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A question

And there is the main argument I have had with a great deal of people over the decades of my involvement in the lifestyle:

"Once you take the physical out of the relationship, D/s still works". ...

Sun Dec 28, 2025 10:34 pm • 9 Replies • 971 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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A question

People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

This is both sad and funny at the same time.

I'll get to the latter part in a bit.

First off: I find it somewhat unsurprising. As I have progressed in the lifestyle, I have seen people of bot ...

Fri Dec 19, 2025 9:18 pm • 15 Replies • 1566 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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People using AI chat to engage (manipulate?) on meet sites

What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”

Being the Old School bastard I am, I think "Owe" is a very correct term for the obligation a Dom has to their property.

As the lifestyle has evolved during the time I have been part of it, supp ...

Thu Dec 18, 2025 11:28 pm • 29 Replies • 3325 Views

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TopekaDom

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What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”

Love
Honor
Cherishment

also

Structure
Discipline
Commitment

Thu Dec 18, 2025 6:27 pm • 29 Replies • 3325 Views

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TopekaDom

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What do you think a dominant owes their partner?”

What New Features & Improvements Would You Like to See for 2026?

Free Hotdogs

(which would be difficult to obtain)

But seriously:

When you have someone blocked, can you make their posts vanish as well? It is rather annoying to see someone's words come ...

Mon Dec 15, 2025 10:16 pm • 29 Replies • 3425 Views

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TopekaDom

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What New Features & Improvements Would You Like to See for 2026?

Lesbians sucking cock

I know it is bad form for a Male Dom to be posting in this forum and what you may think is wank material but hear me out please:

While plotting out a new story, I have a Domme with a female slave w ...

Sat Dec 13, 2025 6:47 pm • 11 Replies • 2214 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lesbian BDSM

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Lesbians sucking cock

Which BDSM book hooked your female imagination the hardest?

The Story of O is always a good read. Though not for the faint of heart and, probably, not suitable as a primer for the lifestyle.

Fri Dec 12, 2025 6:34 pm • 22 Replies • 3487 Views

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TopekaDom

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Which BDSM book hooked your female imagination the hardest?

First time owning my female GF … she wants to use her

Just in the bedroom?

That isn't ownership, that is topping. Which is fine, but you need to define it for what it is. Ownership just isn't kink. It goes way beyond that.

Thu Dec 11, 2025 3:43 pm • 7 Replies • 830 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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First time owning my female GF … she wants to use her

Low, middle, or high

The main problem is there are very few, on either side of the collar, that can handle High Protocol.

More and more people are just interested in the kinky sex aspects of the lifestyle. The ment ...

Fri Dec 05, 2025 12:33 am • 18 Replies • 2543 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Low, middle, or high

The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.

And still others simply whine because women won't roll over for them because they lack a fundamental skill set in communication and relationship building.

Then blame the women for it.

Tue Dec 02, 2025 4:18 am • 24 Replies • 3296 Views

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TopekaDom

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The Lost Art of True Femininity in The West.