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Four Words

Oooh fun!

Ok, first one that comes to mind:

Consensually Negotiated Power-Exchange Relationship/Dynamic/Lifestyle

I’m sure there’ll be others that come to mind…

That's 7

I said 4 ...

Fri Apr 18, 2025 1:32 pm • 27 Replies • 6720 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Four Words

132

Four Words

If you only had four words to describe D/s to other people, what would those four words be?

(Let's not include the BDSM ones. We need to be original here)

I'll post my four after we have a few ...

Fri Apr 18, 2025 3:25 am • 27 Replies • 6720 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Four Words

133

Cheating kink

Really the question becomes how do you define "cuckhold". Do you have to be present during her fornication with others, or does your knowing she is out there banging others without you around fall ...

Thu Apr 10, 2025 8:38 pm • 5 Replies • 4225 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Fetish

Topic

Cheating kink

134

What does slavery mean?

A Master(Mistress)/slave relationship is very Old School type of BDSM. Back in my day, it was top echelon of relationships. The slave was property to the M type and each side fully understood wha ...

Thu Apr 10, 2025 8:30 pm • 13 Replies • 7853 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

What does slavery mean?

135

Is fear a kink?

Now I will say that I have had s types read my profile, look at my pics and tell me I am scary.

Which I think it pretty cool, but not in the idea of inducing fear during a scene.

Mainly I thi ...

Sun Apr 06, 2025 3:29 am • 25 Replies • 12095 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Is fear a kink?

136

question about negotiating a scene

The question, to me, is the timing.

Before hand, during the "negotiations" (I hate that word in conjunction with the lifestyle, but have yet to come up with something different) is perfectly f ...

Sat Apr 05, 2025 4:11 pm • 7 Replies • 4496 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

question about negotiating a scene

137

Ghosting / disappearing

Maybe we can set up a metric of those that disappear the most

Call it

"The Ghostest with the Mostest"

Thu Apr 03, 2025 10:22 pm • 7 Replies • 2195 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Ghosting / disappearing

138

What's worst?

Reading bad grammar is what is the worst.

Thu Mar 27, 2025 11:47 pm • 21 Replies • 6092 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

What's worst?

139

Blow jobs and breathing

There is breathing going on down there?

So I probably shouldn't be pinching their nose shut when I am balls deep in someone's mouth huh.

Mon Mar 10, 2025 1:47 am • 8 Replies • 3699 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Blow jobs and breathing

140

Brat Taming Advice

Simple way is to quit talking to them.

My not so humble opinion is brats are attention wanters. They think it is all cutesy and shit to be like that. So don't give them the attention t ...

Fri Mar 07, 2025 5:26 pm • 16 Replies • 9021 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Brat Taming Advice