Red, yellow, green... evolves

Thanks, very true change is the only constant in life. In vanilla land you can share concern with others but its hard with bdsm as its in the closet. So worried about harming the other person through ...

Wed Dec 18, 2019 11:47 pm • 14 Replies • 8012 Views

Red, yellow, green... evolves

Thanks. You know that feeling when you think your explaing yourself well and then realise you really havent... facepalm. Thanks for your response and i agree with the contract thing, i was think more ...

Tue Dec 17, 2019 11:50 pm • 14 Replies • 8012 Views

Red, yellow, green... evolves

Really appreciate the response. Thank you. I am curious as to how people might handle changes to their role.. personally i don't have a contract or more of a verbal one. Especially when it can change ...

Thu Dec 12, 2019 3:14 am • 14 Replies • 8012 Views

Meeting first Dom from here

Ask a friend to have a catch up afterwards, this can be a safety check in and make sure your okay. Even if they aren't in the lifestyle. Meeting in public. Try to be yourself, it can be nervous meetin ...

Thu Dec 12, 2019 1:54 am • 21 Replies • 12106 Views

Red, yellow, green... evolves

As any relationship develops, things change. Within BDSM this also means boundaries and agreements can change. Im curious as to how people handle this change. Do you review a contract? Have a formal d ...

Sun Dec 08, 2019 9:56 pm • 14 Replies • 8012 Views

I'm so done with Doms

Seems like a few fishing expeditions are going on... i had one that forgot he asked me months ago and contact me as though we hadn't talked.... you can see privious conversation.... facepalm.

Sun Dec 08, 2019 6:22 pm • 23 Replies • 7924 Views

Top 3 things you need when moving into first apartment

Either way make sure you have a bed/mattress somewhere comfy to sleep xx

Sun Dec 08, 2019 5:33 pm • 9 Replies • 3937 Views

Relaxing

Im finding things that used to work in the past that helped me to relax aren't helping too much anymore. Thought it might help to share ideas.

Mon Dec 02, 2019 11:40 pm • 7 Replies • 3487 Views

Relaxing

It can go for anyone really. I suck at relaxing

Mon Dec 02, 2019 1:34 am • 7 Replies • 3487 Views

Relaxing

I have spent the past few weekends trying to relax and chill. Im not very good at relaxing and no its not a euphemism for something else. I know what I would like to do, technically I live in a city.. ...

Sun Dec 01, 2019 3:55 pm • 7 Replies • 3487 Views