Song that describes you or your feelings

Angry Anderson -- "Suddenly"
Christina Perri -- "Arms"

Some of the meaningful phrases:

Suddenly you're seeing me just the way I am..
Suddenly every part of me needs to know every part of you ...

Mon Apr 14, 2025 8:05 am • 451 Replies • 101391 Views

Re: question about negotiating a scene

In my view, sharing one's interests, desires, wants, needs outside of a scene is not Topping from the bottom. Most Masters/Doms/Tops I know want to know their play partners interests. However it is th ...

Mon Apr 14, 2025 12:15 am • 7 Replies • 3660 Views

Re: Insight

Yesterday, I went to my first ever BDSM event. And I am over the moon with the experience
..... But i am just not sure about what happened to me last night. was that a subspace? Can i go into subsp ...

Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:49 pm • 15 Replies • 2639 Views

Re: Are you submissive or are you just lazy

I see a lot of subs who's whole selling point is that they are nothing but a pile of garbage who can be used for sex and humiliation.
...I'm starting to think that there is just a lack of effort and ...

Sun Apr 13, 2025 11:06 pm • 33 Replies • 12960 Views

A question of philosophy - submissive's journey

Who vets the Doms, (and subs for that matter) and how might the “training plan” be set up. What kind of “learning activities/subjects” are we talking about.

In the past, subs wanting to learn a sp ...

Sun Feb 09, 2025 5:58 am • 5 Replies • 1266 Views

Is fear a kink?

As individuals, some might use fear as a personal motivator that causes one to behave in certain ways, possibly taking risks one might not otherwise consider taking. Some often use fear and the desire ...

Sun Feb 09, 2025 5:37 am • 25 Replies • 9424 Views

Re: Q for female subs - Which punishment?

Question for submissive females.

Let's say you have an important relationship, and you do something terrible, which reaction do you prefer from your Man:
- To be beaten, slapped in the face, endin ...

Thu Feb 06, 2025 8:35 pm • 70 Replies • 19584 Views

Sub healing

Positive, healthy, constructive relationships of all kinds often displace hurts and trauma of the past. And these relationships come in a variety of firms. The challenge is the conscious and personal ...

Tue Oct 15, 2024 2:35 pm • 15 Replies • 3358 Views

Jeeze

My mantra: Stay Safe, Choose Wisely

Tue Oct 15, 2024 2:22 pm • 36 Replies • 6174 Views

Is Height a Fetish for you?

While I don’t find it challenging to see eye to eye with most folks,
I much prefer looking up.
But then I suppose kneeling would fix that, or perhaps a blindfold.
???

Tue Oct 15, 2024 2:19 pm • 32 Replies • 11921 Views