BDSM, Love & Romantic Relationships

The same way you manage your feelings in a non bdsm/ds relationship.

You communicate. You share. You talk. You listen. You talk some more, etc

People fuck about with people's emotions in all kin ...

Wed Aug 30, 2023 4:25 am • 11 Replies • 2136 Views

Sex clubs/swinger clubs

Little Vixie covers it.

Most clubs have policies/areas re what you can and can't do. Eg things like knives/needles in a designated area where blood can easily be cleaned up.

But even the less vi ...

Tue Aug 29, 2023 11:29 pm • 11 Replies • 1501 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

Smile. And a big hug.

They aren't dominants, a lot of them. They're after a bit of kink. A woman who'll 'yes Sir' them immediately, a woman who'll send pics. A woman who'll agree to be theirs, wank ...

Tue Aug 29, 2023 2:50 am • 21 Replies • 3456 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

@Celestial Luna

When you dip a toe in bdsm/Ds waters, as a submissive female, whether online or real life, it is a feeding frenzy of men waiting to pounce.

And waiting to tell you the way to do/ ...

Tue Aug 29, 2023 2:06 am • 21 Replies • 3456 Views

Sex clubs/swinger clubs

Be prepared to see things you may not wish to see. Hear things you may not wish to hear.

Do not interfere with others' play unless invited to do so.

Don't talk to someone who's strung up/tied u ...

Sun Aug 27, 2023 12:38 pm • 11 Replies • 1501 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

It's interesting to read all of the responses.

It seems, by accident, I stirred the pot 😉

You will find as many opinions as there are kink folk.

When you start out, it's easy to be swayed by ...

Sat Aug 26, 2023 11:22 pm • 21 Replies • 3456 Views

A call to: Alpha Female Subs

I've been around a while. I have to tell you that anyone who bangs on about being alpha, dominant or submissive, is generally a bit of a dick.

Sat Aug 26, 2023 12:34 pm • 21 Replies • 3456 Views

Can a sub develop a tolerance for impact play?

Yep... Leather bum 😁

But, on a more serious note, as others have said, a decent top /dominant has the skills to build, and build, and build sensation. If you had told me the level of whipping /can ...

Sat Aug 26, 2023 12:30 pm • 11 Replies • 1996 Views

Yep... I agree with this...

I am not a fan of any terms like this. I prefer someone who gets to know me, and something comes organically, not just a term thats been used by them with others.

About the only things that I find, ...

Sat Aug 26, 2023 12:25 pm • 24 Replies • 3953 Views

Switch? What is that!

I think one can play all manner of games, as one sees fit, depending on the people involved. It doesnt make it 'pretending'


Men whose profiles blare 'natural born alpha, dominant in all arenas of ...

Sat Aug 19, 2023 12:31 am • 18 Replies • 2048 Views