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Sex clubs/swinger clubs

Don't interrupt a scene. As long as the DMs are competent, keep any thoughts you have about what is going on to yourself.

Wed Aug 23, 2023 6:56 pm • 11 Replies • 2793 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Sex clubs/swinger clubs

532

The Term: Little one

Dom/mes: Do you still use this term of endearment to s types working around you?

s types: Do you find this term not so endearing?

Discuss

Wed Aug 23, 2023 3:15 pm • 24 Replies • 7278 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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The Term: Little one

533

Rope play

Best advice I can give is no slip knots and always have safety scissors handy.

plus maybe not to start with noose play.

Sat Aug 19, 2023 1:42 pm • 6 Replies • 1529 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Equipment & Toys

Topic

Rope play

534

Switch? What is that!

Well that is something I"ve been dealing with for about 30 years or so now.

Course it is a big pile of crap. That is like saying LGBQ people are simply engaging in a "choice".

One is not n ...

Fri Aug 18, 2023 8:38 pm • 18 Replies • 3572 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Switch? What is that!

535

Re: ...

Bob?

Surely it would be Bob Walker?

That make the other side of that "bobit walker"?

Thu Aug 17, 2023 3:18 am • 9 Replies • 2002 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

D/s Collar Terms

536

D/s Collar Terms

Bob?

Wed Aug 16, 2023 2:29 am • 9 Replies • 2002 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

D/s Collar Terms

537

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

No it isn't right and, yes, it has been going on for years now. If not decades.

Largely it comes from self important pricks who think because they are dimlyDoms they can do as they think regar ...

Sat Aug 12, 2023 12:32 am • 25 Replies • 6510 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Victim Blaming and Rape Culture in Kink

538

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

I got that list, Kyiv. I'm seeking personal recommendations.

Sat Aug 05, 2023 6:39 pm • 3 Replies • 1268 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

539

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

I have a very good friend who is becoming interested in the lifestyle, on the submale side. However while I can provide him with the ins and outs of the lifestyle, he lives around Phoenix AZ and I d ...

Sat Aug 05, 2023 5:48 pm • 3 Replies • 1268 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

Topic

Seeking info on Lifestyle groups in or around Phoenix AZ

540

Wife wants a scene

Well that seems like a terrible idea for a first scene. Someone could fill a book with all the ideas on how that could go wrong.

Fri Aug 04, 2023 2:39 pm • 18 Replies • 4936 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Wife wants a scene