Questions to Subs: Thoughts on Eternity Collars, Anklets, Lock Piercings and other Permanent Items?

Eternity collars are amazing. They have many options and they are quality products. My slave just got his permenant collar for his birthday. A single, black titanium chain with a screw lock. We have s ...

Sun Aug 21, 2022 7:42 am • 31 Replies • 11615 Views

Teaching about BDSM

I would put myself in the category of the friend more than the poster. With that said, maybe I could piggy back on the post itself. I'm learning the ropes here and my question to those does who read ...

Wed Aug 17, 2022 8:17 am • 6 Replies • 1429 Views

Consent is everything

Consent and safety is everything. The consent of the other customers and the consent of the employees are things that should be considered. You don't know their life experiences and whether a conspicu ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 8:19 pm • 48 Replies • 17045 Views

Teaching about BDSM

Dynamic:
I am in an monogamous relationship. My husband/slave and I have a 24/7 power dynamic. Our out of scene dynamic is subtle, but constant.

Situation:
We have a mutual friend who is intere ...

Mon Aug 15, 2022 8:05 pm • 6 Replies • 1429 Views

Hi, I am new.

I would recommend reading their profile before messaging them. That may give you ideas of shared interests as well as seeing if they have a preferred address/pronoun etc. Then strike up a conversation ...

Sat Jul 25, 2020 8:09 am • 7 Replies • 3018 Views

Does monogamy exist in the D/s world?

I am monogamous. I am a Dom. I have made a point of listing that fact first in my profile and that I do not want to be approached for a relationship. I still get ass****s messaging me calling me mistr ...

Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:57 am • 70 Replies • 26940 Views

Disparate Sex Drives

I need some advice. My sub has a much higher sex drive than I do. I want to ensure that he is fully satisfied, not just meet his bare minimum. We have tried something new. I gave him a list of instruc ...

Sat Jul 25, 2020 7:28 am • 3 Replies • 2127 Views

Hello

I am a returning member. I haven't been very active because I have a lot of obligations right now that take up all my time. I joined to learn and share. I am in a monogamous relationship with my husba ...

Thu Feb 06, 2020 11:34 pm • 3173 Replies • 1009100 Views

Punishment

to FabSeverus​(dom male)
That is uncalled for. New Dom's don't always know how to think about punishments. The fact that MistressPink​(dom female) has the courage to ask the question is a s ...

Sun Apr 08, 2018 11:08 pm • 17 Replies • 18662 Views

Refusal to Negotiate in D/s

Since your last post was at least a month ago I do hope that things have improved, either with the Dom in question or with finding a better for fulfilling relationship. Communication is the key to eve ...

Sun Apr 08, 2018 10:55 pm • 14 Replies • 14850 Views