Looking for help

In other words, it's really hard for a submissive to FEEL submissive towards someone she is having to train.

You're wanting to take on the role and get the partner you want without doing the work. ...

Mon Mar 11, 2019 6:23 am • 9 Replies • 5137 Views

Looking for help

Is it possible in your area for you to attend munches, classes, community events, or find a mentor with a solid reputation? I'd recommend all of these. Also, books! The Heart of Dominance by Anton Ful ...

Sat Mar 09, 2019 1:27 pm • 9 Replies • 5137 Views

Conditioning kinks

Oh, yeah, my thinking is that I'll let him give it a go and see. I am thinking it won't become a true fetish for me, but he will be able to deepen the kink.

Posted about it in the forum more to br ...

Wed Feb 14, 2018 2:34 am • 13 Replies • 10598 Views

Conditioning kinks

Oh, in this case, yes, the intent was clearly stated. :}

Wed Feb 14, 2018 2:12 am • 13 Replies • 10598 Views

Conditioning kinks

Asteria- that's what he's going for, lol!

Tue Feb 13, 2018 11:53 pm • 13 Replies • 10598 Views

Conditioning kinks

It's quite possible. I've gotten people into things because they care about my happiness and wanted to do those things to make me happy. More often then not that's reason enough for someone to get int ...

Tue Feb 13, 2018 10:50 pm • 13 Replies • 10598 Views

Conditioning kinks

Here's a topic for the room-

Do you think it is possible to condition a kink into someone?

Let's say a dominant has a major fetish for stockings. Their submissive feels sexy wearing them, and li ...

Tue Feb 13, 2018 12:15 pm • 13 Replies • 10598 Views

Is The BDSM Lifestyle 'Real'?

For me, it's an orientation. Is being gay a "lifestyle?"

But, does it affect most aspects of my life?

Yes, often in subtle ways, but because it's so much a part of who I am, it has a deep influe ...

Mon Feb 12, 2018 8:54 am • 18 Replies • 19911 Views

Mature Women

You're welcome! And yes, I think you'd qualify as a teleiophile. :}

Tue Jan 30, 2018 4:34 am • 12 Replies • 12518 Views

Mature Women

Still teleiophilia. :}A teleiophile can be any gender and any sexual orientation. The key is the age gap, towards older people.
Recently, "jungophile" has been coined to describe the opposite- those ...

Sun Jan 28, 2018 11:40 pm • 12 Replies • 12518 Views