Feminization is not humiliation, it's elevation

There is also text book Dommes who do this more often than not thinking it's a way to make a man submissive or more submissive.. It's also a form of self hatred projected onto men by weaker Dommes . O ...

Sat Sep 19, 2020 10:55 pm • 11 Replies • 6215 Views

Financially supporting another

"who is not self sustaining, to be relationship ready. "
You say this about finances but you were gay and married a women
Maybe she felt used by being a beard for decades.

Thu Aug 20, 2020 11:58 pm • 39 Replies • 10085 Views

Does monogamy exist in the D/s world?

 " Doms who have been very up front about me non being the only one and while we had a tacit agreement not to discuss it" Red flag ^
That wasnt a Dom that was a domboi who messaged you ( one of the ...

Wed Jul 22, 2020 2:23 am • 70 Replies • 24597 Views

Should the Dom Approach or should the Sub

"Wait for them to approach you as a submissive" To me is a red flag they submit to anyone claiming to be a Dom/me just as bad as a " Dom/me " trying to assert their title over those are submissive.

Thu Mar 26, 2020 9:12 pm • 21 Replies • 10699 Views

Is she really a sub

Why do " Doms" think it's going to be easier to find a sub 🙄

Sat Mar 14, 2020 8:00 pm • 14 Replies • 7892 Views

Teaching a non-BDSM guy how to be Dom

Idk what info you gave but
Thats called being a Service top

Sat Mar 14, 2020 2:37 pm • 14 Replies • 5514 Views

Mentor no mentor

D/s happens naturally so be careful of those who only want to deal with you as a sub and not a person those who hide behind titles are a red flag . Find people you vibe with
regardless of what catego ...

Tue Jan 14, 2020 7:11 pm • 9 Replies • 2921 Views

Information about Doms

After you've done your research on BDSM Listen to your gut feelings and the more you use your instincts the stronger the instincts get.

Tue Jan 14, 2020 6:36 pm • 18 Replies • 5979 Views

Giving Up

Princess probably found another site or is taking time away from thecage.
And with the amount of pathic men playing Dom no one can blame her.

Tue Jan 14, 2020 6:16 pm • 22 Replies • 10164 Views

Do True Subs exist anymore?

This is a good thread to have newbies read cuz the Dombois to avoid is so obvious if a newbie can't figure it out they shouldn't be in the lifestyle .

Mon Jan 13, 2020 10:55 pm • 70 Replies • 27375 Views