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I'll "third" the motion.

Mon Dec 03, 2018 4:36 am • 12 Replies • 6138 Views

Suggestion Thread

First, thanks for getting rid of the "default tick" on "Remember Me" at Login. Pity other sites don't get the message. It bites when they presume I want to 'stay logged in after I log out.

Now ...

Sun Dec 02, 2018 4:12 am • 218 Replies • 93210 Views

The Partners That Come Before “Him”

Had to chip in 2 cents... Reminds me of "Waiting to Exhale".. Been so long since I have seen it but I think the gist of the flick is.. Don't wait to exhale. Be on the level with the various Doms ...

Sun Dec 02, 2018 3:59 am • 21 Replies • 11240 Views

Public Play- Fantasy comes to life

Yes i have done that all. It’s just a fantasy being played out. He knows me well and we have build trust. I have safe place, people tracking and ect. I appreciate the advice.

You had me on the firs ...

Sun Dec 02, 2018 3:48 am • 5 Replies • 3968 Views

How do you know...

Speaking for myself, my limits are hard limits. Things I will not try because they're not acceptable to me. Cutting, blood, marking.. anything that is permanent. The other "NO!" is hard pain as in ...

Sun Dec 02, 2018 3:40 am • 14 Replies • 6333 Views

Consent in chat..

I agree with the dudes on this one. One ought to enter a chat room on a site like this prepared to see and read what the place is all about live and in (written) action. If one is overwhelmed, l ...

Thu Nov 29, 2018 6:32 pm • 25 Replies • 7101 Views

In Need of a Community Voice and Opinion

Just to be clear here, I think some may be missing the most problematic issue with White Knight Syndrome.

It's all well and good to call out abuse; the problem here is that Phanes literally claim ...

Tue Nov 27, 2018 11:05 pm • 60 Replies • 24629 Views

In Need of a Community Voice and Opinion

All due respect there is a world of difference between a victim of spousal abuse and someone who is in an online BDSM relationship with someone who is a bit heavy-handed. She doesn't need to try and ...

Tue Nov 27, 2018 2:38 am • 60 Replies • 24629 Views

In Need of a Community Voice and Opinion

Fab-- I saw that. Exactly. (Though you stuck in an extra "k". Finally we agree on something. I know what I like and it's a bit more than the usual D/s situation and while I can't speak for all w ...

Tue Nov 27, 2018 1:40 am • 60 Replies • 24629 Views

In Need of a Community Voice and Opinion

I had a long, windy reply to this but I saw that the "Miss" in the situation spoke up.

It is critical to know that there are differences between a Sub and a Masochist just like a Dom vs a Sadist.
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Mon Nov 26, 2018 11:30 pm • 60 Replies • 24629 Views