Taking it or giving it in the ass

Butt plugs. Butt play. Anal. Love all of it. But oddly have had partners who weren't into it so went without it. People are missing out, though, cause analgasms are *chef's kiss*

Wed Mar 20, 2024 11:42 pm • 24 Replies • 3989 Views

Do you block or have you been blocked?

Ignoring messages doesn't seem to work and the progression of aggressive/mean contact because I don't answer or have said no wasn't worth my sanity. So, block. No idea if I've been blocked by someone, ...

Tue Mar 19, 2024 3:44 am • 62 Replies • 8639 Views

Life Hacks

Mine are mostly baking-related (because of course!)
1. Tablespoon of vinegar or lemon juice per cup of milk = buttermilk. Cause I always forget to buy it....
2. Uncooked rice on the bottoms of a mu ...

Tue Mar 19, 2024 3:36 am • 23 Replies • 2047 Views

Dungeon/Toys After Death

May it be written into my obituary, "She lived a kinky life filled with debauchery. She will be missed" ? My family is already mildly aware of my proclivities and my best friend is my designated "dele ...

Tue Mar 19, 2024 3:28 am • 23 Replies • 2666 Views

Kink education

Realized I didn't answer the question re: the dynamic bit. I'd prefer that my partner and I attend classes or at least learn things together. For me, it's mostly from a safety viewpoint. Since I'm sol ...

Tue Mar 19, 2024 1:18 am • 14 Replies • 2013 Views

Forum Fightclub

Half the things people say in forums or online they would neverrrr say to someone's face.

I am much more offensive in someone's face. I stand corrected! haha

Mon Mar 18, 2024 11:13 pm • 144 Replies • 19866 Views

Forum Fightclub

If I feel like I don't have anything productive to add, I will refrain from chiming in. But sometimes the sassy side will decide otherwise lol but even then, I do my best to not be a dick about it. Re ...

Mon Mar 18, 2024 11:00 pm • 144 Replies • 19866 Views

Kink education

I attend classes at one dungeon I frequent. I've done a wax play and intro to rope class so far. But there are various classes around my area that I try to make it to. Also seek out kink educators (Ms ...

Mon Mar 18, 2024 10:52 pm • 14 Replies • 2013 Views

Share Your Aftercare Tips and Advice

I swear by Arnica! I've used it for post surgery recovery and impact play. I heal pretty quickly regardless, but it helps immensely for both pain and the physical bruising.

Aftercare for me (varie ...

Fri Jan 12, 2024 3:27 am • 13 Replies • 2485 Views

Calling All Collectors ?

I collect plants...? haha Though I haven't added any new ones lately, BUT haven't killed off any either! Ooh! I collect cookbooks (mostly baking, obvi). And then Christmas ornaments from places I've t ...

Fri Jan 05, 2024 5:21 am • 47 Replies • 6058 Views