Looking for advice regarding ravage fantasy

I hope it went well, but immediately so many red flags went up for me.

Tue Jul 17, 2018 3:16 pm • 7 Replies • 6229 Views

Turning a vanilla relationship into a d/s relationship

I think the best is to sit down and see what’s shes feeling, where she is at. Maybe she wants to go further, but not deep. Maybe she needs to explore and see what feels right for her. Best advice, ...

Tue Jul 17, 2018 3:13 pm • 4 Replies • 2900 Views

Contact with the dom

Although the OP has left, I think this post has value for others who are new to the lifestyle or new to the lifestyle online.

For myself, I don’t play online ever, and I am extremely reluctant to e ...

Mon Apr 16, 2018 2:09 am • 19 Replies • 16023 Views

STRAIGHT or LESBO

I consider myself open to any gender, but drawn more towards women because not many men can rise to my standards.

First off, lesbo is offensive - period.

Second, are you genuinely interested o ...

Sun Apr 15, 2018 8:35 am • 19 Replies • 11238 Views

HELP

respectfuldominant - I believe Bunnie was replying to the OP - not you.

Are you new to forums and how they work? Just so you’re aware, your response, which is basically a copy and paste from your ...

Sun Apr 15, 2018 8:20 am • 12 Replies • 8465 Views

Why is it so hard for me to find someone?

jeborder - there is absolutely nothing wrong with you or your appearance - full stop. Your not attracting someone has absolutely nothing to do with you, and has everything to do with the folks out th ...

Wed Apr 11, 2018 3:03 pm • 12 Replies • 10674 Views

Why?

That is like asking how many stars there are in the night sky.

You need to kiss a lot of frogs before you find that queen. Sometimes, you need to grow your own - in other words, mentor someone int ...

Sun Jan 21, 2018 2:13 am • 6 Replies • 8027 Views

References

References are only good if the person giving the validation is known to you, and you have some sort of trust relationship with the person.

Otherwise, it’s just one stranger possibly giving validat ...

Sun Jan 21, 2018 2:07 am • 4 Replies • 4921 Views

Decorum: Does labeling yourself a submissive mean strangers should treat you like one?

I identify as a service submissive. As a single practitioner, this means I chose when and where and with whom I exercise this. Just because I like serving, it doesn’t mean I’m inclined or willing to ...

Sun Jan 21, 2018 2:04 am • 21 Replies • 14057 Views