Thoughts on Lessening Shark Attacks

Nearly every sub I have talked to has related the same experience in the first few hours/days in The Cage... Schools of rapacious sharks, crude and rude come-ons hitting on a newbie from every dir ...

Tue Nov 19, 2019 10:51 pm • 8 Replies • 5027 Views

When a Dom or sub dies

Your friends will provide a buffer of comfort for your grieving, Ms November. There are probably more of us than you suspect....what a shock.
And what good advice.

Thu Nov 14, 2019 7:45 pm • 31 Replies • 13342 Views

On repeat in my head....

Somehow it is not so much the pain and confusion of the ghosting cowards..It becomes your strength in how you fight back to conquer it. the ghoster expects he has inflicted endless pain...
I hope ...

Mon Nov 04, 2019 3:51 am • 19 Replies • 9443 Views

Missing and safety and heartache

Pretty scary,Miss N --

A reminder here never to go off on a first in person meet up with anyone met online without getting and leaving some identifier of the person being met with a trusted frien ...

Sat Nov 02, 2019 9:00 pm • 4 Replies • 3270 Views

My BDSM Test results

You've opened a whole can of worms with this good question, SkyD-- As Kitten's excellent post above notes--the test is a moving target, and doesn't really pin you to the wall.
My sense is that ...

Thu Oct 31, 2019 2:06 pm • 7 Replies • 6722 Views

Routines

I'm with Master Bear and Bunnie on this one...
The instant you see the collar, you focus on knowing the most important person in your life is telling you his need to bond with you, however you b ...

Tue Oct 22, 2019 10:19 pm • 9 Replies • 8462 Views

M/s... new to this

Might be worth reminding that this life is ALL about the journey , not simply racing to the conclusion...
Your Master is savoring the journey. If you relax a bit into the small steps of his leading ...

Wed Oct 02, 2019 4:27 pm • 5 Replies • 3351 Views

Nipples!

Amazing how attention getting is an ordinary bobby pin clipped on each nip. And for more fun, attach them with the loop down, then you can hang a Christmas ornament, of little bells, or just some bi ...

Wed Sep 18, 2019 8:11 pm • 23 Replies • 17336 Views

Wondering.....

Okay, I will give it a shot.
My answer is that Doms and Daddies are not at all homogenized enough to make generalizations. Each will be different, of course, in what he wants.
Only the tools used ...

Mon Sep 16, 2019 2:26 pm • 4 Replies • 2994 Views

Is it ok to ask?

Absolutely ask him. Make clear your needs, your desires, your fears, and your limits.
Will he answer the way you hope?

Who can tell? That is why you have to ask, hoping he will offer answe ...

Thu Aug 22, 2019 8:59 pm • 31 Replies • 23346 Views