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Submission, is it Nature or Nurture

Well, there are definitions that we must explore before we can really answer that. All of these have been taken from the Merriam-Webster website.

-Submission:
-- a. an act of submitting somet ...

Fri Apr 04, 2025 6:46 pm • 21 Replies • 9909 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Submission: is it someone's choice or their nature?

Why i ghost.

I'll play devils advocate and say I've ghosted and block without giving someone a reason.

Here's why:
They were making me extremely uncomfortable. Not listening to me, being overly sexual and ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 3:48 pm • 21 Replies • 4327 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Generally Speaking

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What's worst?

Addressing needs as a submissive

It sounds like you need to ask for an Out of Dynamic discussion about your needs.

Do you have a contract? If so, it might be time to re-evaluate and renegotiate it. If you do not, it might be t ...

Fri Mar 14, 2025 6:35 pm • 11 Replies • 6370 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Absolute Beginners

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Addressing needs as a submissive

tips and tricks

It is a lot of trial and error learning both of your bodies and rhythms.

Practice can be fun though, and a light hearted approach can help with gaining power and comfort over the present emotiona ...

Sat Mar 08, 2025 6:18 pm • 8 Replies • 3204 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Absolute Beginners

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Blow jobs and breathing

Submission or Domination??

Even in the overall roles we fill, in the throws of the acts we engage in, depending on how narrowly you define it, there's some switchery.

Is that not the very definition of power exchange?

Tue Feb 18, 2025 12:16 am • 15 Replies • 3255 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Generally Speaking

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Submission or Domination??

Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Echoing the ENM response. Linkage to others isn't the issue in this thought experiment, it's whether those links have consented in advance. Contextually, it seems as though those two links are being ...

Mon Jan 27, 2025 4:39 pm • 14 Replies • 2848 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Thought Experiment or Philosophy Question:

Adding an extra traffic light?

You aren't the only one that thought three levels of the scale aren't enough. This is one of those systems.

1 - Good to go; not anxious, no pain
2 - Good to go, a little nervous or anxious so keep ...

Wed Jan 08, 2025 6:10 am • 9 Replies • 1488 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Lifestyle BDSM

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Adding an extra traffic light?

my thoughts

I agree with water - it just too delicious not to keep hydrated. At that helps my skin etc.

i wish i could understand this statement. Water tastes vile to me without some flavoring in it. Tea, ...

Wed Nov 20, 2024 1:54 pm • 53 Replies • 6902 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Generally Speaking

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Health, diet, and exercise… What do you do?

Forum Fightclub

It is sorta like eating a limp dick that has already ejectulated.

That... is a way of describing it.

Fri Sep 13, 2024 7:55 pm • 163 Replies • 42723 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub

Soggy bread is a travesty... but soggy cereal is good.

Fri Sep 13, 2024 10:21 am • 163 Replies • 42723 Views

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SavageLuminescence

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Generally Speaking

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Forum Fightclub