • 12734 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Would you give this all up?

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Would you give this all up?

Good question. The short answer for me is... I would give up the lifestyle to be with them.

I've mentioned this before in other posts, but the gist of it is, it is much harder for me, as a male ...

Fri Oct 22, 2021 6:29 am • 34 Replies • 12734 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Would you give this all up?

404

Red flags? Green flags?

Red flags for me are any mention of money or financial domination.

The bad grammar thing is a red flag for me as well and here is why: Many scammers operate overseas and English is not their fir ...

Thu Oct 21, 2021 3:19 am • 48 Replies • 13927 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Red flags? Green flags?

405

Where is good erotica?

Literotica is the biggest and probably the best, but it should be pointed out that it is not as "Kink Friendly" as some of the other sites, as far as the general readership. If there was an erotic st ...

Wed Oct 20, 2021 2:39 am • 22 Replies • 11011 Views

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Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Where is good erotica?

406

Dark Fantasies...

As a male and a submissive though, I feel less comfortable talking about it, as the male sub/female domme dynamic seems to be far less common and far less accepted, even in the kink community.

So ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 3:01 am • 27 Replies • 13774 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Dark Fantasies...

407

Vanilla to Kinky

I guess I knew I was always submissive, it was how I was raised- better to give than receive, be attentive to the needs of others, etc. And there were various things that happened in my life, things ...

Sat Oct 16, 2021 2:52 am • 10 Replies • 4615 Views

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Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

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Vanilla to Kinky

408

Dark Fantasies...

Basically, yes... I do. I've hinted at some of them in other posts. They all involve kink, submission, and female domination, and some of them are the kind of thing that many would find, well, uncom ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 7:40 am • 27 Replies • 13774 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Dark Fantasies...

409

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

My only avenue in actually fulfilling my femdomme fantasies was in seeing a paid professional domme that was local to me. The differences were, I knew she was obviously in it for the money from the g ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:40 am • 23 Replies • 11931 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

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Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

410

Are people afraid of coming out of closet about their BDSM fantasies and why ?

A LOT of good responses so far. I appreciate DollMaker's point that sexual repression is a very real thing in many parts of the world, and even here in the US, sexual freedoms are constantly under th ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:07 am • 12 Replies • 5375 Views

Author

Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are people afraid of coming out of closet about their BDSM fantasies and why ?