For the Sadists, I'm curious as to why

It is a very easy question for me to answer:

I want to see how far someone will go for me. What they are willing to put up with to please me. What level of pain, tears, humiliations are they w ...

Mon May 29, 2023 5:31 pm • 37 Replies • 17769 Views

Is it really that difficult…

Nope. Not for me. I read profiles all the time.

Mon May 29, 2023 5:25 pm • 25 Replies • 7211 Views

Making the first move

I guess, to me, it all depends on what one calls "The first move".

If you talking about simply making contact, then I do not care what way it goes. Emails, coming to to either one at a meet or w ...

Mon May 29, 2023 4:02 pm • 26 Replies • 7695 Views

LIMITS as stated in your profile

Because people are dicks.

Someone slides into a PM and starts talking about shit you don't want to hear about. Posting limits should keep things on an even flow.

That is, if they actually r ...

Sun May 07, 2023 3:40 pm • 39 Replies • 8945 Views

Power exchange lifestyle vs kink

Doms are not the only ones who abuse the trust. I know from personal experience there are those inside the collar who take advantage of a given relationship. Doms place their honor and strength on ...

Sun Apr 23, 2023 11:17 pm • 7 Replies • 2781 Views

BDSM

I am not sure it is something that can be taught.

I have about 30 years in all this and I still find new faucets to the jewel of BDSM. But I will tell you what my viewpoint is:

It has nothi ...

Fri Apr 21, 2023 2:11 am • 8 Replies • 3335 Views

Gay for a man to love being pegged?

Anal penetration has nothing to do about being gay. Why do you associate it with such? That is one of the things we, as a society have to unlearn.

You like being pegged? Great, but why ...

Sun Apr 16, 2023 7:51 pm • 15 Replies • 5061 Views

BAN SILENT BLOCKS!!!.. the site needs to be updated.

I would love to see the coding to ban something like this.

But let's face a fact or two. If one says stupid things in a public forum and other see it, they are going to block you as they fi ...

Mon Apr 03, 2023 12:05 am • 34 Replies • 9949 Views

Bondage

No slip knots.

Sat Mar 11, 2023 6:57 pm • 8 Replies • 2961 Views

Locked in Closet to Sleep

Never done a closet, due to concerns of air supply. But have done it with a cage. However, I would suggest properly placed cuffs and straps to rope bondage. A great deal less of issues with circ ...

Mon Mar 06, 2023 5:59 pm • 34 Replies • 10065 Views