Re: Confused and Hurting

I recently was invovled with a Domme who was great, but after I asked her for a few minuets to calm down she blocked me and hasn't responded to any of my texts. She told me that she was my safe place ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 10:29 pm • 10 Replies • 1197 Views

Re: How best to reply (sub female)

Hi,

I am a complete newbie to being on one of these sites and I’m wondering the proper etiquette on responding to people who message. Is it normal to address them as Sir or another appropriate term ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 8:08 am • 33 Replies • 4252 Views

Re: Need advice on whether wife’s new Dom is shady.

I feel like there are too many red flags here... I am kink positive and support my wife doing what makes her happy.

Stop begging for permission to be angry at your wife and the soon to be ex-dick w ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 10:24 pm • 37 Replies • 3031 Views

Re: Long term relationship is too vanilla

Now she deflects and says the bdsm community is full of damaged people that need therapy.

Can't argue with this. She is absolutely correct.

However, you seem to have something rather special g ...

Mon Feb 13, 2023 6:20 pm • 15 Replies • 1179 Views

Re: Dick pics

Iron World,.

People who have reasoning skills, I hope would realize that they may see some nudity when visiting other peoples profile page.

The key difference is... Blah blah blah

A. I n ...

Thu Jan 19, 2023 1:02 am • 76 Replies • 5297 Views

Re: Dick pics

I really don't know how to deal with guys sending me unsolicited dick pics. I mean, is this something guys think will turn a woman on ?

My dick pic is the first image on my profile.

Iron World ...

Sat Jan 14, 2023 9:28 pm • 76 Replies • 5297 Views

Re: Dick pics

I really don't know how to deal with guys sending me unsolicited dick pics. I mean, is this something guys think will turn a woman on ?

My dick pic is the first image on my profile.

Thu Jan 12, 2023 5:53 pm • 76 Replies • 5297 Views

Re: What do you enjoy more?

Sadists:
What do you enjoy more:
Inflicting pain on your sub and watching the suffering?
Or
Knowing that your sub is enduring the pain for you?

I enjoy watching the suffering in the moment a ...

Mon Dec 26, 2022 12:56 am • 22 Replies • 2267 Views

Happiness in a relationship

We've raised nearly three generations on television, video games and the internet. Psychologically speaking, the human race is a hot mess.

Sat Nov 12, 2022 7:37 am • 29 Replies • 2159 Views

Re: Contract Templates?

I'm in contract negotiations with a sub and there has been some confusion and misunderstandings early on. We have not done anything in person yet. Any advice or resources to help us develop a safe and ...

Mon Oct 31, 2022 10:29 am • 5 Replies • 818 Views