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age gaps

I am far younger than Bill Belichik, and (quite honestly) far less successful. (Because let's face it, I suspect most of us average dudes haven't coached an NFL team to six super bowl wins.) With th ...

Tue Jan 28, 2025 3:57 am • 25 Replies • 12336 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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age gaps

Looking Back

I suppose there are. Definitely, early on; those intense sub-frenzied feelings were a bit overwhelming the first time I experienced them and I went into it really not knowing a whole lot, and blunder ...

Wed Jan 22, 2025 3:45 am • 14 Replies • 3030 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Looking Back

Is there anyone that is not confused?

As a male sub I could give similarly bleak numbers on femdommes, it's a bit different dymanic though and it depends on where and how you look at it. As far as "Where"- Over the broader internet beyond ...

Mon Jan 20, 2025 11:26 pm • 18 Replies • 6175 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

I have accepted that I am submissive, and ready to roll over and kneel before the one who will accept me as such. That is a powerful and somehow comforting feeling. I could never "Switch" or be dom ...

Sat Jan 18, 2025 9:25 am • 18 Replies • 6175 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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Is there anyone that is not confused?

Music with in

While I never really got into the millennial hard rock style that bands like Breaking Benjamin, 5FDP, Disturbed, 3 Days Grace, etc play, I do like In This Moment quite a bit. Maria has an amazing vo ...

Fri Jan 17, 2025 4:00 am • 10 Replies • 2525 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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Music with in

Loneliness

I don't really have that. I have always been closeted about my needs to submit, and I have nobody I can trust to talk about it with who won't be super negatively judgemental. I fill my life with othe ...

Thu Jan 16, 2025 3:52 am • 13 Replies • 4289 Views

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Steellover

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Loneliness

Music with in

^I was really surprised by how much I vibed with that. It has a melody and subtly cool vibe that just sneaks up on you almost hypnotically, and draws you in. Thanks for sharing.

Thu Jan 16, 2025 3:46 am • 10 Replies • 2525 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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Music with in

Physical attraction

There has to be SOME kind of attraction, yes.

For me, if I want to worship someone as a Goddess, I want someone who takes care of themselves, and in turn, I would do my part to take care of mysel ...

Tue Jan 14, 2025 4:18 am • 24 Replies • 5782 Views

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Steellover

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Generally Speaking

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Physical attraction

Music with in

Metallica- specifically the heavier and more abrasive side to their music. I recently commented about this in a blog post, but I'll add here that a lot of music for me is a catharsis. Heavy, fast, l ...

Fri Jan 10, 2025 6:44 am • 10 Replies • 2525 Views

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Steellover

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Just for Fun

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Music with in

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Searching for your favorite tips and tricks

I can't speak to your dynamic as your plaything may be into different things and respond differently than some.

A lot of D/s play is the psychological aspect, which includes verbal domination as we ...

Tue Jan 07, 2025 4:17 am • 3 Replies • 2350 Views

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Steellover

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Femdom

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Searching for your favorite tips and tricks