What Is A Common Misconception About You?

That I am of Japanese heritoge and old farts hold Pearl Harbor against me
MIKI ! I didn't know you were the emperor of Japan in 1941! Besides that, I thought he was a dude! My my, you look so you ...

Sat Nov 11, 2023 4:37 am • 35 Replies • 2800 Views

First Date Horror Stories

You know, I've never understood this. If you have any intention to meet folk for real, or indeed any intention to develop a relationship of any form long term, why would you mislead in such a way?! ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 5:43 am • 50 Replies • 4322 Views

How do you feel?

I suppose I would be a little confused if someone was posting a profile and were wearing a collar. Why would you be wearing a collar if you were seeking a Dom. Doesn't it mean you are already collared ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 5:29 am • 16 Replies • 1222 Views

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

People who had known me at work could obviously see that I am confident, efficient, knowledgable, dependable and turn out a good work product. They would probably see me as an alpha type.
Outside of ...

Mon Nov 06, 2023 1:04 am • 35 Replies • 2800 Views

Which aspects of Total control online thrills you?

Sorry, I don't do online. First of all, I guess you would need some kind of program that includes voice and live video and I don't think I have anything like that.
But if it is in person, to me the t ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 4:47 am • 13 Replies • 1374 Views

Brats of the times

The term “brat” was initially used to describe someone who was subversive or non-compliant.
I agree and would prefer to reject someone with that type of personality.
sometimes including those who en ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 4:33 am • 14 Replies • 1007 Views

Brats of the times

During my childhood, a brat described a kid who constantly tested their parents patience by dis-obeying the rules and other misbehaviors.
In the BDSM realm, I had always ASSUMED it meant a submissive ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 3:59 am • 14 Replies • 1007 Views

The Dom Construction Kit

In 1818 a chick by the name of Mary Shelley wrote a book about a mad doctor who tried to build a man.
Are you talking about "Frankenstein"?
Didn't read the book but loved the comedy movie version s ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 3:49 am • 14 Replies • 1621 Views

The Dom Construction Kit

As far as the mental side; self-confidence (NOT egotism), and persistence are main traits in a Dominant personality. Another telltale sign is the persons past record. Did they accomplish what they set ...

Fri Nov 03, 2023 3:42 am • 14 Replies • 1621 Views

Dominants of every flavor

Control isn't my bag at all. The first thing I would want to do in the beginning of a possible relationship is to show her where everything is in the house so she could begin feeling like it might be ...

Thu Nov 02, 2023 4:27 am • 12 Replies • 1181 Views