Why do we have profiles?

I generally try to read profiles but, if the profile is on the order of War and Peace, I may just scan it because I really never liked having to read War and Peace or anything like it. I feel a few l ...

Wed Oct 16, 2019 4:03 am • 20 Replies • 9111 Views

Most men don't blog. Why?

To further add to what @BDSM DOM has said, no one is able to put infections into the written word (unless it's a movie script). When writing a blog one might mean one thing and feel it will come acro ...

Wed Oct 16, 2019 3:56 am • 35 Replies • 11103 Views

Online gangbang?

Like @Bigandtall​ said, "Try to keep your face, and identity hidden so it doesn't haunt you later." I've known people who thought all was safe only to find out that someone in their vanilla community ...

Wed Oct 16, 2019 3:38 am • 9 Replies • 4757 Views

Frustrated!!

OR!!! You could just disobey and prepare to enjoy being punished.

Just a thought.

Mon Jul 15, 2019 2:53 am • 15 Replies • 7955 Views

Confused sub

After reading most of the replies I have to say that some are good and some are not so good.

Having been in this lifestyle for more than thirty years I have found that there are many different type ...

Fri Jul 12, 2019 7:47 pm • 12 Replies • 6040 Views

What are your fetishes?

My main kinks are inflicting pain on others but particularly on biologically born women. I don't know why I enjoy inflicting pain more on women but I know it arouses me a great deal. I love seeing t ...

Tue Jul 09, 2019 7:37 am • 75 Replies • 41241 Views

Does age really matter?

To begin with, this is not a reply.

I think I want to watch this post very closely, mainly because I'm 69 years old so you might say I'm on the opposite side of the equation. I really want to know ...

Sun Jun 30, 2019 6:54 am • 30 Replies • 10851 Views

Life is strange or HELP!!!!

@drdomme​(sub female),

"... people are very fickle online and lose interest rapidly.", you said a mouthful.

I'm 69 and have been in this lifestyle for over 30 years. When I came into the lifest ...

Fri Jun 07, 2019 7:52 pm • 12 Replies • 6896 Views

Drop

First let me state that I am not a doctor, psychologist, researcher or in any way associated with the medical arts.

What I believe you are referring to is sometimes called "sub drop." This drop is ...

Wed Jun 05, 2019 7:14 pm • 4 Replies • 3859 Views

Hard limits

@Soulweaver​(dom male),

I'll agree that we only have one side of the story. However, as the OP stated in the very beginning, "...my hard limit is intentional silence. " Since the "dom" REQUIRED h ...

Wed Jun 05, 2019 6:01 pm • 18 Replies • 7013 Views