Online Touch Substitutes

Miss B--Yes, I agree with you on the lovense gadgets--really effective when connected. I should use that more...
And NC--You get the Gold Prize for your insightful suggestions. I'm never going to ma ...

Sat Dec 07, 2019 3:27 pm • 12 Replies • 5746 Views

Online Touch Substitutes

Bunnie and SirB --both useful additions to think over...guided masturbation, excellent! And the blindfold and voice sure beats texting, where eyes have to remain open to read... Thanks to you both!

Fri Dec 06, 2019 10:10 pm • 12 Replies • 5746 Views

Online Touch Substitutes

I've been reminded recently by three subs (not all mine!) that what they find worst about being limited to online D/s is the absence of physical touching with their partner.
In my play online, I u ...

Fri Dec 06, 2019 8:02 pm • 12 Replies • 5746 Views

Thoughts on Lessening Shark Attacks

Yes, Master Bear--I've only dealt with the female variety of submissives, and not overly young ones either. Of course I didn't mean to exclude or ignore your variation of submissives, but I have fi ...

Wed Nov 20, 2019 5:10 am • 8 Replies • 3779 Views

Thoughts on Lessening Shark Attacks

Nearly every sub I have talked to has related the same experience in the first few hours/days in The Cage... Schools of rapacious sharks, crude and rude come-ons hitting on a newbie from every dir ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 10:51 pm • 8 Replies • 3779 Views

When a Dom or sub dies

Your friends will provide a buffer of comfort for your grieving, Ms November. There are probably more of us than you suspect....what a shock.
And what good advice.

Thu Nov 14, 2019 7:45 pm • 31 Replies • 9311 Views

On repeat in my head....

Somehow it is not so much the pain and confusion of the ghosting cowards..It becomes your strength in how you fight back to conquer it. the ghoster expects he has inflicted endless pain...
I hope ...

Mon Nov 04, 2019 3:51 am • 19 Replies • 6923 Views

Missing and safety and heartache

Pretty scary,Miss N --

A reminder here never to go off on a first in person meet up with anyone met online without getting and leaving some identifier of the person being met with a trusted frien ...

Sat Nov 02, 2019 9:00 pm • 4 Replies • 2381 Views

My BDSM Test results

You've opened a whole can of worms with this good question, SkyD-- As Kitten's excellent post above notes--the test is a moving target, and doesn't really pin you to the wall.
My sense is that ...

Thu Oct 31, 2019 2:06 pm • 7 Replies • 5031 Views

Routines

I'm with Master Bear and Bunnie on this one...
The instant you see the collar, you focus on knowing the most important person in your life is telling you his need to bond with you, however you b ...

Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:19 pm • 9 Replies • 6030 Views