Do Dom/mes Settle?

Trigger Warning

I am not advocating for breaking Hard/soft Limits. Before anyone starts pissing and moaning, please read the entire discussion, then form your reply


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Fri Oct 27, 2023 10:05 pm • 13 Replies • 3107 Views

What Really Turns You On

Women walking around barefooted

Fri Oct 27, 2023 1:23 pm • 94 Replies • 20669 Views

What really pisses you off?

You want to know what really burns my ass?


Really burns, I mean!!!



A flame about 3 feet high

Wed Oct 25, 2023 11:52 pm • 66 Replies • 14044 Views

Are your fantasies holding you back?

No not really.

To be really honest, I've done things or been part of things a great deal of this site does consider fantasy. Somethings I've done once and won't do again, others I wish I could d ...

Tue Oct 24, 2023 1:04 am • 14 Replies • 4631 Views

Light Kink to the Extremes

There are indeed.

Being kinky is not a matter of competitiveness, seeing who can out kinky everyone else. It is a matter of what one likes and dislikes. That is why limits exist.

Mon Oct 23, 2023 4:06 pm • 2 Replies • 941 Views

Punishment

Punishment, within the lifestyle, is something that has been perverted.

In my not so humble opinion.

In reality, it is something done to correct a behavior that is wrong in a given relationsh ...

Mon Oct 23, 2023 3:14 pm • 60 Replies • 15015 Views

'Can we talk? Can we be friends?'

So, a whole bunch of us feel similarly. ?

What a shame that the people who send these messages, are highly unlikely to read the forums and blogs...

Send them a link to this thread when they writ ...

Thu Oct 19, 2023 1:39 pm • 17 Replies • 3828 Views

Checklist - Bootblacking

Now here is something you don't hear much about anymore. At least I don't.

It is the simple art of cleaning a Dom/me's boots while wearing them. Now it could be that Dom/mes simply don't wear ...

Wed Oct 18, 2023 11:09 pm • 5 Replies • 1816 Views

What kind of submissive?

So I have come to refer to myself as more of a “free-range slave” lol.

So they let you out of the cage for an hour or so?

Wed Oct 18, 2023 1:38 am • 13 Replies • 2835 Views

What kind of submissive?

Sounds more like a brat to me than anything.

Really you should be what you want to be. Don't let tests tell you anything. Mostly they are crap. Everyone has a different viewpoint on what the ...

Tue Oct 17, 2023 10:02 pm • 13 Replies • 2835 Views