Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

My first relationship with a domme ended because she wanted it to evolve into a 24/7 type total power exchange right away, and I wasn't ready for that. She scared me off, in other words.

A potenti ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 6:39 am • 18 Replies • 6864 Views

Help

What was it that attracted you to her originally? You obviously love her and are obviously physically attracted to her. But sometimes accepting people for who they are, also means accepting them for ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 2:51 am • 5 Replies • 3281 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I'd like to make a comment on the point that "Closeted Freak" made above, that the quickest way to scare off a woman was to appear too submissive.

While, to an extent people are hard wired, it is a ...

Wed Sep 08, 2021 5:20 am • 47 Replies • 22737 Views

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

Most of the time, I have found that trying to pursue someone who is not interested (and explicitly tells you so) is a waste of time. Both your time and theirs. I just move on to the next person. An ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:47 am • 25 Replies • 8339 Views

Whats your favourite toy?

A cock leash (with my dream goddess holding the other end of course) and a cat o'nine tails for Her use, for those times when I'm a bit too out of line.

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:42 am • 33 Replies • 16500 Views

When is it topping from the bottom?

^aching cavern without lucidity...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 3451 Views

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

It is interesting to read that while the numbers are certainly skewed towards submissive men vs domme females, the numbers may not be as skewed as the dating sites indicate- for reasons that the domme ...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 2:54 am • 47 Replies • 22737 Views

What's your addiction?

Peas.... covered with WASABI !!!

Sat Aug 28, 2021 9:10 am • 228 Replies • 54843 Views

Verbal Humiliation

In an intimate setting, yes!
In a public setting, in front of other people, then no.
Small penis humilation, verbal degredation, in an intimate setting (either just me with Her, or with HEr and He ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 3:01 am • 31 Replies • 16335 Views

Name 3 of your favorite fetishes and 3 that you would like to try

My three favorite (That I've experienced)
Pegging,
Strap-on worship,
and Watersports
(it was hard to choose just three though...cock size humiliation, verbal humiliation, and spanking are up ther ...

Sat Aug 28, 2021 2:58 am • 35 Replies • 13523 Views