Are Sex Fantasies Dangerous?

I read about myself totally in this thread. I have used writing to explore my hidden D/s fantasies for many years. They started 'normal' but as new topics presented themselves for further expansion I ...

Mon Sep 18, 2023 6:42 pm • 18 Replies • 2100 Views

Puzzled over the idea of "soft" floggers

They make floggers out of elks? Blimey! Don't the antlers sting a bit?

Mon Sep 18, 2023 12:37 am • 20 Replies • 2800 Views

Any littles or adult babies on the site?

I feel I am on the cusp of understanding the potentially wonderful qualities of middles but have not quite got the scope of the dynamic worked out in my head. Is there an illuminating resource I shoul ...

Tue Jul 25, 2023 10:16 am • 50 Replies • 9526 Views

incorporating bdsm into every day life and living

Although text messages are obvious, I love to use them for 'in the moment' direction. This requires a lot of trust in the Dom not to demand anything that would lead the sub into trouble of any kind, b ...

Sat Jul 15, 2023 9:35 pm • 16 Replies • 4312 Views

Stupid questions for Women

I have a stupid question please...

I believe there is a lot of truth in the maxim that men’s brains are led by their dicks. We are easily and quickly aroused and then find it hard to ignore this pr ...

Sat Jul 15, 2023 12:52 pm • 83 Replies • 12831 Views

Openness as a challenge to finding relationship

I do think this might be a man thing, although not exclusively. We are taught from a very early age not to cry, take it on the chin, be strong, don't overshare with your mates. It is conditioning. Sha ...

Sun Jun 25, 2023 11:05 am • 11 Replies • 2169 Views