being rude

ANY good Dom or owner should be striving to make his sub or slave a better person overall. If they won't even stop to correct and advise, then how much time do you think they have for you at other tim ...

Fri Jul 22, 2022 8:58 pm • 35 Replies • 7440 Views

Coping with loss of first Dom

Time heals all wounds, Give the time, "Some time"

Fri Jul 22, 2022 3:46 pm • 20 Replies • 4382 Views

The most important facts before first meeting and negotiations !

The way I think most real Dom's feel is that you do have the ultimate control, and even if you chose to give that control away which does happen a lot, YOU have to choose the right Dom. So until you f ...

Mon Jul 04, 2022 9:05 pm • 9 Replies • 1886 Views

The most important facts before first meeting and negotiations !

here is a quick summery of how I feel about it all. Your mileage may vary LOL


10 cold hard facts about submission:

If the Dominant wants to collar you before meeting you, building with you, ...

Mon Jul 04, 2022 8:34 pm • 9 Replies • 1886 Views

Searching with nerves

A lot of times as a submissive, you don't want to have to make decisions. However most people on here will agree that you DO get to choose your Dom or owner. you should make that choice very carefully ...

Mon Jul 04, 2022 9:38 am • 22 Replies • 5482 Views

I'm a little self conscious

Listen to your gut feelings and any red flags. They show up for a reason, don't ignore that reason.

BDSM checklists are a great way to start honest and open communication as well as getting an ide ...

Mon May 30, 2022 6:15 am • 11 Replies • 2815 Views