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Fetish or erogenous zone(?)

By the original definition, I would say it is an erogenous zone. Having a given area being touched, which brings you sexual arousal, is the definition of erogenous zone.

But....

Like many th ...

Wed Nov 22, 2023 9:02 pm • 8 Replies • 2292 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Fetish or erogenous zone(?)

422

Thanksgiving

TopekaDom wrote:
"Luckily for me, I don't base my holiday on some dead radio host, who the world is better off without."

As sick as I am, I have to say that this comment was TOTALLY inappropriate. ...

Wed Nov 22, 2023 6:15 pm • 22 Replies • 5052 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Thanksgiving

423

Thanksgiving

Luckily for me, I don't base my holiday on some dead radio host, who the world is better off without.

Instead, I gather with my family and do a traditional roast Turkey, which I am going to brine t ...

Wed Nov 22, 2023 5:18 pm • 22 Replies • 5052 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Thanksgiving

424

Humiliation and Degradation Questions

Have any of you considered the unsanitary and health issues that come with urine and being pissed on? This does damage to your kidneys, skin and makes you susceptible to all kinds of viruses and infec ...

Sun Nov 19, 2023 12:32 am • 27 Replies • 8004 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Humiliation and Degradation Questions

425

Humiliation and Degradation Questions

In the past, I have found humiliation and CNC to run hand in hand.

Now the thing is one has to explain all this before an actual relationship starts. During what people call "Negotiations" (ba ...

Sat Nov 18, 2023 3:49 pm • 27 Replies • 8004 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Humiliation and Degradation Questions

426

Specifying 'new to lifestyle' in your search

Sadly, I often find Doms (thus far, my experience is with only the male gender) who say the want inexperienced subs are simply predators looking to blindside someone.

Now I have done my share o ...

Fri Nov 17, 2023 4:58 am • 2 Replies • 1533 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Specifying 'new to lifestyle' in your search

427

Subs: How do you feel...

I thought I would make a companion thread to one already list on the forum.

Putting it on the other side of the collar, as it were.

Subs:

How do you feel when you go to look at a Dom/me's ...

Wed Nov 08, 2023 7:09 pm • 11 Replies • 3406 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Subs: How do you feel...

428

How do you feel?

If it is that big a turn off, then they are better off.

Photos give no indication what, if anything, a collar says.

Could be a play collar, could be a simple decoration, could be a mark of o ...

Tue Nov 07, 2023 10:42 pm • 16 Replies • 3589 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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How do you feel?

429

What Is A Common Misconception About You?

That I am always nice to people.

You piss me off and I will turn my back on you like Paul Cicero did to Henry Hill in Goodfellas.

And I do not forgive.

Sun Nov 05, 2023 3:49 pm • 35 Replies • 7896 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What Is A Common Misconception About You?

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Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

There isn't any reason not to set an age limit. I have one of my own, but I just don't advertise it. I think telling people they are outside it from the get go means they are going to simply com ...

Sat Nov 04, 2023 9:25 pm • 49 Replies • 12057 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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Am I wrong for setting an age limit?