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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

Mint chocolate chip is my biggest weakness.
That and pisachio almond

Sat Sep 25, 2021 9:14 am • 143 Replies • 45880 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Favorite Ice Cream Flavor and please don't say vanilla ;)

432

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

Steel implies strength but at the same time can also imply submission and bondage; put a steel collar on me, restrain me with steel shackles, lock a steel cock cage on me, and for the right woman, I'd ...

Thu Sep 23, 2021 2:37 am • 267 Replies • 144458 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How did you get or pick your screen(or lifestyle) name?

433

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

There are different levels of submission. There are relationships where the dynamic exists both in and out of the bedroom, and to varying extents:

For example: 1) The dominant could call all the ...

Sat Sep 18, 2021 3:40 am • 18 Replies • 7800 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

434

Help

Well as far as the "professional Help" advice, this shouldnt be taken as "You're Crazy." Rather, it may give you some insights to the choice you have: Remain with your partner who you obviously love ...

Sat Sep 18, 2021 3:26 am • 5 Replies • 3684 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Help

435

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

My first relationship with a domme ended because she wanted it to evolve into a 24/7 type total power exchange right away, and I wasn't ready for that. She scared me off, in other words.

A potenti ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 6:39 am • 18 Replies • 7800 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Lifestyle vs “bedroom” play

436

Help

What was it that attracted you to her originally? You obviously love her and are obviously physically attracted to her. But sometimes accepting people for who they are, also means accepting them for ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 2:51 am • 5 Replies • 3684 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Help

437

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

I'd like to make a comment on the point that "Closeted Freak" made above, that the quickest way to scare off a woman was to appear too submissive.

While, to an extent people are hard wired, it is a ...

Wed Sep 08, 2021 5:20 am • 47 Replies • 25349 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Why are dominant women the smallest demographic in BDSM?

438

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

Most of the time, I have found that trying to pursue someone who is not interested (and explicitly tells you so) is a waste of time. Both your time and theirs. I just move on to the next person. An ...

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:47 am • 25 Replies • 9186 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Unfair makes fair. Huh.

439

Whats your favourite toy?

A cock leash (with my dream goddess holding the other end of course) and a cat o'nine tails for Her use, for those times when I'm a bit too out of line.

Sat Sep 04, 2021 2:42 am • 33 Replies • 17998 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Whats your favourite toy?

440

When is it topping from the bottom?

^aching cavern without lucidity...

Wed Sep 01, 2021 6:12 am • 6 Replies • 3750 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Untied

Topic

When is it topping from the bottom?