In one sentence, describe what your submission or Dominance is.

Shaping the scene so that you can suffer and delight with both grace and beauty, in safety.

Mon Sep 28, 2020 3:08 pm • 61 Replies • 15989 Views

Would you ever tell them?

My vanilla wife is the only one who knows, and she refuses to talk about it with me so I just have swirls of anxiety and doubt about what she really thinks I am.

I recorded audio essays explaining ...

Mon Oct 28, 2019 11:19 am • 58 Replies • 18606 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Helpless.

Sun Oct 27, 2019 12:14 pm • 6668 Replies • 1159165 Views

Just 4 fun: Sexy word game. Rules: Must be a sexy word.

Glossy.

Sat Oct 26, 2019 12:43 am • 6668 Replies • 1159165 Views

Wgen did you first know you were into something different?

I blogged about this on here, but I was four years old.

No, it wasn't sexual back then, but I had a strong desire to play with restraints and the adults around me were shocked. That's when I start ...

Sat Oct 26, 2019 12:39 am • 25 Replies • 15476 Views

Posting a Blog

I would recommend pasting, as it seems that when you save a draft it bakes the post date in then. That means that if you save a draft and spend a week editing it, the post will come up hidden one wee ...

Thu Nov 16, 2017 2:52 pm • 2 Replies • 4698 Views

Who's out there into Latex

I am absolutely a fan of latex, although I'm more into how it looks on women than wearing it myself. I still dress up when the family are away for more than a day, though.

I have been struggling w ...

Tue Nov 07, 2017 3:05 pm • 9 Replies • 6918 Views

Is the 'ed' on "transgendered" offensive or mislea

Full disclosure: I'm a heterosexual cisgender male.

I have seen many trans folk online object to the word "transgendered" as it uses a transitive verb, suggesting that this is some sort of transfor ...

Tue Nov 07, 2017 2:00 pm • 24 Replies • 24755 Views

Meeting People on THE CAGE & Saying Hi!

Greetings. I'm just looking for friends, and to find other people who are struggling with being kinky while staying committed to a monogamous vanilla relationship.

Tue Nov 07, 2017 1:47 pm • 178 Replies • 129133 Views