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Sir in the South

Being old school in the vanilla world, as well as with in the lifestyle, I tend to greet those new to me as Sir or Ma'am regardless of age or occupation. Simple curtesy. However, if they do not ret ...

Mon Feb 27, 2023 12:38 am • 8 Replies • 3154 Views

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TopekaDom

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Absolute Beginners

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Sir in the South

612

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

[quote="I'mME"

I'm not sure as I have not given it any deep thought, on the ownership of someone if they Switch to Dom with their own sub.

I have seen profiles on FET, where this was the situat ...

Fri Feb 24, 2023 2:32 pm • 17 Replies • 6712 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

613

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

TopekaDom,
Had you any experience with a partner being a Switch before? Did you suggest that she may enjoy a sub or did she suggest it?
And how did you initially feel when the power exchange shif ...

Fri Feb 24, 2023 4:02 am • 17 Replies • 6712 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

614

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

Now I quoted "Topekadom" only to say that she must be an understanding and relatively open-minded gal, your bride, because I for one would have made you get rid of that damned pipe!

XD

We all ...

Fri Feb 24, 2023 12:18 am • 17 Replies • 6712 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

615

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

Marriage, like many things, is what you make of it. I met my wife on the old bondage.com site. At that time, she identified as a sub and was simply looking for D/s experience. As time went on, ...

Thu Feb 23, 2023 5:18 pm • 17 Replies • 6712 Views

Author

TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Are you in a BSDM marriage?

616

How best to reply (sub female)

How you reply is up to you. Some use Honorifics, others don't.

But....

Just because someone tacks on "LordHighMuckyMuck" on as a screen tag does not mean you have to automatically require y ...

Wed Feb 22, 2023 3:23 pm • 33 Replies • 14467 Views

Author

TopekaDom

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

How best to reply (sub female)

617

Potential site improvements?

A self destruct button. Every good lair has a self destruct button. We don't actually have to wire it to anything, but it should have like a clear lid we flip up and a key to turn before we push ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:44 am • 29 Replies • 9494 Views

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TopekaDom

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Technical Support

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Potential site improvements?

618

Crossing a line?

Being accused of satanism is a big pile of crap. christian nationalist label anything they don't like as "satainist". Its a simple control issue. I have been putting up with it for decades now. ...

Tue Feb 21, 2023 5:38 am • 9 Replies • 3926 Views

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TopekaDom

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Fetish

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Crossing a line?

619

CNC fun ~

Well back in the 2000s, I used to be part of real time group that grew out of am Alt.com chat room. We used to meet once a year in St. Louis. About 200 people or so.

Anyway, I took this piece ...

Thu Feb 16, 2023 3:15 pm • 9 Replies • 5159 Views

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TopekaDom

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Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

CNC fun ~

620

What do you enjoy more?

It is the absolute level of trust that the s type gives to me when I want to do some outrageous things to them.

Well that and tears.

Tears give me a massive hard on.

Wed Feb 15, 2023 7:33 pm • 22 Replies • 8532 Views

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TopekaDom

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Generally Speaking

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What do you enjoy more?